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post #101 of 171
Rhonwyn, thanks for your answer. Your three aspects of Waldorf are interesting.

"The first was an article on looping (same teacher for 2 -3 years) in the Seattle schools and how beneficial it was the classes and there test scores. They never once mentioned Waldorf but many of the benefits they sited were the same as I have seen in Waldorf. Specifically, the teacher already knows the kids, they can pretty much jump in where they left off before the summer and the kids are less anxious about going back to school because they know what to expect. Granted this works much better if the child and teacher are compatible. If they aren't, then it doesn't work very well."

Hmm, but is there anything 'new' in this re Waldorf? I've worked in schools - public schools - where this is also the policy. As you say, it is great if it works for a particular child and teacher. But a disaster if it doesnt. Everythign depends on the quality of the teacher and her relationship with the child. But yes, I believe that continuity is a key, althuogh not quite such a big issue in the UK where the kids dont spend all summer out of school. And there are many ways of addressing continuity and progression aside from staying with the same teacher.

"The second was the recent study done of young children and TV. I am sure you saw this one in the news. Much of what was found reflected what I had been hearing from our Waldorf teaches. Specifically, that it wasn't the content on TV (there is both good and bad) but rather it's effect on the developing brain and what snynapes (sp?) are reinforced and which are not. In my own children I can see the difference between them and their peers who watch a lot of TV. This purely anecdotal though."

Jane Healey is an interesting read on the subject. Again, I agree, but there is nothing new or particularly novel imo about a school discouraging TV. Many mainstream schools and teachers would agree.

"Lastly, I had an acquaintance who was doing brain gymnastics to improve her memory and concentration. She showed me the drawings she was making and they looked remarkably similar to the form drawing and the mirror drawing my kid was doing in grade school. From what I understand, form drawing is not art but is a brain training technique. I have no idea if brain gymanastics was started by a Waldorf person or if it was developed on its own."

No, Waldorf did not invent Brain Gym. It is something that many people have worked with in different ways, but Paul Kenniston has a strong claim to be the innovative voice on the subject (and will sue anyone who uses or quotes his material and claims it as their own!) Maybe aspects of Waldorf education are similar to some brain gym techniques, but I think you'd find that many, many schools - and a huge number of mainstream public schools - use Brain Gym widely as a learning technique. I havent read much about Waldorf that is very much in line with Brain Gym theory, but maybe I've missed this when researching.

I do agree that Waldorf has some things right in terms of matching policy to scientific 'proof' and research. However, some of the fundamental claims and what for me are central policieis, did not stand up to scrutiny when I did my research. For example, and I can't recall where I read the claim, but one of the authorities on Waldorf claimed that the reason why children should not learn to read (or be discouraged) before teeth falling out (I think I'm right?) is scientifically proven due to the late development of an aspect of vision vital to discriminating print. I can't recall specifics, although I did post about it on mdc at the time. He is quoted even in Smart Moves by Carla Hanniford. However, when I did some research, in fact this aspect of vision is fully developed by the age of four, and sometimes even earlier. My research kept taking me full circle until I came back to quotes by the same guy, (Sorry, I can't remember names and dont have time to look it all up), but he was quoting others who quoted him who quoted 'scientific research' of which there was no proof. And what I did find showed something very different.

This is why I continually search for something more concrete than references to research that don't in fact stand up to scrutiny.

This is not a down on Waldorf, just a personal view. It doesnt suit me or my children - both early readers. When I took dd#1 to a Waldorf nursery to look around she was frustrated and unsettled in the environment. She is just too logical and too much a realist for the waldorf atmosphere. Wonder where she gets that from.
post #102 of 171

misguided exceptions?

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Originally Posted by mamacrab
But this is what I really don't understand either! I have heard (on this board and elsewhere) of many Waldorf schools that forbid the color black, have all white students, and have only white Christian art on their walls. Yet pro-Waldorf folks claim each and every example is "just one misdirected exception."

