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post #201 of 288
I just did a 3 and a half page paper (1.5 spaced) and didn't even intend for it to end up that long! You'd be surprised at how fast you can wrack up those pages. I found that being as detailed as I possibly can really helps. Start out generally, and then add the details. You'll do well, just get started now!
My mistake with my presentation is that I waited to start until 3 weeks before it was due. I really should have started a few weeks earlier. But, I'm kinda dorky that way, I always like to be over-prepared. You can do it!!!!!

Update! I found out today that I got a 99% on my test. I couldn't believe it because I was sure that I had done poorly on it. Woo Hoo!!!!!
No one will ever believe me again when I say that I'm sure that I bombed a test. I'm going to get ribbed at work so bad! :LOL
post #202 of 288
Congratulations Collegemama. I'd like to know how you study. Enlighten us! Or maybe you're one of those who never need to study and still ace everything. I'm having trouble finding the time.
post #203 of 288
: Goepark - I wish I were one of those lucky ones who never has to study. Far, far from it!
First of all, keep in mind that even though I work full time and have a toddler, I'm only taking one class this semester. So, that makes a difference, I'm sure.
Any advice the prof. offers about how to study for the test or things to look out for, I pay special attention to and try. Almost every night after DS goes to sleep, I study. I only give myself one day off a week from studying, with or without a test coming. I always read the chapters we're studying all the way through and make sure I'm ahead of the teacher's lectures chapter-wise. I don't want to hear a lecture on something I haven't read about yet, to put it more simply.
I tape the lectures and listen to them in the car on my way to and from work. I make sure I have my homework done and ready to turn in at least one day early in case there's an unforeseen problem lurking ahead, like DS getting sick or me getting sick, or who knows what! I make notecards (flashcards - which Prof. D suggested) of definitions and important people that I'm pretty sure I'll need to know and I do this at least 2 to 3 weeks before the test. Which usually means I start making the new flashcards as soon as the test from the old material is done.
Then I casually go through the cards one week, the next week I get quizzed by DH reading the definition and I have to tell him what the word is and who originated the word (since it's a psych class, it's important to know who came up with those words.)
Then, a week or so (maybe more) before the test I take one card at a time and study it until it's memorized word for word. This is good because I know I may not remember everything exactly, but I'll have enough memorized that I can fill in the pieces. KWIM?
A week before the exam, Prof. gives us 12 possible essay questions (she then picks 6 of those and has us answer 3 for the test) so I make sure I write out the answers to all 12 essay questions, then I see which ones I would have the easier time remembering and make outlines of those answers. I try to do this with about 8 or 9 questions. Then I just make sure I know enough of the basics of the others in case I get stuck writing those.
Once I get the essays down pretty well, I quiz myself and try to answer the essay without any of my notes or outlines. I see how I did and then I write out the answer as it should be. I do the same method with the flashcards too. I write out what I think the definition of a word is and then check it and write out what the proper answer is. For some reason, this last study method works wonders for me. Something about correcting the mistakes makes the right answers stick better. It takes a lot of work. The week before a test I don't take a normal lunch, I sit at my desk and study. I'll also sometimes come into work at 6:30 so I can study 30 minutes before I'm on the clock. Then, I'll take about 5 min or so periodically while DS is awake, go to the garage under the guise of doing laundry and study some then.
I also only allow myself 15 min. of straight study time and then I give myself a break. I've read that watching something funny right after studying makes the material stick better (I have no idea why!) So I try to watch something funny during that little break.
Then, while I'm taking the test, I put about 4 or 5 peppermints on my desk and eat those throughout the test. Peppermint is supposed to help clear and focus your mind. (doesn't hurt anyway!)
I hope those ideas help someone. I am shocked that I'm doing so well in school. I'm so anxious that I'm sure I'm over-studying, but I don't really care.
I had to do a presentation in class yesterday and I had so over-prepared for it that my part of the presentation was as detailed and long as the one master's student in our group. The undergrad's work was much more fluffy and general. Anyway, a grad student (who wasn't in my group, BTW) came up to me after class and said I was one of the best public speakers she's ever heard. I was absolutely shocked. I am terrified of public speaking and my experience 5 years ago when I was in school before was that I was a terrible public speaker and that when I'd look out into the class people would look at me with pity because I was shaking so badly! Anyway, man, there's nothing like the school of hard knocks to really teach you how to be a good student. I just treat school like it's my job and that I'll get fired if I don't do a good job. KWIM? There's not an option for me to do badly.
post #204 of 288
Collegemama,

Wow! You study a lot! I dont think i've gotten to read an entire chapter since the first 3 weeks of school! If I studied that much i'd be getting stright A's too!
post #205 of 288
With all of that talk about studying so hard, here I am on MDC when I should be studing for a test that's scheduled next week. I just can't motivate myself tonight. I'm too sad I guess.
Somebody motivate me!!!!!

