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post #1 of 66
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Made it home. Phew.

First and foremost, sitting in the seat of my car was much, much more uncomfortable than it was driving up!!! Secondly, we drove right into a thunderstorm with horrible, no-visibility sheeting rain and lightning - I pulled over 3 times because I couldn't see the white line to follow it, and lightning struck within 100 feet of the car twice. It was horribly loud. I don't think that the thunderstorm scared Sprout so much, I had no problem with sitting and waiting on the side of the road for it to pass, but I spent at least 2 hours of the drive, if not closer to 3, driving through very heavy rain. I think it stressed me out. That + the uncomfortable posture seems to have convinced Sprout to move into some not-so-great position. I have been getting some ferocious jabs in my cervix today to the point where I was wondering if it was changing somehow. Jabs in the cervix formerly were uncomfortable and startling, these just plain hurt. No contractions, though. In the meantime I have retreated back to the bedroom and am sitting as tall as I can in a Schneidersitz (tailor's pose? can one say that in English? I'm still thinking in German) and sprout seems to have blissfully gone back to sleep...

Last night was a major transition night for me, going from a natural breeze-cooled 50 degree fahrenheit room and my own double bed and no noise except a slight rustle of leaves and a loon in the distance to sharing a queen bed with a human and a very snuggly cat, the air filter running and the air conditioner coming on at random moments. Thank goodness for the chance to sleep until 10 and no outside obligations whatsoever... for the foreseeable future, WOW! Jo brought me breakfast, too.

Oh, and can you believe, after those 5 hours in the car I came home with essentially a case of diaper rash!?? the combination of sweat, elastic and leukorrhea left me walking around like a cowboy after a long day in the saddle. I completely understand why babies cry about this! Hooray for Weleda calendula cream, even if it does make Jo sneeze.

The house is a disaster, but I did not expect otherwise. Sarah and Savannah, I came into the bedroom to find your shirts and suit in a (relatively neat) pile on the floor. I'll try to get to them this week.

Savannah - in the letters in this month's Mothering there is a picture of a mama tandem nursing her twins whom she birthed vaginally. Made me think of you!

Sydney is here to say that she has missed all of you... Jo said the cats knew yesterday, somehow, that I was coming home. They followed her around all day, meowing.

Jo says thanks for the birthday greetings.

I hope to get some bead shopping in tomorrow or Tuesday if Sprout is a touch more restful. Otherwise I'm just going to park myself here and do very little!! Wish our new light rail line went all the way to the Mall of America already, but that won't happen til April.

But IKEA opens in 10 days!!! Happy dance!

That's all for now, I guess. Glad to be back home.

xo, j
post #2 of 66
First off....


[QUOTE=mum2tori
OT: did anyone else notice that a few of the big circ debate posters HAD to have a little input into Caroline's thread even when she specifically asked it to not become a debate about circ right or wrong. It was like they couldn't stand to not be included in a discussion about it. Just thought it was interesting... back to your previoiusly scheduled discussion.



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I wanted to apologize for having that little debate..I purposly posted it to you guys and NOT to the circ board to avoid the drama...Thanks to those of you that helped, I am definatly using your thoughts on my conversation with my husband.

Okay...I am doing fair. I am so tired. And getting really nasuaes at times. But I can live with that. I just wish I knew when this baby is coming!! He has already dropped so low I can't sit with my legs closed!

Since this is a new thread, I can't go back and see what everyone wrote! Jen, glad you are home and made it in one piece. Happy Bday to Jo! My DH turns 30 this year also!

Well, I was away at my uncles wedding all weekend. I am thrilled to be home, but I have to take the kids to the fireworks alone tonight since DH is working. Fun....

Everyone have a great Fourth...at least those of you here that celebrate!

Caroline
post #3 of 66
Well, I had too much to catch up on here to post replies too, so I'll just say Happy Monday to all, and hope everyone is faring well!

Welcome back, Jen!

I think I will go bead shopping today. Sounds fun!

We inherited a trampoline from my brother this weekend, and the kids have been bouncing non-stop! Boy, did they sleep well last night!

Friday night at work the baby felt so low in my pelvis that it was uncomfortable! But now it doesn't feel that way anymore. I think he's still flipping around in there.
I am now on the every 2 weeks schedule of visits to the OB. 32 weeks on Wednesday!
post #4 of 66
Glad you made it home safe and sound Jen! Are you enjoying your new bathroom? You and your belly look great, by the way!

Caroline, I am starting to get nauseous again too. Ick! It's nothing like it was at the beginning and it mainly just comes when I am really hungry though.