Same with the EBF- people from several different Waldorf schools -on this one thread alone!- have shared their expereriences with Waldorf schools being anti-EBF- but again, pro-Waldorf people claim each and every one of these schools is a misguided exception.
There are close to 1,000 waldorf schools in the world and I don't know how many start-ups: probably at least another 1,000, maybe 2 or 3 thousand. If someone at each of those schools does something really dumb once a year that turns into a lot of incidents. And since people keep bringing up things that happened years ago (which is their right) these incidents accumulate. Now, in real life, having something go wrong once a year in an institution with anywhere from one to eighty staff, 5 to 500 children, 10 to 1000 parents is an unrealistic expectation. Once a week is a lot more likely. So yes, you will hear plenty of negative waldorf school stories and no, they don't necessarily mean that waldorf education is a bad idea. It does mean that you have to look carefully at the school you are considering, you need to look carefully at the educational approach to see if it fits your child, your lifestyle and your beliefs and you need to look carefully at the teacher to see if this person is actually a competent teacher. There are people teaching in waldorf school and in other schools who should not be teaching.

Cheers.

Nana
post #103 of 171

My toddlers must have been very wiggly ones!

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Originally Posted by suseyblue
frand, thank you for posting pretty much what i would've liked to, but am too busy with a toddler staring at my boob, lol (his eyes are closed, actually!)
the part that grated on me, rhonwyn, was not the early weaning (cough. well, worldwide and throughout history that certainly would be true!) was the statement about 'how you would get them to do it' (sorry for paraphrasing, i am in a bit of a rush.) a nursing 4 yr old does not have to be persuaded to nurse, trust me! and he can be mobile with his sippy and still want a snuggle-nurse when going to sleep.


suse

Honestly, I tried to keep them nursing as I wanted to nurse until at least 2 but I gave it up after they pretty much refused to at around 15 months. Both did it at around the same age so seriously, I have always been baffled by 4 year olds nursing. I just chalked it up to personality and moved on. Now potty training, that's a different story! My son was 4 and my daughter was 2.5.
post #104 of 171

teeth/reading

britishmum thanks for such a thorough post -- yes, that whole thing about reading being related to the teeth is what I was referring to in my post about 'thus and such happens at age 7' -- that art of the delayed reading is based on a principle that children aren't ready to begin reading until the permanent teeth started coming in at age 7 -- I don't have the exact quote right but that was the gist of it. I remember thinking, how can this possibly be stated and applied across the board so confidently? Isn't this going to frustrate some children? Plenty of children are ready and eager to begin reading before then, why on earth . It reminded me of the long explanation I got at our school as to why children don't use the word "I" until a certain age, and when I said, but my daughter used it quite a bit before that age, the person stared at me as if I'D said something odd.

Of course, to give this all perspective, I vividly remember being told about my guardian angel in second grade in Catholic school and being told if I wanted to do something nice during the day I could scootch over in my sit to give my angel room to sit down.
post #105 of 171

Only have time for a quick reply!

Wanted to throw out there that our Kindergarten teacher said that children are starting to lose their teeth sooner. This was in conversation in regards to the tooth fairy pouches they give the kids. They used to give them at the 7th birthday and now they give them at 6th birthday. My kid is 6 and a quarter and hasn't lost one yet but has one tooth that is wiggly.

Also wanted to say, our school doesn't discourage early readers if they teach themselves. They do discourage parents from actively trying to teach it to them. Some kids are ready and some aren't but sometimes parents push too hard. They also don't discourage you from telling a kid what the letter or word is when the kid asks.
post #106 of 171
LOL This is like the funniest thing I have read for days!!!!