ETA - I know that I always do well on the tests that I stress about, and that I should complain and say I just don't know how I'll do it this time, but here I am in the same position. I guess I need to get my blog back going and vent about this stuff there, but I also want to keep this thread going, as it seems dead lately.
My headaches are getting so much worse lately. I'm feeling so sick and I've got so much to do but I just can't make myself do it. Oh well, somehow I always manage to find time to study, I've got plenty of time and I'm taking the day of my test off from work to study and work on some papers.
I enrolled for Spring yesterday and it's official. I'm going full-time, I have most of my classes (all but one) in the morning, so DS will have SAHP (parents) because I'll only need 3 hours a week for my mom to watch him when I'm in class. I can't wait to spend more time with DS! I'm terrified about the finances, but it seems like I'll get enough funding to be able to make up for my loss in income. Luckily, I get paid so little in this job that it wouldn't take much to make up my income. :LOL
post #206 of 288

i'm a student mama too

Hey all,
Just wanted to chime in...I'm in my 5th year of a PhD program in Human Development and Education Policy. I finished my coursework in fall of 2002 but i really haven't done much since then. it's so hard to motivate myself to work on my dissertation when i have my little babyface staring at me want love and attention. i am really trying to graduate by december 2005, and if i bust my butt over the next year and write a chapter every few months i should be done. it's just so hard to get organized and motivated...my mother watches Rowan twice a week, but i also teach a course one day a week that has sucked up my time. i'm always amazed at how fast 8 hours goes when i'm at work...there's never enough time to do stuff for the class i'm teaching AND work on my writing.

anyway, i'm excited to hear about how everybody else is managing things...

Good luck everybody!
post #207 of 288
CollegeMama- I feel you about how hard it can be trying to get motivated. I was motivated for the first 3 months of my class and now I can feel my energy level dropping off. And I'm only taking one class. I quit my job in January so I could be home with my kids during the week and be able to go back to school. I'm so happy I did it! I do, however, have to work on the weekends to pay the bills. But at least I get to be with the kids all week long.



I'm just trying to get through my intermediate algebra class. I'm not a math wiz. But so far I'm doing pretty well in the class. This is my last class and then I will be graduating with an AA degree. I've been going to college on and off since 1995!

Next semester I plan on taking a class to get my EMT certification. Can't wait! Then I plan on continuing to Paramedic.
post #208 of 288
i transfer schools in january to begin my nursing education. i am very excited yipppeee no more waiting.
i was also thinking about getting my emt certificate while waitng for classes to open up. tell me what kind of education it involves, bethla
maya
post #209 of 288
Oh I am soooo your opposite, collegemama. I have a paper and a presentation tomorrow morning that are on two different topics and neither one is finished yet. And here I am typing a response instead. I have had a horrible time getting my butt in gear this semester. But I seem to be doing well grade wise so we'll see. I really wish I could be so dedicated, but man, there are so many other things in life that just keep taking up my time. I thinnk it would help if I had a set schedule of studying time. But June is such a lousy sleeper that I can't do it after she goes to bed because she is always waking up. Maybe after teething things will settle down.

Louise
post #210 of 288

Long time, no chat...

Howdy everyone!!! Welcome to all the new members! Happy B-days and hugs to all who need them!

Sorry I've been away for so long!!! I've had so much going on the past 4 months, in my mind, my soul, my body, my LIFE!!! Ever since I got pregnant I haven't had an interest in doing one single thing. At first it was because I was so tired all the time, but now it's moved into a lack of motivation -- which is harder to deal with. I've turned into a major slacker. <Insert guilt here.> Fortunately, even though I am taking 12 hours, I only have one actual class with tests to worry about. The rest of the time I'm counseling clients and getting supervision. But my thesis proposal is a whole other problem. Can you believe the damn thing won't write itself?!! There's no way I'm going to propose this semester. Ugh. I've even started to question whether I want to continue in the doctoral program at all. I've been praying on it and we'll see what happens. Next semester I'm only taking 6 hours and the classes should actually be interesting, that should help.

