I posted that my aunt is dying of cancer. This is my favorite aunt that I grew up around. Very warm loving person. She is a lactivist too btw 
So, I want to go to Ca. soon to see her, hopefully BEFORE she dies. So ones of my uncles is coming through from Tx and I am wanting to go with him. I will probably be only taking the baby. I told all this to my counselor today, who knows my stand on bf'ing. He tells me that since I am depressed and ready to call it quits in my marraige, perhaps I should go alone, let baby wean while I am gone and I will come back a whole different person. &**% ^&$%!!!!! First off, there is no way I am going to wean when I can take him,why does he bother? Second, I will be quite relaxed bieng where I do not have to worry about cleaning house, chasing my(much missed) toddler or nagging my (again, much missed) 9 year old. I WILL be relaxed, even under the circumstances. Then he tells me at least think about it. I tried to tell him I would to aviod having to stay longer to hear a speech, but I do not think I convinced him.
So, I want to go to Ca. soon to see her, hopefully BEFORE she dies. So ones of my uncles is coming through from Tx and I am wanting to go with him. I will probably be only taking the baby. I told all this to my counselor today, who knows my stand on bf'ing. He tells me that since I am depressed and ready to call it quits in my marraige, perhaps I should go alone, let baby wean while I am gone and I will come back a whole different person. &**% ^&$%!!!!! First off, there is no way I am going to wean when I can take him,why does he bother? Second, I will be quite relaxed bieng where I do not have to worry about cleaning house, chasing my(much missed) toddler or nagging my (again, much missed) 9 year old. I WILL be relaxed, even under the circumstances. Then he tells me at least think about it. I tried to tell him I would to aviod having to stay longer to hear a speech, but I do not think I convinced him.
frustrating and annoying. Is it a job of a counselor to give advice? Maybe I'm thinking more of a therapist or something. It just seems like he really wanted you to consider this for some reason, but it doesn't sound like he gets it at all.
