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Originally Posted by hopingtobe
Since my last post I have been thinking about my attitude to how girls are dressed. Maybe I need to change my attitude. Maybe I am just out of tune with girls fashion (all boys mama
).I guess I am a modest type, but it is of course non of my business how other people dress, or how they dress their children. love and respect |
I'm on the other side. I don't think it matters much at all, and I will let my kids choose their own clothes just as I let them choose their hair color, but that is not the norm on mothering (nor the norm in most parenting circles - I mean not many of us were allowed to wear what we want or to cut our hair how we want by our parents; I wasn't even though I had pretty liberal parents. Some of it, I think, is how we see our kids as a reflection of ourselves; my parents, for example, thought they raised us to be, like themselves, immune to "shallow" teenage/mainstream culture and were not too pleased when we embraced it with gusto).






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