He called right away and was not happy at all. He said he would send the checks yesterday (Monday), so now I await them. I have to see him this Sunday, I know he will probably be all pissy pants with me, but I am done being nice. I have been too nice all along and I am done. I go out of my way every time and I put my self on the line. From now on, my ds lives here and truely only visits his dad. No more extra days. Maybe next summer I will consider a trip again, but for this year, no more. There is nothing in my custody agreement that says I even have to let him take him for a long visit in the summer. So thats it. This has now become a business relationship. As much as I hate to do that, its what has to happen 
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