regarding bufomander
when i was in high school i had a friend named april. however, i decided from the minute i met her that she looked like a sal. (who knows why) i've called her sal ever since. there were many variations such as sally, salpo, salamander, and mandy.
she also called me bufpo and bufomander (my real name is buffy

, after buffy st. marie

). i always liked being called bufomander, and when i started being on the computer more, i thought it was most likely not already taken.

sometimes i think i should have one more connected to the fact that i am a mother, but i think i enjoy holding on to that old part of my life in this way.
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