Thank you ladies so much for the advice and
's. And Jessie (farmlife), I really appreciated the PM you sent last night. You ladies have no idea how much you can lift each other's spirits!
I'm feeling better about things after a good night's sleep but I still haven't spoken to DH since yesterday afternoon. Needless to say he slept on the couch.
Good news though...my temps have been consistently high.
I think I read in TCOYF that 18 consecutive high temps is a good indication that you're pg.
We shall see!
mom2threenurslings-You're so right. The issue here is the lying. The smoking just adds to the problem. I am truly hoping he's not addicted b/c I know coming off an addiction like that can be hell for some people. Thank you for your thoughts!
Jesse-We're all here to hold your hand!! I know it can be scary but we're all here for you!
Becca'sMama-I have also thought about the scare tactic. Is that actually true though? He wants to get pg as much as I do so I think that might just work. Thanks.
Katy-I don't think it's to the point of needing something to put in his mouth. For instance, we went on vacation a couple weeks ago and we were gone for 4 days. He never left my sight that whole time so I know he didn't smoke. I guess the terrible headaches he had should've been an indication to me that something was up b/c he never gets headaches...hindsight's 20/20.
Thanks for your thoughts!!
Alexis-Tell your DH good luck on Friday!!
I hope the results are wonderful! Thanks for your thoughts.
I know this is something he's just going to have nip in the bud (no pun intended) and do himself.
Tara-Good for you for quitting!!! Your story is very inspiring.
I'm trying to be kind to him but the hurt is still too fresh. I guess it will take time.
Velveteen-I hope the herbs are helping you! What exactly are you taking? I hope that I can help my DH too.
Alright I'm off to piano camp for the morning. I will check back in this afternoon.