I am wondering if anyone had a similar experience or if any midwives would share their opinions...
I have a 19 month old DS who was born with a severe congenital heart defect and required 2 surgeries, immediate NICU, oxygen, meds, the works. He was born vaginally in hospital after a 22 hour labor and vacuum extraction, episiotomy (he was posterior). We did not know about his heart until after his birth. We have met with a genetic counselor and she told us that our chances of having another baby with a heart defect are only 3-4% and that they would consider me low risk until they found something wrong with the baby's heart (through a 14-15 week u/s and a 22week fetal echocardiogram). She said I could get my regular prenatal care from a midwife if I wanted. I am wondering if any homebirth midwives would take me if both tests showed the baby's heart was fine? I know there is one in my area that has been recommended to me, but I'm not even pregnant yet (though I might be, waiting to test), and my DH is a little leery of homebirth after what we went through. If I deliver in a hospital it will have to be the one where my son had his surgeries, and their L&D is super-interventionist. I have not heard one good story of anyone delivering there. Any advice?
I have a 19 month old DS who was born with a severe congenital heart defect and required 2 surgeries, immediate NICU, oxygen, meds, the works. He was born vaginally in hospital after a 22 hour labor and vacuum extraction, episiotomy (he was posterior). We did not know about his heart until after his birth. We have met with a genetic counselor and she told us that our chances of having another baby with a heart defect are only 3-4% and that they would consider me low risk until they found something wrong with the baby's heart (through a 14-15 week u/s and a 22week fetal echocardiogram). She said I could get my regular prenatal care from a midwife if I wanted. I am wondering if any homebirth midwives would take me if both tests showed the baby's heart was fine? I know there is one in my area that has been recommended to me, but I'm not even pregnant yet (though I might be, waiting to test), and my DH is a little leery of homebirth after what we went through. If I deliver in a hospital it will have to be the one where my son had his surgeries, and their L&D is super-interventionist. I have not heard one good story of anyone delivering there. Any advice?









