well, i started yesterday
but after a few hours of crying and talking to my husband, we figured out what happened.
the day before i ovulated, i hurt my tooth eating a raisin of all things. then the day of ovulation, i have a throbbing tooth ache, that then increased each day. i was taking huge amounts of vitamin C (like 50,000 mg a day) to reduce the infection and inflammation, but it still hurt pretty bad. then went to the dentist twice for a root canal. even though the denist and his assistant were like, oh it's safe to have novacaine while you're pregnant, it sort of made me nervous. i worried that something WOULD happen to the baby because of the drugs in my body.
also, we were doing the BD every single night (or day) since the 5th of october. there's no way that the two baby makers couldn't have run into each other in such a confined space
but after having done alot of research, i found that stress doesn't help (and i was stressed from the pain and having to spend $600 i didn't have to fix that stupid tooth) and also that apparently massive amounts of vitamin C that i was taking could mess with either the CM (drying it up) or preventing implantation.
the only thing that threw me was the swollen and tender BB for the last 9 days and the copious amount of vaginal discharge (neither of which i get regularly)
my daughter thinks that i should get a HPT just to check because i might just be spotting.
so it's ok. my husband is just a wonderful wonderful man. as soon as AF leaves we'll being doing the BD every night (or day) again......oh the horror
thank you for asking and thinking of me
i hope everyone else is doing well.