Originally Posted by jmreinke
However, I would say this: PLEASE if you "buy" something through Hyena Cart (or anywhere else), it is your responsibility to complete the transaction and pay for it, just like if you win an auction or hit "buy it now" on eBay. There's no place for WAHMs to leave feedback for "Non-Paying Hyenas", and Non Paying Hyena-ing is happening quite a bit. That really does hurt the WAHMs business/time/income.
Even if you do have buyer's remorse, you still need to pay for your item. Then, you can put it on the TP or eBay or trade. But don't make more work for the WAHM in having to figure out who owes her money for the purchase.
I have to TOTALLY agree with this. I've been a bit of a hyena in my buying time. But I have NEVER cancelled an order (yes there can be extenuating circumstances but usually it's not!) or a buy that I've clicked on. That is beyond tacky. If you can't pay for it, you shouldn't be buying it. You KNOW if you have the money. It's time for people to take a little responsiblity for their actions.
I know several WAHM personally. They are very good friends. A too often when one will open for custom order, someone will place an order and then cancel it a couple of days later. WTH?? Why bother the WAHM if you have no intention of completing the order? Especially when its by another WAHM!
Unfortunately for me, my two very favorite diapers are now Hyena diapers. They weren't when I started using them. And am I mad that its hard to get the ones I like now? NO! I'm so happy for the WAHMs that they are in such high demand and that they are able to help support their families. Yes, I would love to be able to just go and buy from an instock from them at a moments notice... but it isn't going to happen. Other people love their stuff just as much as me.
Yes, there are lots of great diapers out there. I've tried a lot of them too.
But there are also only a few that make the specific style of diaper that I like and that works best for my DS. How many side-aplix diapers do YOU know about??? I know three or four.
Yes, I've been guilty of buying for a not yet conceived baby. Honestly, who business is that but mine? How can it REALLY effect anyone else? Why should anyone care? Of course because I was building a stash for an unconceived baby... I got pregnant. :LOL :LOL
Holli- I see your buying as NO DIFFERENT than a pregnant mother buying for her child.
I find some of the threads annoying but hey I just skip over them after a while.