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post #1 of 39
Thread Starter 
Hi Mamas!

I was about to repost my post that disappeared from last weeks thread, when I noticed the date. So I decided to just go ahead and start the new weekly thread!

How are you all doing this week?

I am doing pretty well. I am starting to slow down a lot too. My belly is getting so big its starting to effect my movement and I think I officially have a waddle. I just want to sit in my chair and read. I went to a prenatal yoga class yesterday that seemed to help with the back pain and tiredness somewhat. So I am going to keep going to the class, at least once a week, and I think if I keep it regular it should help.

My 3 yr. old DD is so excited about the baby. We read "Baby On the Way" and she loved it. She has been hugging and kissing my belly and telling the baby she loves it. She has also decided she wants to be my midwife, and instructs me on holding and bathing the baby. She is so cute. I am glad she is staying excited about it, I hope she still likes the baby so much when it comes!

Are any of you reading Birthing From Within by Pam England? I just picked it up from the library and am loving it. Its written to go along with a birth class, so its more, um, experiential (maybe thats the right word) than most pregnancy books. It really focuses on your experience of birth, and not on the technicals of what is happening, what to expect, etc. I meant to read it when I was preg with #1, and I wish I did. It would have been so helpful in my unassisted labor.

To the Mama who's losing weight: In my first pregnancy, I gained a total of 40 lbs. which is normal. But it was ALL in my belly and my butt. My legs, arms, and face got thinner b/c I was taking better care of myself. I was eating way better than I did before, and excercising. So while my belly got bigger and bigger, the rest of me shrunk! And it didn't help that I am very long waisted and was barely showing at 7 months. People I met couldn't even tell I was pregnant. I would be a little concerned about your weight, but as long as you feel good and the baby seems healthy, don't worry. The worry is probably worse for you than your weight. Even in this pregnancy (And I am WAY bigger this time around) I've only gained 15 lbs so far. Everybodies body reacts differently.

Well, thats about it from me. I hope you are all doing well and feeling good!
post #2 of 39

GD screening

whatever you do for your GD screening, don't follow my example. I failed! I have to go back for the 3 hour misery test now! I'm so annoyed. I begged them to just let me take a blood sugar monitor home and chart for a week, but they thought this was more accurate. I'm sure it is if your body is used to taking in 50g of sugar in a 5 minute sitting, but I rarely eat sugar. My worst offense since being pregnant is an ice cream once or twice a week!! And I've been avoiding wheat, so I'm not even taking in many refined carbs. Of course the true irony is that if I fail the 3-hour, you know what they're going to do? Send me home with a monitor and make me chart my blood sugar. Please tell me why I couldn't do this to begin with and save all this trouble? : By the way, I had a lemon-lime "glucola" that did not taste like any soda I've had before. It wasn't horrible, but it wasn't yummy either. And the heart burn was the worst I've had yet.

but good news for you ladies who have yet to take the test. My mother is a nutritional consultant of the alternative variety, so the first thing I did was to call her and ask what I could do to stabilize my blood sugar for the next test and she told me two things: cinnamon and white beans. Who knew?! Makes sense that cinnamon is in lots of sweet things, it helps the body deal with all that sugar. So I'll be putting cinnamon on everything and eating some white beans the night before.

I'm reading Birthing from Within, or at least trying to. I'm having a hard time with it. I've lost all my creative energy lately between the baby and the broken leg. My counselor thinks it's normal though, given that I'm busy creating a life form. I guess that's okay, I usually love making pottery, but I haven't had the desire at all. I think I got a little depressed there, stuck at home, in bed, unable to do anything fun, and I'm lingering in the lack of creative energy or motivation that came with it. It really stinks not being able to take my walk daily to clear my head and get centered.
post #3 of 39
Hi everyone. Week 27 here, i think. I have my monthly OB today at 2:15. I have my MW appointment at my home tommorow. When do we go to bimonthly appointments? I can't remember. Anyway, I'm sure i'm up for the GD test today. I don't mind doing it. I've always passed just fine with my other kids and this time i've only gained 6 pounds so I feel pretty sure that i'm ok. I bought some jelly bellies to take just in case they will let me eat some rather than that syrup stuff. My doc actually hasn't mentioned the test at all. Could it be that she isn't wanting to test me? That would be cool too.
Anyway, I'm feeling really well other than the raging UTI that I cannot get rid of. I have no idea what to do. They want me to stay on macrobid for the rest of my pregnancy. I was so mad last night. I took a pyridium for my bladder and went to bed. They baby kicked hard at 2 AM and made me pee a little! My beautiful lavender sheets are stained with a little bright gold spot!
That'll never come out.