Anyway, this week I've been more focused which is good, but not on school. The pregnancy is going well. I've been trying to figure out what stuff we need to buy for the baby, right away vs later on. I've also been reading more about breastfeeding, slinging, and elimination communication so I can be ready for that, and looking on ebay for auctions on co-sleepers and slings. If anyone wants to get rid of some of their gently used baby stuff or if you have something up in the trading post, let me know.

I've only had a second to browse the last few posts. Sounds like lots of us are in the same boat!!! Keep your head up! Nothing ever stays the same!!

I gotta go now but I will be more active when this semester is over.
post #211 of 288
Hi mommas,
i went back to grad school this semester- what was I thinking...my dh got a job out of town in the middle of the semester and I am here with a 3 year old who goes to univeristy's center (which I love), but we have an eight month old who has been attending class and nursing. OMG!!!!!!!!! need I say more..... I love being in school- anthroplogy- urban studies. I have no time to paint
I have no time for anything...... and get this we are probably moving_ AGAIN!!!!!! OMG did I mention that I am stressed.....


Anyway, it is good to hear success stories- congrats to everyone we deserve all the kudos we can get!

Just send me positive energy and prayers so that I can mak eit 5 more weeks- for some reason though I seem to be doing pretty damn good, my advisor wants to work with me on her next edition of her book- World Full Of Women by Martha C. Ward Ph.D. It is really good if anyone is interested in adding yet another book to their collection.


Gotta study and get off this addictive board
post #212 of 288
Hello everyone...just checking in.

I'm minoring in sociology, and it's a lot harder than I thought. The instructor keeps saying I'm not "thinking sociologically." She says I'm seeing things individually and not in the big picture. I really try to see the big picture, and I write my observations, and she keeps saying they are not good enough but gives very little constructive feedback. And sometimes I wonder if she is just being rude, like when I asked her "Do you want our term paper single-spaced or double-spaced?" and all she said was "Doesn't really matter, does it?" : WTF? Is it really that much trouble to just say single or double? We have to turn in our drafts tomorrow and I'm all worried she is just going to trash mine and say it's not any good. And normally I'm really good at writing papers.

My math class gets done next week! Yay! I think I can swing a B in that class. Mostly I'm happy because I can sell my textbook and get about $50. :LOL

I also get to register for next term soon...I'm thinking about biology, psychology, and maybe one more psych class...but that puts me one credit below full time so I might have to pick out a PE class just to even it all out.
post #213 of 288
I'm happy and releived I got 100% in my test.

DB
post #214 of 288
post #215 of 288
I believe the only pre-reqs for an EMT certification are a current CPR or a health education class that teaches first-aid CPR. The classes can be taken through a community college.
post #216 of 288
I posted 2 nights ago and the law library computer booted me off : I should have been studying anyway

I registered for my last semester of law school this week : I still dont know what Im doing with my life.

I am stubborn and Im taking classes in stuff I actually care about instead of whats likley to make me some money. Which is whole other issue, when people talk to me about being a lawyer, they just expect I will do divorces and wills Ugh.



To all of the hard working student mamas!
post #217 of 288
I am registered to take two CLEPs this week. One in American Government tomorrow and one on Human Growth and Development on Wednesday.

I'm nervous.

Actually I'm working myself up to a nervous breakdown.

Debra Baker
post #218 of 288
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bethla
I believe the only pre-reqs for an EMT certification are a current CPR or a health education class that teaches first-aid CPR. The classes can be taken through a community college.
thanks that's what i thought too.
i guess i just needed someone else to sya it. ykwim?
i am planning on taking the emt corses along with the nursing corses. i'm not sure why but it can't hurt.
maya
post #219 of 288
Wow, I was thinking about going the nursing route--but the math! Ouch! I'm struggling through Algebra right now. Actually I have a B, can't complain there--but I'm studying my butt off.

I decided EMT-paramedic training because it would get me in the job market faster. We are broke and my husband wants to go back to school when I'm done.
post #220 of 288
Greaseball--


Maybe you could read someone elses' paper that the instructor really liked to see what she expects. Anyone sitting around you have a big-fat A on their paper?
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