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He Never Amazes Me in His Audacity!  

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So my ex calls me today to ask me for my SSN to put on his taxes. He also asks me for our daughter's SSN. I told him that he can't claim her as a dependent, since I already did, and that I've been the one providing for her (he has paid only $71 in child support since I left him over 1 1/2 years ago. I told him I don't trust him and I don't know what else he plans on doing with my SSN, so no, he can't have it. Of course then he launches into another round of "You and your boyfriend" which is as far from the truth as possible (see my post on The Not Dating Thread)...

The nerve! After he refuses to sign over the joint check which has now expired, from an old Tax return to me (I was going to give him $3k from it) which was based entirely on my earnings, now he demands for me to help him file his Tax return! If he doesn't know it now, then I'm not going to give it to him! He can look it up himself (I believe it is on our Divorce Papers which he has defaulted on!).

Just when I think it isn't possible, he sinks to a new low! This one is actually kind of funny. Just had to share.

Peace,
kb
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Gawd! That sounds like something my ex would do. He would not trust me enough to have the joint tax return check sent to my house (even though he trusted me enough to have me do the taxes!), so we had the check sent to his attorney's office. He was convinced I would cash the whole thing because "you took 1/2 the joint savings account when you left me" (uh, duh - it's 1/2 mine!).

You have my sympathies.... good for you for sticking up for yourself!
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Ugh. The things they do.
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i am laughing with you dreadmama. that cracks me up. well, its really sad. its really pathetic. its really rediculous. and you just gotta laugh at him for being so...clueless?
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Thanks everyone for listening, it helps. Get this. I got home from my class last night and the phone rings (well, not rings, but I could hear the answering machine going) and I knew it was him. So I pick up the phone in the middle of a rant, and he says/mumbles our daughter's name! She is 22 months old, like she is going to pick up the phone at 9:40pm and say "Hi"! We had a short conversation. He sounded really drunk. More stuff about my fictitious boyfriend, etc. etc. Well, I gotta give it up to myself, I sure know how to pick 'em, eh?! NOT!

Anyway, I'm feeling pretty ok about this today, and I'm not going to let him get me down.

Peace,
kb
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