My weight gain has been slow still and i'm happy about that. I feel better gaining less than my previous pregnancies. My sciatica is almost non existant and was horrible by now last time. My back feels good and everything. BUT, i've been careful not to take on the pregnancy posture issues that are so easy to do. I got a new sling for the baby. It's a zolo and I just LOVE it. I bougth DH a fleece hotsling too and he really loved the color. It's a jade green color. We can share slings pretty well so that's nice too. I've got to deep clean today. I want everything to be perfect when the MW comes tommorow. It's going to make me nuts of course. Should I serve anything?

Dh is finally really feeling baby move. He's so impatient this time. Then he was suprised at how hard he kicks. I keep telling him he does and he's just to impatient to wait to feel one.

Hope you are all still doing well. I'll post again if anything big happens at my appointments today.
post #4 of 39
28 weeks, 2 days

Failed my sugar test . Went back for the 3 hour, and apparently my pre-drink test was high but my post-drink tests were ok! (Maybe I had too late of a snack the night before?) My clinic wants me to talk w/the diabetes clinic this week.
I'm cutting out sugars and eating low on the gi scale (thanks to Andrew Weil); I thought I'd also start taking a daily nettle infusion and baking with mesquite flour and chia seed, which naturally regulate blood sugar.
My big concern is getting labeled "high-risk" and being in danger of unnecessary interventions at my hospital birth. Any suggestions?
post #5 of 39

25 1/2 weeks

Hilary, sorry to hear you sound a little "down". I felt so not-like-myself during the first trimester when I had no energy and was sick. Just try to take it a day at a time and hopefully it will get better soon! When are they telling you you will be able to go for walks again? I have never broken anything, so... are you laid up until after the baby comes, or will you be able to start taking a little walk sooner than that?

Sorry to the two of you who've failed the GD test. Yuck. I have mine in October at 28 weeks, and she told me I didn't have to do the fast. She said just not to eat a big meal and then come in... maybe to have a small protein snack an hour before or something.
post #6 of 39

27 weeks, 2 days

mhl - i start my biweekly appointments next week, so probably around 28 weeks?

My mw appointment went great on thursday. I really enjoy the "team" of midwives I chose. I have two and thier student midwife. I see the student every apointment and then alternate between the two every other appointment. The theory is, this way I'll be comfortable with who ever ends up at my birth.
Anyhow, they checked me for signs of pre-e while I was in last and I'm in the clear. I guess it was just a virus going around. They gave me the glucose drink to take home in order to take the test next week. They made it very clear that I could just throw it out if I wanted and that I was at low risk. I may take it anyway, since I will be having my iron levels tested. One blood test is betterthen two.
The baby moves so often and so roughly now that i've been kept awake at night. I'm so tired during the day that I search out a free chair everytime I enter a room. :LOL
I'm looking forward to yoga tonight - this backache is killing me!
post #7 of 39
Jenelle,

Thanks for your concern. I don't think I'm down right now. But you know the broken leg while pregnant thing can be a real downer. Things are SOOOOOOO much better now than they were. I go to work now, we moved back upstairs into our bedroom, I actually made breakfast on Saturday (granted DH had to serve it, but I cooked it), we go swimming twice a week. But I am more isolated than before and I am less able to get around or do things for myself. I'm "walking" with the assistance of crutches or a walker now, but I can't get out and do the 4-miles in an hour kind of walks that I've done for years and loved so much. I don't expect to be ready for those again until after the baby comes. And I'm really fortunate, my break was so bad that if they hadn't done the surgery, I wouldn't be walking yet and would have still been in a cast 2 months after the baby came. But some of the sense of me that used to be so important and I think central to my creativity is just not there right now. I'm sure it will get better.

