1) is it the enite tray or one on those tray toppers the ones you ca nstick in the dishwasher? if its the removable type dont use it. 2) consider moving baby to big table, we use the fisher price infant to toddler booster seat and it pull right up to the kitchen table, sometimes feeling more with the grownups can help. 3) to be tossed food is a sign i'm no longer hungry, Id simpily remove the food, you can try again if they fuss as in no mom I'm still eatting it but when ever he trys to trow food I'd remove the plate. 4) it OKAY TO SAY NO.... 
: Actually I'm not ashamed to say this, its an undesirable behavior and its okay to let him know. 5) Understand toddlers can be messy even the "neat eaters" so Yep to the spill matt. 6) Have patience
Deanna
: Actually I'm not ashamed to say this, its an undesirable behavior and its okay to let him know. 5) Understand toddlers can be messy even the "neat eaters" so Yep to the spill matt. 6) Have patienceDeanna
