Hello new n young. Welcome to Queer Parenting! Are you and your partner married? That will make some of the legal issues easier when you have a child. There are a few things that can help you get started with trying to conceive. If you click on "Queer Parenting Resources" at the top of the Queer Parenting forum main page you will see a list of helpful things like this book. http://www.amazon.com/Essential-Guide-Lesbian-Conception-Pregnancy/dp/1555839401/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1393355336&sr=8-1&keywords=stephanie+brill
Have you started charting your cycles? There are websites and apps that can help you do this. The book above has info on charting also.
Have you decided on whether you will use a sperm bank or a known donor?
Will you be doing it yourself at home or working with a clinic or doctor?
The Queer Conceptions thread in this forum is a great place to get support in your trying to conceive journey. Feel free to join anytime.