ok, sorry I haven't thanked you all for your responses!!! computer caught a nasty virus and crashed and burned!! Dh got so mad he bought a new computer, so I had to wait and was offline for a week - eeeeeeeeeeeeek!
Lala - I have rosewater - LOVE IT! what do you think, just sprinkle it on? put in a sprayer?
The couch is only about 5 years old. But dh has been sleeping on it due to snoring(another thread. LOL), dd peed on it about 3 weeks ago(I cleaned it and no longer smell any pee pee, but still...), and the cats live on it when we are out.
I bought a spray from the health food store which has helped, but I am sure I wasted my money because it was primarily essential oils which I have at home. Oh well.
Thanx for all the suggestions everyone.
Jenn