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Originally Posted by *Erin*
whats with no black crayons?? that's ridiculous! and what is wet on wet painting? what's wrong with fingerpaint? or clay? sounds wonkier by the minute.

i met a reaaaaaaaaaaaal strange woman in the park once, she came up to me and dd and without saying a word, busted into a dance, started moving her arms and hands, i didnt know whether to kick her in the leg, grab dd and run, or crack up laughing. dd was entranced (and almost immedietly began to imitate her arm motions), i was totally weirded out. my aunt was with us and she started talking to the woman, who was very floaty and strange, and found out she was a waldorf teacher in san francisco. now she's a childrens storyteller. ok, so one lady doesnt speak for the whole lot of waldorf teachers, but it was really strange. she did her funky dance for at least a minute before speaking. and she kept invading my personal space while she was talking...it wouldve been really neat, had she *spoken* like a reg. person before busting out her moves..
post #107 of 171
I had my own bad experiences with Waldorf education, and have described them on other threads here.

Basically, I see a lot of people having bad experiences with Waldorf because Waldorf schools try to hide or downplay anthroposophy from parents. Waldorf schools are *not* secular schools; that's fine but I don't like hidden motives. It would not be well received if a Jewish primary school tried to hide its prosyletizing by saying 'you don't have to be Jewish to go here, but science has proven wearing yarmulkes and lighting the menorah is helpful to brain development,' etc. Can you imagine Catholics doing this? Anthroposophy has many a priori assumptions one must swallow, and as such I do think it is a religion.

I think it's too bad that PLANS seems to have a mixed agenda, because I think there is certainly room out there for a Waldorf critics website based entirely on the writings of Steiner, Waldorf philosophy and Waldorf education in practice. One thing PLANS is good for is getting at the core quotes from Steiner's own writings that underpin anthroposophy. But I do wish there was more attention drawn to things like what parents can expect re:

- discipline (have heard lots of parents express concerns about bullies, have heard about and seen kids sit out entire terms in front of the principals office)
- germ theory (all washing in community water)
- psychological evaluation and categorizing of kids based on a theory of 'humors'
- treatment of fairies and gnomes as real entities
- attitudes towards civics and politics

These, plus the fact that Waldorf schools are mostly homogenous groups of kids from middle-class, well educated homes. It seems rather isolationist to me, not something I want for my child.
post #108 of 171

I am sorry you have had a bad experience, but

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Originally Posted by chicagomom
I had my own bad experiences with Waldorf education, and have described them on other threads here.

Basically, I see a lot of people having bad experiences with Waldorf because Waldorf schools try to hide or downplay anthroposophy from parents. Waldorf schools are *not* secular schools; that's fine but I don't like hidden motives. It would not be well received if a Jewish primary school tried to hide its prosyletizing by saying 'you don't have to be Jewish to go here, but science has proven wearing yarmulkes and lighting the menorah is helpful to brain development,' etc. Can you imagine Catholics doing this? Anthroposophy has many a priori assumptions one must swallow, and as such I do think it is a religion.

I think it's too bad that PLANS seems to have a mixed agenda, because I think there is certainly room out there for a Waldorf critics website based entirely on the writings of Steiner, Waldorf philosophy and Waldorf education in practice. One thing PLANS is good for is getting at the core quotes from Steiner's own writings that underpin anthroposophy. But I do wish there was more attention drawn to things like what parents can expect re:

- discipline (have heard lots of parents express concerns about bullies, have heard about and seen kids sit out entire terms in front of the principals office)
- germ theory (all washing in community water)
- psychological evaluation and categorizing of kids based on a theory of 'humors'
- treatment of fairies and gnomes as real entities
- attitudes towards civics and politics

These, plus the fact that Waldorf schools are mostly homogenous groups of kids from middle-class, well educated homes. It seems rather isolationist to me, not something I want for my child.

I totally disagree with your post. I think the schools vary a lot as do the teachers. I do not believe that Anthroposophy is a religion, it is a philosphy. The children are not taught Anthroposophy and they do not receive religion classes. Our school is constantly having classes on Anthroposophy and how it relates to Waldorf schooling for the parents. Hardly anyone ever shows up! This stuff is not swept under the rug at our school. During parent evenings the teacher often answers questions about why thus and such is done and the teacher is always very open and honest in answering the questions. Maybe we are very lucky, but I look around the school and their are many happy families. Some are third generation Waldorf and are not Anthroposophists. (I am sure I mispell that word more than I spell it right! Spelling is not my strong point even though I am a public school and Catholic school product.)

