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post #21 of 40
5/21/04 at 12:12pm
My heart is aching for you but especially for her little boys and husband.
post #22 of 40
5/21/04 at 12:25pm
I am so very sorry.
post #23 of 40
5/21/04 at 3:03pm
I'm so sorry. to everyone.
post #24 of 40
5/21/04 at 3:31pm
Oh, how very sad. She must have been very special--her website is lovely. Those poor little boys, and her husband, too. And I feel so bad for you to lose a friend like that must be unbearable.
post #25 of 40
5/21/04 at 4:11pm


I am so sorry. I wept reading her memorial website; the world has lost a beautiful woman, mother, wife and friend. I can only imagine your pain. Again, I am so very sorry.
post #26 of 40
5/21/04 at 8:11pm
Thank you for sharing this with us. Our hearts are with you.
post #27 of 40
5/22/04 at 12:55am
that's terrible. I'm so sorry. She looks like she was an open loving person. I'm so sorry for everyone's loss.

Leah
post #28 of 40
5/22/04 at 1:51am
Im so sorry
post #29 of 40
5/22/04 at 8:31am


I am so sorry for you and for her children and dh...
post #30 of 40
5/22/04 at 2:34pm
Im so sorry
post #31 of 40
5/22/04 at 2:44pm
I am so very sorry.
post #32 of 40
5/22/04 at 3:36pm
My heart just breaks for all of you... Please know that you will all be in my thoughts and prayers...s
post #33 of 40
5/22/04 at 7:42pm
I am so deeply sorry for you, for her dh and dear children. My heart is breaking for you all.

Hugs & Healing~

Lisa
post #34 of 40
5/22/04 at 10:37pm
I'm so sorry.
post #35 of 40
5/23/04 at 2:33pm
s

I am so sorry for this family and for you.

It is a reminder of how life is precious and how modern medicine cannot guarantee any one everything no matter what.

I hope all goes well.
post #36 of 40
5/24/04 at 9:17pm
Elyice-
I am so sorry for you and your friends family. I am at a loss of what to say. I will be thinking of you and your friends family though.

Also like Sarah said let the friends in "our tribe" thread now of what you are going thru.
Vickie
post #37 of 40
5/24/04 at 10:05pm
I am so sorry for your loss. If you are interested, there is a website, www.preeclampsia.com, that might be helpful to help you gain information about what happened to your dear friend. Again, please accept how increadibly sorry I am.
Gossamer
post #38 of 40
5/25/04 at 10:05am
I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend. Words escape me at this moment but silent prayers go up. I will come back to her website and make a donation to her children's fund. Be well and may God give you strength to deal with this loss.

Lisa
post #39 of 40
5/25/04 at 10:29am
s I'm so sorry. I'm sending prayers to the family.
post #40 of 40
5/25/04 at 3:00pm
Thread Starter 

thanks

thank you for your kind words.
It is so strange to live without her. She was more than a frined she was my sister, dearest friend since we were 14 yrs old. We called eachother Lucy and Ethel because we always were cooking up something wacky. Like when I wanted to ttc and dh did not, she joked that she would help me drug him and "obtain" the sperm...ha ha. She was hilarious. My dh says I act as though I lost my wife, He can never really understand that I have. Our relationship was so close, she knew everything about me, about him, about my relatives, about my life! we shared it all. Mika was my closest girlfriend in the world, my only close friend really. You know that one girlfriened that means the world to you, you can call at 2am? That was mika to me.I can barely cope without her, I have never been a grown up without her to discuss every little detail of our lives.We talked on the phone 10 times a day. While I did the laudry we chatted, as I sat in my kids lessons we chatted, My baby napped in the car so I chatted with her while I waited. I am so sad for her children. She wanted so much for them to be free from stress and be real children. She never bought brand name clothing or expensive tennis shoes, she did not want to raise materialistic kids. She did not let them listen to obscence music or read innapropraite material. she babied them, protected them. Now they will grow up without a mom and it will harden their hearts a bit. They have a loving granny but they do not have the woman that birthed them that nursed them and molded them. I am so sad right now. It has been 1 month and it has gotten worse. death is NOT natural, we are not meant to bear this pain, I know that for sure.And she was just 28! 28 years old, died on a Tuesday buried 7 days later.
I am also depressed that no one has reallly donatated to her kids fund. I thought I could make the site and floods of 5 dollar donations would pour in. But there has only been 3 donations. I post on a couple of boards. So I put the site on all of them. Thanks for you kind words. I miss my best friend. ~Elyice
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