Could it be I've found home?
Wow! I am so glad that I found this thread today. It is really helping my attitude.
Sorry, Joan. I am in the same situation as you. Just lost my baby two weeks ago. (first trimester, again!)
Let me introduce myself... I'm Susan, I'm 39 years old (big 4-0 in April) Hope you all don't mind me going this thread but honestly all of the 20 and 30 yos and I have nothing in common. My dh is a still super handsome 51. We have been happily married for 17 years but have no children. He says we are still practicing (dd).
We were pg about 8 years ago and lost it at 8 wks. Then a few weeks ago (in August) another baby snuck up on us. Wow were we happy. It was such a joy especially after the unexpected death of my mother in April. The baby was due right around that anniversary and was going to be named after her.
Anyway, I have done so much research on this subject that I feel like a walking fertility textbook, but still no bambino.
Wish I had seen this thread then. Boy, was I angry, hurt, confused, disappointed.... Well, honestly still am its just not as sharp.
I want to try again but need a supporting community to help me get there
Nancy thanks for the info that fertility should be really high right now and that you and others have conceived again right after m/c. It makes me feel soooo much better about trying again.