Bullies have been a problem from time to time as they are in all schools whether public or private. The school has developed a program of social inclusion to address this issue. It doesn't rely on kids working it out on their own but rather it is about learning respect for one another. Any bullying behavior is recognized and addressed. It is not tolerated.

Germ theory - In the Kindergarten the kids wash their hands individually before lunch at separate sinks. In the grades, the kids often rinse their hands of sand in a communal wash tub and then wash their hands inside before lunch.

Disicpline is an ongoing work in progress. It involves a lot of help from parents. Yes, sometimes children do sit out classes or parts of classes if they are being too disruptive to the other students. I know as a parent, that when this happens I get a phone call or email about it. We know what motivates our child and we use the appropriate consequences for bad behavior. Many of the kids go through this from time to time.

Humors - The teachers have cautioned us from using these to catagorize our own kids so I highly doubt they are classifying kids in set humors. Everyone has these characteristics and some are more pronounced than others at different times in their lives.

Fairies and Gnomes - Believe me, fairies and gnomes disappear at around 9 years of age. They are treated as real up until that point just as the Tooth Fairy. I have yet to hear a teacher actually answer that they are real to a child's question. All questions like that are turned around and asked of the children. Usually the teacher will reply to whatever the child has answers, 'Well there you go.' Many questions are treated like this so that the child comes up with their own answer. This of course does not continue in the grades when the children are actually studying something such as weather. I think, if you have a problem with Santa, the Tooth Fairy or other imaginative creatures and you feel like they are lies and that you are lying to your child if you say they are real, then you will have a problem with Waldorf. Waldorf is about protecting the magical times of childhood which naturally begin to end around the age of 9.

Civics and Politics - That comes later in 7th or 8th grade and especially in high school. Until that point the children are building up themselves and who they are. The idea is to develop independent thinkers.

I also totally disagree with you statement that: "One thing PLANS is good for is getting at the core quotes from Steiner's own writings that underpin anthroposophy." PLANS is really good at taking things out of context and saying this is the whole truth. I would read the rebuttal from the Swedish site that I posted earlier.

Diversity is an issue we are working on. We have economic diversity but not as much cultural and racial diversity as I would like to see. Also, I would like to see more tuition assistance. Too many families leave due to financial considerations.

Lastly, Waldorf is not for everyone, just as Montessori, Sudbury, Catholic and Public schools are not for everyone. Whatever school you are considering, check out that particular school as even ones of the same type can vary radically. I found that out when I looked at Montessori schools. I am also sorry this turned out so long!
post #109 of 171
Thread Starter 

A little OT: Waldorf being more "natural"

One of the ideas I've encountered as to why Waldorf is a good choice is because it is more "natural"... the soothing colors, the wooden toys, and especially the avoidance of computers and almost all electronic media. (This "being natural" is not an official Waldorf idea, but it seems to be prevalent in the AP community.)

Well what exactly is "natural?" It seems to me that if computers and TV were created by human beings, then they are just as "natural" as anything else that human beings make.

Of course, I am not advocating watching TV and playing on computers 24/7; balance is key. As my mother always said: Water is natural, too, but if you imbibe too much of it, you'll die.
post #110 of 171

A time and a place for everything.

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Originally Posted by AlohaDeb
Well what exactly is "natural?" It seems to me that if computers and TV were created by human beings, then they are just as "natural" as anything else that human beings make.

Of course, I am not advocating watching TV and playing on computers 24/7; balance is key. As my mother always said: Water is natural, too, but if you imbibe too much of it, you'll die.
Most computers and TVs are not handmade by a human being nor are they found lying on the ground in nature.

