OK, OK, I know the first answer to my question is going to be - have a homebirth. Due to circumstances currently beyond my control my birth choices are very limited. We are 20 miles from the one - and only 1 - hospital in the area, there are no birth centers or homebirth midwives within 100 miles. There are only two Dr’s that deliver at that hospital, no midwives and no doulas. I have chosen the much more natural, less interventionist Dr. (family practice not the OB).
At 20 weeks I showed him a rough draft of a birth plan to get an idea of what we might need to work on. He was OK with almost everything. I am now looking for studies, statistics and brilliant arguments for the few things he wasn’t. I also think some of these are just, most unfortunately, not going to be changeable.
1) Delayed cord cutting. He said he has always cut before the placenta was even out and has never had a problem in 13 years.
2) Electronic fetal monitoring! This is a big one for me. I requested doppler or fetalscope; the hospital doesn’t have either. (The hospital only has 3 OB nurses and they only have about one delivery a week.) They also don’t have telemetry monitors. They want 20 minutes per hour. If I refuse, I would be refusing all monitoring since they have no alternatives. Ideas?
(And, yes, I have read The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth, but so much of that is her analysis, I can't really quote it for an argument to present the dr and hospital.)
Thanks!
At 20 weeks I showed him a rough draft of a birth plan to get an idea of what we might need to work on. He was OK with almost everything. I am now looking for studies, statistics and brilliant arguments for the few things he wasn’t. I also think some of these are just, most unfortunately, not going to be changeable.
1) Delayed cord cutting. He said he has always cut before the placenta was even out and has never had a problem in 13 years.
2) Electronic fetal monitoring! This is a big one for me. I requested doppler or fetalscope; the hospital doesn’t have either. (The hospital only has 3 OB nurses and they only have about one delivery a week.) They also don’t have telemetry monitors. They want 20 minutes per hour. If I refuse, I would be refusing all monitoring since they have no alternatives. Ideas?
(And, yes, I have read The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth, but so much of that is her analysis, I can't really quote it for an argument to present the dr and hospital.)
Thanks!







So, perhaps he could just humor you. After all, what harm can he see in letting you have it your way and cut after the placenta is out?
I agree, ask him if he'd use it if you brought your own.

I love Dr. Jen's response to the EFM, there is no reason that could not be done!