My daughter was vaccinated with Hep B against our permission. We had the waiver signed, had made our wishes clear, etc.
Because she was born about a month early, she was in NICU for three days, and then in a step down unit for a week after that. Right before she was allowed to come home, when dh and I were messing around with the discharge department, someone 'accidentally' gave her the hep b shot.
The staff I talked to claimed that the person who gave her the shot couldn't read the huge, black NO HEP B we had written on our waiver. This is at one of the top ten hospitals in the Chicago land area. The staff can't read or understand the word no? Right.


I was beyond furious. I called two different lawyers, who basically laughed me off the phone. They said that unless I could prove that the hep b shot had damaged her, which was virtually impossible, there was really nothing I could do, other than complain to the hospital. They wouldn't help me. And these were vaccine damage case type of lawyers.
So, I complained to the hospital. Dd will be four in October, and I have yet to receive any kind of letter or verbal apology I was supposed to receive from the illiterate shot giver. I've heard, several times, that every baby born in a hospital is given the hep b shot, regardless of the parents wishes. I believe it. And I think the few that manage to be with their babies the whole time, or slip through the cracks so they don't get it are very, very lucky.
The hospital administrator claimed that she was being sent to a "Learn to read Medical Forms/Waivers" class, but I have my doubts. I let it all go, it just wasn't worth my raised blood pressure, hysterical bouts of crying, or nightmares. I can only hope that the next person who goes in there with a NO HEP B waiver might get treated a little better, because they might remember me.
I learned a lot from the experience. When ds was hospitalized, two years later, I never left him alone. Anyone who gave him anything, I had to know what it was, what it did, etc. I refused a major test for him, and got hell for it, until the two departments arguing over it figured out that the one saying no test was right. I was validated, and yes, it felt great.
You just have to be a crazy mama or papa bear. Mess with my baby and I will sue you is exactly right. I also have the motto of, just get out of there, as fast as you can.