So I am a big giant ball of grouch these days. I have absolutely zero patience and poor Noah and dh get the brunt of it. Maybe I should do more yoga. It's like the day I hit the 3rd trimester I went from happy, glowing pregnant lady to irritable, uncomfortable pregnant lady. I want to go back to how I was!!

Blah!
post #5 of 66
Thread Starter 
to the wonderful one of you who posted the watermelon granita recipe, thank you thank you, I just had one and it really hit the spot.

The chiropractor affirmed my suspicion that Sprout was no longer vertex today; seems someone is lying transverse with their feet down. Harumph. She did a lot of myofascial work and hopefully stuff is back in balance again and maybe kid will turn again... meanwhile I'm going swimming tomorrow and am doing gentle counter-clockwise belly rubbing.

I did some bead shopping today too! We went to the Sprawl of Hysteria - oh pardon me, the Mall of America. Boy was that exhausting. TONS of people there. We also went to Target and added a couple of things to our registry, one of which was a stroller.

Family shower is set for October 3. I can feel already that I will have to put my foot down against gender-specific pastels and gender-stereotypical clothing (e.g. rompers that say "VARSITY FOOTBALL" on them, etc) since Sprout will already be here.

Happy Mondays all around.

j

ps: yes, the new bath is gorgeous, I'm just looking forward to when the grout is done curing, is sealed and we don't have to pussyfoot around the room and can finally install some storage and such!!
post #6 of 66
Welcome home, Jen; sorry your first night wasn't as relaxing... I wonder if they post those letters photos from the magazine on this web site? I don't get the print version. Have fun with the beads! And don't forget to get on all fours on your elbows with your butt in the air to help Sprout turn...

I got a couple of painful cervix jabs today too. Hmmmm, must be the weather, haha. I was sitting on the couch for one of them and gasped, then said, "hey, stop kicking me!". DH just chuckled.

We have our shower set for Aug. 2; I'll be 34 weeks (fundal height will probably be showing me about 44 weeks pregnant, haha!). I can't wait! Then I ended up having two other small showers, but both wanted them to be held after the twins arrive. I've never been to one of those; are they fun? Do you get anything besides clothes? There are so many other things I can think of that we will need... =O)

3under3, yay for your trampoline! DH and I had one when we lived in Virginia and LOVED it! Little middle school kids would walk by on their way home from school and ask to jump often. We still miss it...

I had just barely gotten the hang of my two-week dr. appts., when suddenly this week I start going weekly! Egads. It really is a full-time job gestating two babies, when you throw in the naps and rest breaks between household chores...
post #7 of 66
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Originally Posted by Caroline248

I wanted to apologize for having that little debate..I purposly posted it to you guys and NOT to the circ board to avoid the drama...Thanks to those of you that helped, I am definatly using your thoughts on my conversation with my husband.
Caroline you have nothing to apologize for. I went over to the Circ board to poke around a little bit. I don't blame you for not posting about it over there. Some of them are so over the top it's kind of off putting. YK? There were a few that are very even keeled posters and then there are some... don't they realize that getting rabid isn't the way to inform and educate others, especially those that are unsure. There's a difference between factual information and horrific scare tactics. Anyway, I hope we were able to help you with a little input.

I have the Watermelon granita recipe printed out and sitting right here on my desk. Has been for the last couple of days... and there is half a waterLEMON (as Tori calls it :LOL) sitting in the fridge. Just might need to break down and make some tomorrow.

After my appointment last week I'm on the 2 week cycle. We did do another u/s and actually put me a little more ahead. I'm about 30 weeks 5 days now. We also wrote the big payment check of $2700. Still makes my heart skip when I have to write a check like that. :LOL Doesn't seem that long ago when writing a $500 check seemed to cause heart failure.

David had me install Mozilla as a browser yesterday instead of using IE6 anymore. This weekend Microsoft released a security patch for a bug that could cause someone to "trojan" your machine by just going to their website and you didn't even have to download anything. : : AND apparently this security glitch has been out in the "wild" for over 3 WEEKS!!! Not cool. That makes something like 150 security patches THIS year alone. And it isn't even a "complete patch". Here's a couple of links in case anyone is interested in reading. http://securityfocus.com/news/9054 (whihc says it doens't even work!), http://securityfocus.com/news/8982 and http://securityfocus.com/news/8998 . A good explanation... http://securityfocus.com/columnists/251 . Sorry, that's David's computer forte, he's a security specialist. So now I'm trying to get use to using Mozilla. It's not too different than IE but it is a little bit.

