I have not pushed her at all, but over the past year from time to time I have let her run around with no diapers. I have given her her own underwear. I have had her sit on the potty when she has a dry diaper while I read her books. She sees me going, dh going, her sister going, her friends going. We've read books about it and talked about it. She has absolutely no interest. She just brushes the whole thing off.
I know if I leave her to her own devices, she will eventually start
using the potty, and our ped says not to worry, but I am getting really sick of changing a 37-pound child's diapers! We used cloth until recently, but I have to confess to using disposable more and more because the cloth just get soaked too quickly.
And I know this shouldn't matter to me, but people are beginning to question my parenting skills. It's annoying!
FWIW, her older sister (5 1/2) was mostly potty trained by 2 1/2 and completely potty trained by her third birthday.
Has anyone else gone through this? Anyone have any ideas?