Natural materials (wood, wool, cotton, beeswax, etc.) are used almost exclusively in the younger grades. Children learn the whole process and where things come from. Ideally, when children learn to knit, they will make their own knitting needles and they will see where wool comes from, card it, spin it and then begin to learn how to knit with their needles and their wool. Our children made their own needles in the last year of Kindergarten and all of the children learned how to card wool and they learned how to felt. I have taken my kids to a sheep shearing where they were able to card and see spinning.

TV never really enters the picture in Waldorf except that by around 12 the kids are allowed to watch it along with movies. They are also then allowed to start using a computer. (When I saw allowed, I mean the teacher approves of it. These are the ideals and some of us do a better or worse job than others in living up to it. Teachers are usually the strictest with their own families because they are suppossed to be models and good examples.)

Computers enter the picture officially in Waldorf education at around High School though there is some movement to introduce them in 7th or 8th grade. Traditionally, in 9th grade the kids build their own computer almost from scratch. (They don't solder the boards or build the monitor but the do assemble the CPU.) In 10th grade, they learn to write software for their computer. In the 11th and 12th grade they may learn about specific software programs. It is kind of like reading in 1st grade. The kids learn to write before they learn to read so ususally the first thing they read is their own work.

The whole natural thing and hand made thing is to connect children with humanity. Something means a lot more if an actual human being made it. As adults, we know this from gifts we receive. A handmade baby blanket means so much more than a Carter's receiving blanket, especially if it was made by a good friend or loved one. Natural and handmade items also just usually feel better and smell better than plastic.
post #111 of 171
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I think, if you have a problem with Santa, the Tooth Fairy or other imaginative creatures and you feel like they are lies and that you are lying to your child if you say they are real, then you will have a problem with Waldorf.
This is probably a big reason that Waldorf seems uncomfortable for me. I'm one of those non-santa parents. : I don't deliberately sit my kids down and disabuse them of any Santa or toothfairy ideas they may have picked up along the way, but I don't tell them the stories as if they are true, and I won't say they are real if asked directly. It just feels wrong to *me* to do otherwise. I respect that other parents feel differently -- I don't think it matters that much to the kids either way, unless parents get too fanatical about it (on either side). We had a book from the library about fairies, and I was uncomfortable with it. It credited fairies for everything from painting the flowers to teaching birds to sing -- as if those beautiful things aren't magical enough on their own! It was a lovely book, but I was not disappointed when my dd showed little interest in it.

Thanks Rhonwyn, for you vigorous defense of your Waldorf school. I feel about the same as I did before about Waldorf in general (i.e. not for me), but I have leared a lot from you about the possibilities at a school that takes the best of Waldorf and sheds the outdated stuff. Have a great summer!
post #112 of 171

Thanks for your kind words!

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Originally Posted by luv my 2 sweeties
Thanks Rhonwyn, for you vigorous defense of your Waldorf school. I feel about the same as I did before about Waldorf in general (i.e. not for me), but I have leared a lot from you about the possibilities at a school that takes the best of Waldorf and sheds the outdated stuff. Have a great summer!
To each his own. I can't imagine life without fairies, gnomes and Santa. I have become very adept at answering questions with questions so I never have to outright lie. When my oldest really asks me and I know he really wants to know about Santa, etc. I will level with him and then he can join in the fun.

Also, I should mention that there are adults who believe in fairies. They are ususally Pagans. I have seen some strange things happen with stuff disappearing and reappearing in our house, so sometimes I wonder.
post #113 of 171
wow. a lot to absorb.
i would like to actually spend a day in a classroom, see how the particular school my dd would actually attend feels to me, to her, before i absolutely decide. i am leaning away from it though. the rigidity of the non-rigidity is really unsettling to me. i don't like the exclusion of technology, it is a very valuable and big part of our world, and imo, it doesnt create unhealthy kids to allow them access to it before some specific age. the age thing really goads me. such homogony, that every child would be ready (or not ready) to do a certain thing at a certain age. i read that it is not so strictly "enforced", esp. the reading, but that's a really big issue with me-i fully expect my 21 month will be reading in the next year, self taught, the way she's progressing on her own, as i was at her age, also self taught.
i am not about to pay out the equivalent of a mortgage payment so she can feel like she's strange or bored or out of place.
speaking of mortgage payment, how much diversity can you get with a place that costs $10000 a year??? really? i'm more than a bit unsettled by the type of atmosphere that sort of money and homogony brings..
homogony. keep going back to that. (i think i spelled it wrong, too...) and the fairies and scarves and gnomes.
it's not just you that keeps going back the gnomes, daryllll
i love the hearthsong catologue, it's so lovely, and i want all the toys in it. but that's not really that pertinent to the consideration of sending my dd to a waldorf school...