Also, we've just added a teenager to our family in the midst of all this, so a lot of the time I had with DH is now consumed by a teenage boy, and that's been hard to adjust to. We're working on it though, and this past weekend was a lovely and relaxing time with DH while our teenager was off playing football and then not feeling well on Sunday.
post #8 of 39

27 weeks (?)

I think that's about right :LOL

Thanks for the tips Hilary! Does it matter if the cinnamon comes from sticks or is the powdered stuff ok too?

Hilary and Elisabeth on failing the 1 hour. I'm really afraid of getting labeled as high risk too. What would happen if you refused the 3 hour at this point? Would you automatically be labeled high risk?
post #9 of 39

29 weeks!

Hi ladies;

Well, things are well with the baby - lots of movement, last night I was in the tub with dd and the baby had been very quiet, but when dd started talking to me belly, baby suddenly came to life. It was exciting for both of us! And dd was saying, "Hi Baby! I love you so, so much!" Aww..

So we have had an eventful few days - dd took a hard fall on Sunday. SHe did not fall from very high - about three feet (climbing in the kitchen), but she fell hard enough to lose consciousness, and, for a few awful moments to stop breathing. Yeah, awful! I don't wish it on any mother. By the time I had a dispatch officer on the phone, she was crying, and she continued to recover smoothly, and was herself again by the time we got to the clinic - but it was a rough afternoon, and 24 hours monitoring her. But all is fine now- she got a concussion, no further damage or concerns (just have to be sure she does not hit her head again any time soon). Dh is out of the country for another 10 days, so I am a little tired, but otherwise fine - whew!

The next day I got word that my grandfather passed away - no big surprise, he has been just hanging on for the past few weeks after a major surgery, and he was very calm and peaceful at the end.

But the memorial is scheduled for Columbus Day weekend - I will be 32 weeks then. Anyone know what the recommendations for flying are at that point??

I am going to go take a shower and try to enjoy a little r&r while a have a few moments to myself.

Sorry to those of you who are worried about gd and being high risk - good luck!
post #10 of 39

28w 6d

I am so peeved! I started this big long post yesterday and somehow it got lost

I am doing ok. The baby doesn't seem to be moving as much this week. Maybe it's just in different places...

Since this is my first, I have a question. My tummy has started to feel more 'tender' where my uterus is (I mostly notice it when I lean on things). Is this normal? It doesn't hurt, or feel like cramping or anything, just different than usual.

I went for bloodwork last week to test for GD. I explained why in my lost post and I don't have the energy to type it all out again. I should get the results next Monday at my MW appt. I am not worried.

Weight gain is frustrating me though. I have neglected mentioning it considering the other thread... I am not so concerned about how little I've gained, but I wish I'd show! I am quite overweight. I lost 5# initially and now I'm up 1.5#, for a total of -3.5#. I want to start showing though! People tell me my upper abs are popping out, but there's no baby up that high yet! I know it's probably organs being pushed up but I am kind of self conscious about looking more fat as opposed to looking pregnant.

I have no motivation for work. I think it's just that I am ready for the next phase of my life to begin (having the baby and being a SAHM). It's really hard to get my butt out of bed in the mornings...
post #11 of 39
Jessica - mom didn't say anything about how to add the cinnamon to the food, I'd say sticks or ground powder is fine. I just sprinkled some on my cereal this morning. I think if there was a preferred method she would have told me.
post #12 of 39
Kristi,
Omg, that must have been so scary! Thank goodness she's ok!!! Big s to you and dd. And I'm sorry for your loss.

