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post #81 of 105
Hi Joy, they won't pull him out of the coma until the swelling in his brain goes down, so unfortunately it's really a wait and see sort of thing. I feel so bad for him, he so wanted to be at the olympics right now representing Canada and instead, he's in coma with severe injuries. His mom held the phone up to him and I talked to him for a while, told him he better get better cause the baby needed his Uncle Mark. (he was so thrilled that we considered him uncle Mark)
Also spoke with Memphis's owner, the dog is doing alright, the road rash on his bum is infected a bit, so now he's on antibiotics, but he's still walking just fine (I really thought he'd be horribly stiff today) and his regular vet just shook his head saying he was a miracle dog.
My arthritis is really flared, likely just from all the stress but I'm having a hell of time getting around right now and the pain killers make my lack of want to eat even worse. I put my steroid dose back up (I had weaned myself to 2.5 mg a day from 40 mg a day at the beginning of the pregnancy and for a few months pre pregnancy. I upped myself back to 20 mg and I'm really hoping by tomorrow that it kicks in.
Steve and I have our first councelling session tomorrow morning, but he's been so wonderful since the last major fight that I'm having trouble remembering what was so horrible. The stupid little lies are the major thing though. In talking to my friend that is a social worker, he said after meeting Steve's mother, she thinks the these stupid lies are from growing up in an enviroment where forgetting to wash a shelf in the bathtub after being asked to clean the bathroom would have been a HUGE deal and another reason to point out that he's useless. It makes sense, he just reverts back to saying what people want to hear without even realizing or thinking about the fact that he's not going to get in big trouble.
Well, I should go now, the gravol is making me drowsy and maybe just maybe I could fall asleep and have a little nap
post #82 of 105
Yea Leslie!!!!!

Now you can get down to the business of enjoying every bit of this pregnancy! : I am very happy for you.


Shannon, thinking of Mark, hope all is well. I know you must be anxious, we are sending postitive thoughts his way.

14 weeks today! yipee
post #83 of 105
Went and got my original blood work done today...finally! I've been putting it off forever. I also had a m/w appt. It went well. Pretty boring at this point. I have to schedule an ultra sound. When's the best time? I'm only have on u/s. I'm thinking around 19 wks?
post #84 of 105
Shannon,
I hadn't read about your godson when I posted my news. I'm so sorry that he's so seriously injured. I'm glad it sounds like he will pull through, and I will hope for you both that he will be fine. What a rough time for you.

Ekblad, I'd agree that around 19 or 20 weeks is probably the best time if it is the only one you'll have.

Wtchyhlr, It sounds like you made a huge score! I know that feels great! I borrowed a ton of maternity stuff from a friend too, and it easy saved my several hundred dollars, esp. since I have been wearing it for a couple of weeks already!

We are going to dinner to celebrate our good news today. I'll check back with you all later.

Thanks again for your support through all of this. You're amazing.
post #85 of 105
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Ok, chalk it up to preggo-brain, but I have a few questions - sorry if the answers lie somewhere in this thread - I can't for the life of me remember!

Shannon - was Mark's accident while rowing, or a car accident? I agree that you should stay put, btw. You have enough going on without taking that kind of trip. I'm glad to hear you're going to counselling. I hope it works out well for you two.

Lesley - congratulations on the great news!!! My question to you is: Is this it for results? Or are you still awaiting amnio results? Sorry - not sure what FISH stands for...

Joy! um...no questions, just

I had a great acupuncture session this evening! She had been away for three weeks, so it was soooo nice to see her again! Pulse still robust!

Ok - gotta go run an errand, then we absolutely have to pack - I leave on vacation straight from work tomorrow, yikes!
post #86 of 105
Hevea, it was a rowing accident, there was a collision between 2 boats, he came out of his boat and a third boat nailed him right in the head. It was the final stretch of a race, so they were pulling pretty hard and were moving pretty fast.
post #87 of 105
Oh Lesley, we are so glad that your FISH results were good. Wow, I know that you feel that the world is a much brighter place now!