Well, I've officially traded in my computer chair for the birthing ball. My lower back and pelvic pain was getting out of control. It has helped some. Of course now it's a free-for-all with the ball and the kids. My computer is in the living room/playroom. So if I'm not sitting on the ball... it's getting rolled from one end of the room to the other. :LOL

Jen love the picture of your "stripes"! (Oh that's nothing, I'm a almost a zebra! :LOL) Very cute stripes. Glad to hear that you are home and in one piece. I hate driving in heavy rain.

I'm feeling a bit... "grumpy" too... : Doesn't help that it's rained so much in the last 3 weeks. I think I'm a little achy from the rain too.

Hope everyone's Fourth was safe and fun.
post #8 of 66
Oh no, mamas!!! You're not going to believe it . . . . . . . . . I lost my beads!!!

Along with my mind and several other thinkgs I'm sure were important. If I don't find them tomorrow I will re-buy. I can't get back to the bead store until Wed. though. Sorry, if I'm late with mailing.

I sure do wish I could keep everyone straight. Everytime I think I know which screen name goes w/ which mama name and circumstance I find out I've still got it wrong. I really don't know what my problem is.

Well, tomorrow I head off to a huge pool party for my niece. My SIL throws over the top parties for her kids! Tons of guests, food, food, pools, food, and guests. The party starts at noon and most people toay until the pool closes at 7pm!!! I haven't been to a pool yet this summer so I"m not sure how I"ll deal with the heat and my girls. Antoinette would probably dive right in- she is 17 months! It will be an adventure for sure .

We are trying to relocate to Va. (from NJ). We will be leaving dh's family/home state to go to mine. We're still trying to find him a job so it may or may not work out. Here is the kicker - if we moved we would rent an apartment from my aunt. The current tenent is leaving when is lease is up in Sept. 3. Then it will take 2 weeks to fix the place up again before we could move in, around the 17th. Yup, 4 days after my EDD!!! So, do we go early and live with my grandma for a month or move with a new-new-newborn?

Kara
post #9 of 66
Hi, can I join you all?

I'm almost 29 weeks pregnant with my fourth child, due around September 23rd. It seems I'm so busy (and tired) that I'm only now getting into this pregnancy in the third trimester. I feel bad about it, like I haven't been enjoyng it like I should or giving baby all the thought he or she deserves, . Mama guilt begins early, huh?

I just switched my care from a CNM practice to a homebirth midwife, and I think that has helped my outlook considerably. I wanted a homebirth from the beginning, but it wasn't financially possible in the beginning. That changed, and now I'm so looking forward to the birth! I think I was bit in denial before.

I have two daughters, ages 6 1/2 and almost 5, and a son age 2 1/2. My girls were born in the hospital and my son at home in a fishy pool.

I'm looking forward to getting to know you all!
post #10 of 66
Welcome!!!

I've been bad about posting in this thread.
post #11 of 66
Baby Positions....

Hey Jen, do you know about these websites?

www.spinningbabies.com

http://www.homebirth.org.uk/ This second one has a page on optimal fetal positioning, although I found the first site better. This one was good for an overview of homebirth and birth preperation - helpful for any labour, at home or hospital.

Cheers,
Julia
post #12 of 66
Caroline and Chrissy--I'm getting nauseous at times too. My appetite is kinda low these days. I get hungry, know I need to eat, but nothing sounds good!

Jen--Sorry to hear Sprout is transverse, but it's pretty early still--I'm sure s/he will turn head down again!

blipla--Hi, and welcome! You're "due" one day before me. That's great that you were able to switch to a homebirth. DD was born at home in a fishy pool, too, and this baby will be as well.

Mum2tori--did you make the granita? It's such a yummy, refreshing thing to eat on a hot day. I also made my kids some watermelon popsicles with some of the pureed watermelon and they loved them!

It sounds like most of us are on the two-week appointment cycle now--I'll be there after my next appointment (next week) at 30 weeks.

Yay, DD is falling asleep at the boob right now, and ds is at his playgroup (he goes twice a week for 3 hrs and loves it), so I might get a nap in.
post #13 of 66
Welcome, blipla! My kids are about the same ages as yours -- opposite sexes, though. We're planning a homebirth too.