i know, i'm rambling, forgive me, it's 3am...

it's nice that there seems to be some support of a balance b/n fantasy and reality at some of the schools; i don't think tv is evil, for us, it, like most everything, is ok in moderation.

the ebf thread is really really interesting...i understand montessori (some of them) push that early weaning crap too. staring at the boob...i know you weren't trying to be offensive, rhonwyn, and i really appreciate your hard work on this thread, but that was pretty offensive to me as well. my dd is never mindlessly staring at my breast, trapped; she's twiddling my bottom lip, looking into my eyes, we're laughing at each other, sharing smiles and bumping heads, she's putting her feet into my hair, talking with her mouth full, telling me "jokes", petting my arms. it's certainly not something i'm forcing her to sit still and do...

she was pretty busy at 9 months, i had to remind her to nurse, same thing at 14 months...i think it's easy to confuse self-weaning with busy. not that your babes weren't self weaning...


you know the white, mythological stuff, and the lack of real, concrete, history until such an older age is really not something im comfortable with either.

i would like to find out a little more about montessori, i think. and if that's not what we're looking for, well. sudbury? no...*bangs head on wall* i don't know what to do.
post #114 of 171
meant to add that thanks to your thoughtful posts, rhonwyn, i feel a whole lot more informed about waldorf, from a parents perspective. thank you!
post #115 of 171
Well, I aodre fairies, Santa, Rudolph. I love Harry Potter and LoTR and dragonflies. But I just find I don't need fairies to explain digestion and gnomes to explain math!

We unschool, BTW.
post #116 of 171

Technology and Tuition

My husband and I are both Engineers. We work daily with people who could be classified as eggheads. Very intellectual and mechanical but not many social skills and very little creativity unless it is mechanical or electrical or software. One of the reasons we chose Waldorf because of the emphasis on the whole child - head, heart and hands. We wanted our children to be more well rounded than we are and more well rounded than many of the people we work with daily. Both of our children are very bright and our ds is a natural engineer. Our dd is reading on her own and determined to keep up with ds. We saw a real danger of them becoming one sided, in their heads kind of people.

My ds' teacher provides strong academics (you have to stay on top of this, some teachers are better than others) while also rounding out the rest of my child with lots of artwork, movement, singing, foreign languages and handwork. The computers can wait until later. Ds will pick them up fine. Ds would have been in a gifted program at public school and he would have done well at a very academic private school but he would have missed out on so much. He would have only done what he really likes, academics. Waldorf has made him more well rounded. Also, ds is surrounded by children that are good at different things. Some are academic like him, some are very artistic, some are very athletic, etc. At a gifted school he would have only seen one side. He and his classmates appreciate each others strengths.

The $9800 a year bugs me too but there is not much that can be done about it. The vast majority of the tuition money supports teacher salaries and medical insurance. The teachers don't make as much as public school teachers but we try to pay them a decent working wage. What we are seeing at our school is a loss of the lower middle class families due to tuition. The lower middle class doesn't qualify for tuition assistance and can't afford the tuition. So we have working poor supported by tuition assistance, upper middle class and some rich families. There are some lower middle class families who are lucky enough to have grandparents to pay tuition. Also, there is a sibling discount so only the first child costs $9800.

Whatever you chose, I wish you good luck and I hope your family finds a good fit.
post #117 of 171
post #118 of 171
Thread Starter 

Thanks for this link!