Shannon, sounds like a good idea to stay at home. That lil babe seems to be doing pretty well without any added high bp influences!!
Good luck with your counselling session.
That's great that Steve has agreed to go, know it's hard for some men to talk infront of virtual strangers, so a big thumbs up for him for going!

wtchyhlr, from what I can remember, that amount of outfits sounds about right. You will invariably pick up a couple of other things on the way too from parents etc that saw something too yummy for words and just had to have it!!
I was amazed at the amount of stuff that people would bring us, people that we hadn't even met too!!
What most people say is that the newborns grow so fast that they will be in 3-6 month clothes after the first 3 weeks. That was not my experience at allas she was so small. So I would register for some 3-6 month clothes too. Maybe some more experinced mothers like Ekblad and Mehndi could give their 2 cents!
Happy Friday everyone, I think I am 15 weeks today!!
post #88 of 105
Howdy All I am 14 weeks today, we are getting there. Felt baby moving again last night. Listen and had the kids listen to the HB and I was able to pick it up from both sides of my belly (which can be so normal) however, they had a 20 beat per minute difference (could still be variation of the heart during the time it took me to move the doppler) it is something to make you go HMMMMM though. Not measuring big right now though??? Yes I also lurk and occasionally post on the UC thread. Am undecided about this baby. I know there will be no midwife, but I have invited another student midwife to support me so I don't know if that is really UC birth. I am open to not calling if things move quickly, so we will see

Lesley- great news, a little girl You are the first of us to know!

Shannon your nephew is in my prayers.
post #89 of 105
ella-makes-3 : My experience is that they grow into 3 - 6 months clothes super fast but my kids are always around 9 lbs or bigger at birth! They are like 2 month olds, :LOL Probably an average size baby would stay in a newborn outfit for about 6 - 8 wks, I would guess. Are you planning to use cloth diapers? The clothes need to be bigger if you do.

Please keep a little girl in our homeschooling group, Mary, in your thoughts. She had an accident a couple of days ago and had to have her arm amputated. She will be four next week. Her parents are wonderful and she has five siblings. Thanks!

Alright, off to finish breakfast.
post #90 of 105
Yeah Lesley!!!! Woo hoo!!!! Time to start buying pink!

Shannon - Looking forward to more happy updates from you soon, you are in my thoughts.

Joy - sounds like you have a nice stash!!! You definetly have enough onesies and enough socks (everyone always buys baby socks anyways because they are so cute so you will clearly get more whether you register for them or not), you might want a few more sleep sacks. I would also recommend a couple of the sleep sacks that go over everything - can't think of what they are called but they replace the use of a blanket. They are awesome!!!! But yes register for some bigger items - you will outgrow the newborn stuff so quick it's nice to have bigger stuff.
post #91 of 105
Oh Ekblad, that is heartbreaking! I will be thinking of that poor little girl and her parents.

Shannon, Any updates today?

Hevasoul, The FISH stands for fluorescent in situ hybridization, which basically means that they take some cells from the amniotic fluid and use fluorescent dyes to "light up" parts of the 13, 18, 21, and X and Y chromosomes. They can't tell if anything is wrong with any of the other chromosomes, or if there are bits that have been rearranged, but they can tell if there are 2 (normal) or three (trisomy). The most common chromosomal abnormalities are 13, 18, and 21 (Downs) and some sex-linked ones, so the FISH rules those out. I was told high risk for Down Syndrome, and that has been ruled out. They told me the full amnio was very unlikely to reveal any abnormalities not picked up by the FISH. HTH

Hello Kitty, Not buying pink any time soon. We have so much left over from our first (most of which was pink because other people bought it...). I will probably buy a pretty lavendar outfit, or a soft green as her "coming home" outfit. I'm also going to start getting together some cloth diapers!

Weesej, wow! Are you thinking twins? If I thought that, I would be getting an ultrasound so fast it would make your head spin, but that is mostly because I don't like surprises, and twins would not be a surprise that I would want to deal with during labor! When do you think you'll be able to find out with a manual exam?