Well, this is the first access I've had to the internet in several days! I took down the computer because I'm converting the computer room to a bedroom (so I can be closer to the bathroom -- my old bedroom was all the way across the house and up a flight of stairs from the bathroom!) We don't have a place for the computer yet so I just hooked it up here on the floor this morning. Anyway, my new bedroom is soooo nice! (It's also going to be the birthing room) I did a sponge/water color effect on the walls in green and blue. I gotta get a hold of a digital camera so I can post pictures!

I had a not so nice Friday, I'm pretty much over it but I just have to post about it anyway. I got stopped for speeding. The P.O. clocked me at 76 which is ridiculous, because I am one of those crazy people that always goes the speed limit -- I sometimes up it on our interstate highway but never over 72 (and at that, am still usually one of the slower ones.) I tend to drive conservatively everywhere else. I'm the "sunday driver" that other drivers get mad at. Immediately what came to mind is that something must be up with the speedometer on the car we just bought, we've only had it two months, and it's an old car ('76 Grand Wagoneer.) The thing is -- if I was going that fast and the speedometer *is* off I wouldn't have noticed it because this is a long, straight rural road. So no way to really judge speed except by the speedometer. Anyway, I explained this all to the officer but of course it's not his concern. So then he comes back to the car and says there's a problem. My license is expired. Somehow, with all the stuff going on this summer, it escaped my attention. So I'm two weeks overdue for renewal and was driving illegally. At first I didn't think it was that big a deal -- I mean, I don't have a criminal record, and I can prove that my address is correct (I live literally two blocks away from where he stopped me,) but again, that's not his concern. $237 dollars for each ticket. This is when I started to lose it. He walked back to his car and the tears sprung to my eyes, so I put my sunglasses on so he wouldn't see and think I was trying to manipulate him or something. So he comes back and tells me of course that I can't drive home, so we have to walk back in 90 degree heat carrying our groceries. Then he tells me that I need to have someone come pick up the car in the next hour or so (um, my husband is at work with no access to a phone, so this is going to be dificult, why can't it wait until this evening?) or he may have to have the car impounded, which he makes clear is his right to do right now and he's not going to only because he's such a nice guy. : Then he said that he could also give me a ticket for not pulling over immediately, and when I tried to defend myself by explaining that the shoulder is only about two feet wide with 6' deep ditches on either side, and I didn't feel safe pulling over there, and that's why I slowed way down and put my turn signal on so that he would know I was going to pull over when I could (a turn-off was just up ahead,) and he said that I should have just stopped in the middle of the road then. !!! Gads, what am I supposed to say to that? Then he proceeds to grill me on my children's weights and ages to make sure that they are all in the appropriate seating. It just felt like it went on and on, and he had this tone in his voice was like he thought that I was a stupid wayward child, and it was so frustrating because I couldn't say what I was thinking, which was, so why the hell aren't you busting the semis that scream past my house at 80 miles an hour (in a 45 zone,) but of course I couldn't say anything except "yes, I understand." I just wanted to go home and drink some water and cry in peace. It was really not a good day.
post #14 of 66
Oh! Blueviolet, that sounds awful!!! I'm sure I would have lost it! You poor mama!

I can't hardly wait to post all the details of my great weekend... but am too dang busy to do it yet! hopefully in the next hour or so, i will get all caught up. In the meantime, love to all

Anna Banana
post #15 of 66
Thread Starter 
Ouchie, Linda, I'm sorry about your horrible experience. It makes me so sad and frustrated when people take advantage of their positions of power in situations like that. Thankfully your new room sounds nice and I hope that working with the green and blue helped your state of mind, blue especially can be very soothing.

Trying very hard to get my butt in gear to send off beads (not happening yet today!),

jen

ps: found a prenatal aquacize class at the YWCA where we're members! Yippee!!
post #16 of 66
Oh Linda!!! I hope your family cuddled you lots to make up for that jerk! Your room sounds beautiful. I hope you do take pictures for us to see.

Is today the day our beads are supposed to go out??? EEK!
post #17 of 66
Oh Linda, how awful. I would definitely go to court on that one, because it seems over the top, and there's usually a good chance that the cop won't show up.

We had a good three day weekend, now its back to the grindstone in the office, and I have papers piled everywhere! I'm feeling really good though, my adjustment lasted for about a week, and that has really helped. Now I need to get myself back in. Hope everyone is having a good week.
post #18 of 66
Greetings all-

Welcome blipla! Join into any conversations that are going on. We're a happy chatty bunch.

