Hmmmm, my thoughts. Personally I find stalking very frustrating. I have stalked twice. Once for a Kiwi Pie through hyena cart. And that I didn't mind since I got there 3 minutes before the stocking, tried, and then it was done. The other time was for a "regular" stocking, and I found it so darn frustrating since no one knew exactly when the WAHM would stalk. I spent a couple hours refreshing (among other things, like taking care of my kids). I came away empty handed. It was dissappointing, frustrating, and just not for me. It's okay though, I'm perfectly happy with my non-stalked for stash. I have some good stuff too -- elbees, a fuz garden set, the most darling appliqued bbh wio, a kss, etc.
I love firefly diapers which you can just go to the site and buy. Sugarpeas side snappers are among my very favorites too and they are available several places. I so hear the frustration about stalking. I think the key (at least for me) is that if stalking isn't "fun" then just don't do it. Seek out the diapers that are just as nice, but also available.
Oh and fwiw, Holli, I think it's great you are building your stash for your daughter!! I am so with you. Whenever life seems to be out of control I think I'll revamp the diaper stah, the kids' wardrobe, or something else that I actually have control over. Sometimes focusing on the little things we can do something about makes the bigger things we have no control over seem just a little less difficult.
Just my .02.