I teach Bradley now and I have 2 couples in my class. One is expecting a boy and I showed the "How to care for an intact boy" video which got some confersation going. There were honest questions and real dialog - it was nice. The couple expecting the boy is still considering it (hoping to change that very soon!) and they've talked to their OB about it. He says "it only takes 20 seconds." I'm running through the procedure in my head and I can't see how 20 seconds can accomodate clamping the opening so he can cut it without bleeding, cutting the opening to make it bigger, ripping the foreskin from the glands, putting the clamp in place, cutting off circulation, then amputating the skin. I'm guessing his "20 seconds" is for the actual cutting off of the foreskin. Does that sound about right? The doctor told them he uses a cream to help with the pain and that he does let it sit in. Is this something like using Ambesol to have your wisdom tooth pulled? The doctor also told them it's nothing like a video, so don't bother watching one. ??? That last part really bothers me.
The dad is afraid no one else will look like his son. I've told him otherwise and plan to give the "if everyone jumped off a cliff, would you want your son? how important is fitting in if you're willing to have a penile reduction surgery on him?"
The couple having the girl is soaking up the information too, so if they have a son later, I think he'll be intact. =)
The dad is afraid no one else will look like his son. I've told him otherwise and plan to give the "if everyone jumped off a cliff, would you want your son? how important is fitting in if you're willing to have a penile reduction surgery on him?"
The couple having the girl is soaking up the information too, so if they have a son later, I think he'll be intact. =)
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