Ugh Linda!! What is it with power-tripping police officers sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I have several friends that are P.O.s and respect the job they have to do but that guy was over the top. I swear sometimes here they only pull those of us over that can pay for tickets. Not that car billowing black smoke with no tags, bald tires, a busted out window, no suspension and 47 people crammed into it! They wouldn't be able pay for the fees and probably don't have a license, insurance or are even legally in this country. We have a lot of illegals here in Houston. That was unreasonable that he made you WALK in the heat with all the kids like that. I'd have told him he was crazy if he'd tried to tell me that. I mean come on, your license had expired 2 WEEKS ago, it's not like it had been months. UGH!! Sorry he stressed you out so badly. Like a pregnant woman needs that! You new room sounds wonderful. Can't wait to see pictures.

Can't wait to hear about your weekend Anna!

I'm hoping to be able to sit down and sort out all the beads and addresses when the kids go down for a nap today... which means no naps today. :LOL Otherwise I'll be doing it tonight after they've gone to bed. I can't wait!! This is so much fun.
post #19 of 66
Hello, hello, I'm back online from a computer-free Fourth of July. Well, we were on the computer doing Quicken, etc. (yuck) but I haven't checked messages for days.

Yesterday I spent at the pool. It's so hard getting out, I almost didn't get in and float around much. I'm so glad I did. It felt great being so weightless! I wish I knew someone with a pool so I didn't have to display my ample rear to the public at the YMCA, but eh, what ya gonna do.

My next appointment is Thursday; I'm at 30 weeks now. I have an ultrasound scheduled for the 15th especially to look for heart abnormalities (I had one child born with a serious defect) but previous peeks have revealed nothing out of the ordinary.

Actually there's not much new with me. Getting more uncomfortable at night but hey, who isn't, right? I'm vowing to stay on prenatal vitamins the rest of my life; my fingernails look fantastic. LOL

I spent part of Sunday looking through old family pictures and other things from my grandparents' house, who both died last spring. I wish they were still around to talk about these photos! But they never shared them while they were alive. But I saw a picture of my grandfather's grandmother! Isn't that incredible. My grandfather was born in 1913 -- she had to have been born in the 1860s. And in France, too. Her son, my grandfather's father, was named Emil, like Emile de Becque in South Pacific! I'd love to use it for my little one, but his first and last name already are going to be exceedingly French sounding. Plus I want the middle name to be my father's. Anyway, I've been all caught up in the mists of time ever since looking through those boxes.

I have officially grown OUT of two items in my maternity wardrobe -- a pair of capri pants and some shorts that are just way too snug in the behind. Thankfully I planned for this and bought some things that were too large at the time I tried them on.

I've pretty much given up on exercising. Just a little stroll at a snail's pace just seems too much for me Ridiculous, I know. I wish I'd kept up better with the walking so I didn't find myself in this shape now. I wanted to be buff come "labor day!"

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This is silly, but I was just looking throught the smilies and got all hysterical over this one: :Puke LOL!
post #20 of 66
Samantha, that's just the thing, we are *not* wealthy people. I mean, I'm driving an old wagoneer! Would I be driving that if I had money? :LOL Almost $500. That's a huge amount of money to us. But you know, now I've learned my lesson. I'll never mess with the law like that again. To be fair, I sympathize with PO's position in general. I know it's not their job to make judgement calls (although I know they do, both good and bad.) It's just that his attitude was like rubbing salt in the wound. Although, what do I know, maybe he'd just gotten yelled at by his boss and was going through a divorce and just found out he had cancer. I mean, I know it's not all about me. In the moment it sure feels like that though.

On a lighter note, I ordered some Bravado bikini underwear. I had high hopes, but they've been dashed. They are very well-made, nice smooth fabric and seams, and in my size!, but they bunch up weirdly and uncomfortably. Hmph. haven't tried the Jockey men's yet, I went to the store to look at them and just couldn't imagine the male model's butt and my butt fitting in the same piece of fabric. :LOL I also got a new Polar Babies diaper cover, I've given up and gone back to them. Best I've found for my needs so far. So this time I'm going to try to take better care of them so maybe they'll last longer, and get some of that spray-on stuff that's supposed to restore the waterproof barrier when it wears off.

Well, I hope it doesn't screw anybody up that I'm going to be late with my beads. I can't drive until I get my license reinstated : and I can't do that until Friday (somebody's got to take me into town, and nobody I know can really afford to take the time off from work for a non-emergency, and a taxi would be WAY expensive plus how stressful would it be having to wait in the stupid DMV for hours with my kids...) So I'll be a little late. I'm sorry!

Also I probably will not be able to be on the computer much for the next week (maybe not at all,) so I just want to say I hope you all have a good week!
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