Ella, YES! The world is a much happier place! Apart from the tension headache that I had all day yesterday, it was really one of the happiest days of my life! My dd is so excited to know that she's going to have a sister. We've already picked the name, so Melanie is calling her sister by name now. It is very cute. When Mel was born, she was early, so she didn't outgrow newborn clothes for several months. She was 10 pounds 8 oz at 2 months, and she seemed to pretty much follow the sizes on clothing all the way through. She still does, in that she can sometimes wear a 2T, but usually a 3T now as she is almost 3 (OMG, my baby is almost 3!). Some people suggest buying a coming home (if you birth outside the home) or a picture outfit in a preemie size in case your baby is small. I have friends that said even their almost 8 pound newborn was swimming in a newborn size for the first week or so.

Okay, I'm going to change my sig, and get ready for work. I'm on vacation for a month after today!!! Hooray!
post #92 of 105
Okay, here it is, and now you can find out her name...
(don't worry if you hate it, my parents do too)
post #93 of 105
Hi everyone,
No news about Mark yet. My arthritis seems to have settled down a little bit as of this morning (thank God) Steve gave me a good massage last night and used Traumeel cream on all my joints and my back--I love that stuff.
Ekblad, that's horrible about the little girl! What kind of accident was it?? Her parents must just be beside themselves. I'll keep her in my thoughts.
post #94 of 105
Lesley,
I LOVE lavender on a little girl! So pretty. And green would be super cool considering her name choice which btw is great. Why don't your parents like it, did they say?
post #95 of 105
I don't post a lot here but I read several times a day usually. Lesley I am so glad everything is fine!!! and Shannon what a horrible day I will say prayers for your godson, and for the danes family. We have a dane and she is like a person she really has a personality and all the danes I have been around do so I'm sure he/she knew how upset you were and I'm glad her mom and dad aren't going to do anything. Just take care!

I am doing good, we had mandatory marine wife meeting last night and didn't get to eat supper until 10:00 so I am kinda feeling poopy tonight plus yesterday I had to cook supper for the guys in dh's shop only 8 but still hard to do when your sleepy and had a 14 month old following you around babbleing. When I came home the guys ate my steak too so all I had was a baked potato and I went to sleep. I was having more cramps during my meeting last night so will get my cervix checked next week to make sure it is soft and short and dilated, it was when I was 18 weeks when all that started happening with ds. So a little scared but he turned out ok. Hope everyone else has a good day!
post #96 of 105
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Originally Posted by HelloKitty
Lesley,
I LOVE lavender on a little girl! So pretty. And green would be super cool considering her name choice which btw is great. Why don't your parents like it, did they say?

They think it sounds like an old lady. Which makes me laugh. Whatever. I told my mom, "You want to name a baby? Then you have one!"
post #97 of 105
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Originally Posted by Lesleyluu
I told my mom, "You want to name a baby? Then you have one!"
Good answer! My parents never like the names we pick out either. That usually makes me like the names even more!!!!
post #98 of 105
Lesley woo-hoo!!!! Great news! You must be so relieved. Is Hazel the baby's name? I think it's beautiful.
post #99 of 105
Where is everyone today?? Last post was yesterday early afternoon!!
Feeling not too bad today, even made brownies for dh. My bp is still up a bit, doc has me taking it 3 times a day and recording it for her along with what I'm doing at the time.
They have started to very slowly bring Mark around, he's still out, but now he's moving and mumbling a bit.
Ekblad, how is the little girl in your homeschool group?
Hope everyone is doing alright out there!
post #100 of 105
Wow! I had an energetic day today. Went to the World Walk for Breastfeeding, then our food co op order came in, I put all that stuff away, organized many of my homeschool supplies for next year, ran some errands, bathed the kids, and even read to them! I really hope the end of the sickness has come. I was still feeling pretty crappy in the evenings. I'll be 15 wks on Tuesday.

I haven't heard anything else on the little girl from our group. I'm hoping she'll be able to go home soon. Her birthday is next week. I stocked up on some food to take over to their family when they're ready for it. I can't imagine trying to run a household of six kids while having this awful experience.

Hope everyone is doing well!
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