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post #21 of 61
You know, I mentioned this in another thread that Frank was in on here, but first of all, you have to get women to WANT to do oral on a guy in the FIRST PLACE! Circ'd or not it isn't gonna matter! Now as for me, the more he has the more I have to work with.
post #22 of 61
DH made some stupid comment about how girls wouldn't want to be with DS3 intact. I said if any girl doesn't want to be with him over his penis alone, then she isn't the girl for him and girls plural?? He then said something about being intact and getting an STD. I said I hoped I talked enough to my children (all of them) so they weren't taking risks to get an STD in the first place.
I had someone at work today ask how the circ would work if we had a homebirth. I said I no longer circ'd my sons. ds1 and 2 are circ'd and I regret it, ds3 and any future boys will remain intact.
post #23 of 61
OK, lets step back and take a breather!

Think back to the first time you did oral sex. Was it something you just jumped into and did immediately? Did you have to think about it a while? Wasn't it something that you had some aversion to at first? I know it was for me. I had to think about it and had to become aclimated to the thought of doing it. When I did finally do it, it took a while to get past the hair and the humidity and the scent and the things in my head. It took a few times of coming close and not quite getting there before I actually did it. Of course, once I did it, it was much easier after that and finally became a normal part of making love.

The first time doing it to a man will be the same way and if the woman is not familiar with intact or circumcised, she will have no different feelings for either one. If she has already done it on a circumcised penis, she's going to have to go through that same trepidation again, just not to the same extent as the first time. Those who say they will not do it are just ignorant of the foreskin or didn't care for the man enough to get past that initial aversion.

Granted, there are some men who do not practice normal hygiene just as there are some women who do not practice normal hygiene. Somehow I have been able to sort out those women who don't and it wasn't difficult. There are plenty of signals in their hair, clothing and general grooming. I can't imagine that it is any more difficult to sort out the men who don't practice normal hygiene.

I have never been with a woman who was not scrupulously clean and I can easily imagine if I were female, I would not have been with a man who was not scrupulously clean either. That being the case, if I were female, I can't imagine I would have any more trouble with the intact male anatomy that I had with the intact female anatomy as a male.




Frank
post #24 of 61
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something about being intact and getting an STD
Who is spreading this misinformation? How in the world can circumcision protect against STDs? It cannot! I cannot believe people believe such nonsense!
post #25 of 61
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Originally Posted by Frankly Speaking
OK, lets step back and take a breather!

Think back to the first time you did oral sex. Was it something you just jumped into and did immediately? Did you have to think about it a while? Wasn't it something that you had some aversion to at first?

Frank
Umm.... Yep.... Nope.... Nope! :LOL

(Frank's gonna get so sick me and this topic. :LOL )
post #26 of 61
Don't forget yummy Colin Farrell uses his "intactness" for his prowless y'know !

All the girls want to "see" it

post #27 of 61
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I sure hope we all remember to educate our daughters so that they don't end up being influenced by our seemingly sick society and become as shallow as the ladies who have made these comments.
Exactly! Then hopefully they wont mutilate their babies either, when they have them! The only grown adult penis I have seen is my dh (he's cut) but it would not have mattered if he was intact or not (even before I researched all this stuff) because I love him regardless of what his penis looks like. Its too bad people are so shallow but we dont want those girls marrying our sons anyhow!
post #28 of 61

Saw this on a catering van yesterday:

"Looks can be deceiving,
but eating is believing. . ."
- James Thurber
post #29 of 61

Oh, and my OS code block is. . .

Y,N,N, also.

Unfortunately, there was an, ah, shall we say, dearth of feedback?, and I was, er, how to put it. . .utterly disappointed in my, um, anticipations.
post #30 of 61
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Originally Posted by Acksiom
Y,N,N, also.

Unfortunately, there was an, ah, shall we say, dearth of feedback?, and I was, er, how to put it. . .utterly disappointed in my, um, anticipations.
Really? Hmmm..... I'm not. (Like you couldn't tell.) Well, maybe back then (my first time for that) it wasn't the same... practice makes perfect ya know. :LOL That's just one of my "things" though. Probably WAY more than you ever wanted to know.....
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post #31 of 61
I never experienced a moment of aversion to my dp's intact penis.
post #32 of 61
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Originally Posted by polka123
Don't forget yummy Colin Farrell uses his "intactness" for his prowless y'know !

All the girls want to "see" it


mmmmnn, can't forget Irish bad-boys, that's why I married one.
post #33 of 61
Unfortunately there are shallow women out there but the way I would handle them would be to turn the tables on them.I put more than a few in their place by pointing their physical flaws and as a result shutting them up.
post #34 of 61
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Originally Posted by Nathan1097
Really? Hmmm..... I'm not. (Like you couldn't tell.)
Uh. . .I can't even tell what you mean by "not".


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Originally Posted by Nathan1097
Well, maybe back then (my first time for that) it wasn't the same... practice makes perfect ya know. :LOL
No, I don't, actually.

It's what I hear, yes.

post #35 of 61
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Originally Posted by sbf
I never experienced a moment of aversion to my dp's intact penis.
Ditto for me.
post #36 of 61
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Originally Posted by Acksiom
Uh. . .I can't even tell what you mean by "not".




No, I don't, actually.

It's what I hear, yes.

I meant that I wasn't disappointed in my anticipations! I'm still not!


As for practice makes perfect, that's true for all things! (Putting theory into practice is another matter!) Its mostly about attitude.... but practice helps!
post #37 of 61
My DD is in her mid twenties, and realising that she could maybe influence some of her friends, I initiated a chat about circumcision. She stated that all of her boyfriends have been intact. She is horrified over FGM, and I hope feels the same way over RIC.
post #38 of 61
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Originally Posted by Nathan1097
I meant that I wasn't disappointed in my anticipations! I'm still not!

Good for you, nice to hear that your partner/s not only enjoyed it but communicated that clearly.


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Originally Posted by Nathan1097
As for practice makes perfect, that's true for all things!
I guess that would make me perfectly lonely and miserable, then.

Wow, great, what a stunning achievement. Go Me.


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Originally Posted by Nathan1097
(Putting theory into practice is another matter!) Its mostly about attitude.... but practice helps!
Well, as I said. . .I wouldn't know.
post #39 of 61
I haven't read all the replies, but regarding the oral sex thing:

Are people not aware that once the man's penis is erect, the foreskin retracts and it looks just like a circ'ed penis? I would sure hope that getting a blow job equals having an erection, or else, really, what's the point?
post #40 of 61
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Originally Posted by oceanbaby
I haven't read all the replies, but regarding the oral sex thing:

Are people not aware that once the man's penis is erect, the foreskin retracts and it looks just like a circ'ed penis? I would sure hope that getting a blow job equals having an erection, or else, really, what's the point?
It might look the same, but it doesn't work the same. Not to mention that many circs of our generation removed the frenulum which is highly sensitive. So no, I don't believe that once the man has an erection circ'd and intact are the same. Even if you don't USE the foreskin, the skin is still WAY more mobile than a tight circ. That varies too- how much skin you have available for movement.
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