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post #1 of 7
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I was just wondering if anyone else has had experiences discussing breastfeeding with teens or pre-teens who know nothing about breastfeeding whatsoever.

I have a 16 year old friend (who I used to babysit...she now babysits my kids!) who has spent the last 5.5 years getting a pretty decent education about breastfeeding. She has seen me nurse through pregnancy, tandem nurse right after birth (she attended my second two births!), tandem nurse through pregnancy, triandem nurse, and nurse a 4 year old (he weaned on his fifth birthday...his little brother is now 4 and nursing!). She knows about nursing bras, nursing pads, different positions, etc. She's even been to LLL meetings with me (as well as a 6 week Bradley Method class in which we discussed breastfeeding!).

Her little brother, who was about 9 when my first child was born ... and his friend... have asked me just about every question a pre-teen/teen could ask over the past 5 years. Their parents told me to answer everything truthfully, which I did. It's funny because the thing they were most interested in at age 12 was the functioning of a nursing bra. They, too, have seen me nurse through pregancy, tandem nurse, etc. They are 14 now and are completely comfortable with conversing with me while I nurse one or both of my nurslings.

I wish I had a breastfeeding role model growing up. Before I started breastfeeding, I had known 2 people who nursed...both weaning before 3 months.

Anyone else have similar experiences?
post #2 of 7
I have a friend with a 17 year old dd who has siblings 4 yrs and 20 months, both bf and the little one still nursing. I nurse over at their place all the time and we talk bf sometimes. There was a segment on the news last week featuring a nursing mom and and LC and we talked about what was good and not so good about their discussion. I don't really feel like I'm educating her though since she is so familiar w/ bf because of her sibs. Still, it's good to know at least some of the women of her generation will be knowledgeable, and perhaps she can share her info w/ her friends when they begin to have children.
post #3 of 7
I've been thinking it would be interesting to someday volunteer to talk to a middle/high school health class about breastfeeding.
post #4 of 7
Some of the parents of my daughter have said it is my job to teach this to the kids. I get pregnant while using birth control (I can see why they would prefer that to come from me) but one in particular said she wished she had known anyone who had breastfed, or thought it normal. I told her not to beat herself up, she didn't know any better at the time. But that having her DD over and seeing how normal it is and my DD turning into this mini lactivist helps her DD see that it is normal. Sounds like she has no other nursing exposure. Especially from a working mom.

oh, this is funny. The biggest person FIGHTING me about weaning ds2 was DD. She said an arbitrary age of 3 to wean was completely unfair and because ds2 was nursing still he obviously needed it. She saw me nurse him during my pregnancy and tandem and never thought it was weird.

I never saw nursing much less heard of it from a real person till my first was 6 months old. I snuck peeks behind me in an airplane seat at the mama behind me when I was 12. I was facinated, but didn't ask or tell anyone what I saw. At that point breasts were sex objects and I had never been told otherwise so I thought I was seeing something wrong.

I look forward to nursing at my daughter's high school this year!
post #5 of 7
[\QUOTE]She has seen me nurse through pregnancy, tandem nurse right after birth (she attended my second two births!), tandem nurse through pregnancy, triandem nurse, and nurse a 4 year old (he weaned on his fifth birthday...his little brother is now 4 and nursing!). [/QUOTE]




Wow! You are like the BF'ing poster child! You go girl! (no suggestions, just wanted to give you a )
post #6 of 7
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Kelly K ... thanks!

It's great that you all are good role models for kids...even if they're your own or kids of other nursing moms!

Tiacsophno: I've thought about doing some form of breastfeeding education for teens as well. I think it's important that teens learn about it (male and female alike) before having families ... I'd love to plant the seed that it may someday grow into a beautiful breastfeeding relationship.

I'm married to the son of a LLL Leader, and he's the one who urged me to breastfeed. Having grown up hearing about breastfeeding on a daily basis (when his mom took calls or when there were meetings at his house), he assumed that his wife would breastfeed!
post #7 of 7
that is one lucky 16 year old friend! and she'll tell 2 friends, and they'll tell 2 friends, and so on, and so on....
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