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post #81 of 91
Welcome leomom and faith... how exciting to have two preggy mamas on the thread!

As far as charitable deductions, my understanding is that it needs to add up to a certain amount for it to count because then you will do your deductions as itemized, rather than taking the standard deduc. you cant take both. So, add up all of your deductions and see if they will beat the standard. If they do- great, but if now, just take the regular. You'll get the child credit too this year, so don't forget that. Anyone else who knows more about this or differently, feel free to chime in .

As far as the last few steps in YMOYL Faith (congratulations by the way- that is really, really inspiring to me as we are right in the beginning of this) I think it might come down to what you value more. Personally, I would take the land and acreage any day. You can always find ways to scape up more money or save later to offset maybe. Personally, I'd rather retire a little later on a bit more land, than early and be renting or not someplace i want to be spending my now free time. anyone else?

Dh and I are talking about ways to get a rental income w/o buying another piece of property. Our house does not have a garage, so we are thinking about looking into the cost of a modular garage with an apartment up top. We could rent out the apt. in the summer for probably $800 a week! that would be sooooo amazing. Then in the winter months probably only $600 a month, but that's 1/2 our mortgage; the summer income would more than pay our property taxes for the year plus a great cushion. Its motivating to continue paying off our debt so we can think about tapping onto equity on the house to do that. Though it would mean borrowing against hte house, I think in the long term, its a wise investment.

Did my weekly shopping today. *still* going over 100! It was only $2 today, so I felt better. Maybe if I decrease by $2 each week, i'll finally make it...lol.
post #82 of 91
Can I join you?
DH is losing his job in 2 weeks!
We have debt and a big mortgage and I don't know how we're going to make it.
I can certainly use GOOD!
post #83 of 91
Chrissy-

We have been through a number of lay-offs during our marriage-

First- make sure he signs up for unemployment right away- it takes a while for the checks to start coming.

Next- right now cancel your cable, long distance, cell phones, anything else you can to lower those monthly bills- you will live without these things.

Then- figure out if there is any way you can make money from home- selling anything on ebay? An at-home business? Or- is there any part or full time work that you can do while dh is laid off? (I did substitute teaching, which works well, b/c there is no committment you start and end when it's good for you and you only work days that are good for you)

health insurance- will you still be covered for a while, will you need to pay into COBRA? Health insurance was always one of our biggest obstacles.

Sorry this is happening to you, but rest assured lots of people have been through it and we all came out ok .
post #84 of 91
Chrissy, good luck to you

Faith- YMOL is about finding what is worth it to you, so everyone's answer will be different. Good luck with your decision! There are some online calculators- if you check out simpleliving.net, they'll have links.

We know someone who retired early five years ago at about 35 and now has returned to work to get health insurance- the costs were over $1500 a month (family of 5) just for that and this was the deal breaker on early retirement.

I hope there is some form of health insurance reform soon.

newmainer- great about the grocery shopping! I haven't been able to stay in my grocery budget yet. I keep trying.
post #85 of 91
Thanks for the replies!

We are not even trying to stay in our budget this month. With the extra birth expenses, my car breaking down, and just plain out needing to get some things now that we aren't poor anymore (like our own washer and dryer!), we decided to jump off the budget for a month. But in October it is back to bussiness.

That is awful about the health insurance! That is the one thing that has been bothering me. I have a list of what each expense 'should' be percentage-wise from your monthly budget, and the only thing we are over on by a big amount is insurance! We have health, car, rental and life. I don't know what else to do, when I have allready made sure we have the cheapest. We spend more on that category than anything but rent!

Well, I think we are leaning toward getting a fixer-upper house on some acerage in about six months (so I don't have to move with a tiny baby), and investing at a smaller ammount. That way, we can save money, be *happy* where we live, and still be working towards DH retiring early. None of us are too thrilled about our current residence here with no yard or anything, and I really don't want our DC growing up on this street.



Chrissy,
So sorry! It will be okay! I know this isn't the same, but when I was pregannt with our first, DH quit his job one day. It was a hell-hole and he just needed to do it. But, so there we were- no ins, no income, etc.
But since he had all that free time during the day, it didn't take him long to find a new job. I got on the state ins. for a few months to cover the pregnancy until his new insurance kicked in, and we ended up fine- well, better than fine because he had a better job!
You will get through it!
post #86 of 91

Need GOOD advice...

Advice:

I have 80 dollars left in my budget for household expenses this week. I have made out my menu for next week and my grocery list for tomorrow. It shouldn't be more than 10 dollars, since I've been stocking up on meat when it's been on sale.

So...I will have about 70 to play with. Should I take advantage of the loss leaders for the week (even though they aren't needed in my weekly menu) so that I can take advantage of the sale prices, or should I just save the extra money for another week that may be more expensive?

I'm due in 2 1/2 weeks, so I've been slowly stocking up on sales (stocking the pantry and freezer), but now I'm wondering if I should keep doing that or start saving some extra money for little expenses that will pop up..I'm worried that I will not be able to be as frugal a shopper for the 1st few months after the baby comes due to time..so what's better to have..a stocked pantry at sale prices or extra cash?

BTW, we have no credit card debt, but we are working to bulid our savings which is pretty measley...

Chrissy...So sorry about your husband's job!

Newmainer- the rental property idea is fascinating to me. Wow! I hope it works out for you if that's what you decide to do.
post #87 of 91
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Went to the grocery store and the gas station today and came in $18.19 under budget for the week (my weekly budget starts over on Fridays due to payday scheduling)!!

This is the first time...EVER!! Thank you all for sharing your challenges and triumphs! You are the reason I was able to resist frivolous purchasing this week!! You've inspried me.
post #88 of 91
Way to go!
post #89 of 91
Congrats to you Leomom! I hope I can say the same soon!

Good luck with the final countdown to your delivery
post #90 of 91
Wow its been a while since I have logged in! We moved! We are renting a house and its less then what we were paying for rent for a two bedroom apartment on the third floor! : We will have to heat it but thats still not going to be as much as what we payed before just in rent and he was going up too!
I would say that we are still doing good with our budget! It helped that my bday coincided with the move because I get money for my bday and its useful to buy the things we needed!
I am so glad to see all the newcomers! I'm glad you are all doing this now before the debt gets to big to get out from under! I have a friend who recently had a baby. She wants to stay home now because the baby is CONSTANTLY crying. She thinks that something is wrong with her and is taking her to lots of differant docs to have her checked out. But she had to get a loan to pay her mortgage so she could stay home an extra month! She has deffered payments and she never realized how bad debt was until just now! So I feel like we are the lucky ones to have noticed it early enough on to get out of it!
Anyways I just wanted to check in with you all. Hope you are all doing GOOD!
post #91 of 91
Ladies here is the link for the Sept. thread- come join me, state your debt problem and goals and let's get to supporting each other- I need a boost!
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