do you use it for the body of the dipe? i guess i was going to use it for inserts to my pocket dipes. what kind of water do you have? i have heard others say that a certain type of fabric (flannel, hemp, and others) just gets softer with every wash, but i have never had that with my dipes. we have well water which very hard, would that be why? is there anything i can do to get them to be softer with every wash?