It isn't only PLANS that has a problem with Waldorf education.

Quoted from this article:
"Steiner's remarks on religion and race have caused an outcry among Waldorf critics, who say that Waldorf schooling cannot escape Steiner's bigoted roots. "Jewry as such has long since outlived its time; it has no more justification within the modern life of peoples, and the fact that it continues to exist is a mistake of world history whose consequences are unavoidable," said Steiner in an 1888 article in the German Weekly. Steiner's theory of reincarnation states that souls travel an upward path of consciousness, beginning with the "sub-races" (Africans) and ending with Aryans -- the most "enlightened" race. Said Steiner, "If the blonds and blue-eyed people die out, the human race will become increasingly dense ... Blond hair actually bestows intelligence." "

Yes, I know you have to place Steiner in historical context. But I'm sorry -- :Puke

Quoted from this article:
"Holland thinks these issues could be resolved if Waldorf educators and administrators would simply be honest about the inherent racism and anti-Semitism of some of Steiner's philosophies. A simple acknowledgment of Steiner's less-than-politically-correct viewpoints, along with a unified statement denouncing those viewpoints, is all Holland believes it would take for Waldorf schools, teachers and supporters to rise above accusations of racism and anti-Semitism."

Absolutely, I think it would help very much.
post #119 of 171
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Yes, I know you have to place Steiner in historical context. But I'm sorry --
Yeah, but even in 1888, not everyone thought like that. He *could* have known better. Just because many whites would have been sympathetic to his views back then, doesn't mean he gets a pass. I know that no one here is suggesting that -- I'm just expanding on the point.

Like Mr. Holland (from the article), I have wondered why the national Waldorf organization (I believe there is such a thing) doesn't address the race issue head on. What possible controversy could there be about that? :

I thought it was a decent article except for the end. She didn't like Waldorf, so she just dropped all her educational ideals and settled for public school as "good enough"? What's up with that? It would be one thing if she had been thinking of ps from the start and valued it in some way. But she seemed like she had some serious issues with public compulsory education. (As do I! ) Perhaps she didn't care for Sudbury or Montessori either, and maybe homeschooling just isn't for her (she didn't mention hs as an option) but gee whiz! She seems to have really lowered her standards in the final analysis -- simply happy that her kids weren't turned into instant drones. Hmm.
post #120 of 171
That was a great article, breathless...I thought it would be an outright attack but it seemed pretty balanced. Though yeah I don't get her justification of her final decision. But you know if the values of waldorf don't fit with your own, of course it makes no sense to have your children there. I feel like it would be totally confusing to my Ds to suddenly be in a situation where the values at play completely clashed with our home life, and at the moment it feels like that's the way public school would be.

But this thread has been so helpful and has got me thinking more and more. I feel pretty strongly now, and always sensed before, that I like Waldorf for 3-4 and maybe Kindergarten and after that it really turns me off. I don't know what the answer will be, but I can't see us staying with it for that long.
The diversity issue is probably the number one issue for me. Once a child is 6 or 7 I think it's so important for them to be around all kinds of people with all kinds of backgrounds - not just race, culture, class, etc but also simply different personality types, family lifestyles, etc etc....

I've been thinking about my own experience: I grew up in a lower middle class artist/unconventional background (pretty typical of waldorf parents I know now). I went to a state school in London and my best friends were from all backgrounds; S, working class living with her single mother and grandmother in a council house; H, Pakistani girl in middle class suburban immigrant family; A, black british working class living with her dad.....Not one of these kids would have "fit" into a Waldorf school, none of their parents' would have been attracted to it or resonated with the values, but these were my best friends that I spent all my time with and learned so much from in ways that I didn't recognize at 7 yrs old.

So then when the one black parent in our parent toddler group says "No way!" would he send their bi-racial daughter to school there (for whatever reasons) I wonder, then why would I be comfortable sending Ds there, and why would I deprive him of the rich diversity I grew up around?...

I guess I've been wondering about it all and going back and forth and am now feeling a lot clearer.
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