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I'm torn. I've said all along that I didn't want any unnecessary ultrasounds. Now that there's a baby in there that I talk to/about all the time, I feel this huge desire to know whether I should say he or she. My midwife asked yesterday and I told her how I'd felt about it and asked her opinion. She said she really felt it would be fine if we wanted to, especially since we weren't doing anything else "medical."

We'll decide by the end of the month so we can let her know... I'll be about 20 weeks then.