Kristeen,
I hope the results come back good!
post #13 of 39

28 1/2 weeks!!

No one told me that the mood swings came back in the third trimester ..... I've been a raving lunatic today.

oh well ... I am in my last 20 minutes of holding open office hours for students (its been non-stop for the last 2 hours, but has tapered off) and I get to go home soon and eat an eggplant parmigiana that I prepared before work today and that dh is putting in the oven for us now. so I'll try to pull myself together!

kristi: how scary about your dd! and about your grandpa. I think international travel after the 32nd week isn't allowed, and some airlines will restrict domestic air travel as well. I'd call the airline you're gonna use -- and travel with a note from your doctor, dated within two days of your departure. Also, if you go United, be warned -- I made the reservations over the phone, explained I"d be 25 weeks pregnant, and requested a bulkhead aisle; I reaffirmed that request when I confirmed the flight the night before. Then they put me in the middle seat of the middle section of the middle of the plane, both legs of the journey. I got moved to an aisle both times, but it was a hassle.

hilary122 and uue: and argh! about the glucose test!

lovelocks: I am really enjoying Birthing From Within. DH is reading it too and we're making the art together occasionally. Its not in the book, but I am not much of an artist at all, so I enjoy making collages instead of drawings. I use collages at lots of transition points in my life. Two weeks ago, I collaged "my labor fears" and have been living with those fears since then. This weekend I'm going to collage "a calming labor" to help ease those fears and give me something physical to focus on during the birth.

shalena: glad it was just a virus!

love to all --
post #14 of 39

27 ish weeks here

Feeling better, finally. Starting to feel like I'm more together, though I know it wont last long. But I do think I may have some nesting urges starting, none too soon. My house hasn't fully recovered from my sickness the first 20 weeks. On the upside, I'm loving our new homeschooling routines (if you can call them that), my kitchen is slowly getting tidier, more consistently, and I've started getting some sewing done, including my kids super cute Halloween costumes.

Just a few more months now.
post #15 of 39
Thread Starter 
I am glad to hear some of you are reading Birthing From Within. I love the art project idea, but haven't actually done any of them yet! I want to I'm just not really into it (does that make sense?). Between my DD all day, and being exhausted at night, it's just nicer to read about it.
post #16 of 39

27 weeks

Hi everyone. I am in Texas enjoying my vacation. I haven't seen my sister or her kids since Christams! It has been great. My sister had pregnancies similar to mine and has been very understanding of all of my complaints. I have really gotten to take it easy.

The baby is moving a lot more this week. It is amazeing the difference. I am inheriting everything I could possiably need in terms of clothes and diapers from my sister but yesterday I went and bought a "coming home from the birth center outfit". We went to a store called Green Living in Dallas. It is a little shirt and pants made of all organic 100% egyption cotton. It feels so good I just love the idea of putting her in a nice cloth diaper and a soft organic outfit and nursing her.

Kristi- I am so sorry about your terriable few days. Hang in there.

Rainy- my mood swings have been terriable the past few weeks. If you're willing to take herbals Rescue Remedy works really well to stop the bad moods when they first start.

Hil- I am reading birthing from with in too. I am not very artistic but I've done a few of the projects. It's just a nice book.
post #17 of 39

29 weeks

Thanks for the well wishes. After a full nights sleep I am feeling much more balanced.

Although...I just got finished spending over $200- to order a Stokke Kinderzeat for dd. $200-!?!! She is a climber, and got her concussion climbing over the top of her Learning Tower in the kitchen - you may have seen these advertised in Mothering. I still love that tower, even after this incident; I am pretty sure she has now learned that climbing on the top rail is really and truly dangerous (I've been telling her that, but...well, I guess she needed to really learn it through experience). Anyway, at mealtime she still likes her old high chair - can climb in it all by herself, but when she is done she stands up in it and calls for help. I have been worried for weeks that she could lose her balance, and if she fell her feet would be caught and she would land on her head. Now that worry has an entirely new dimension! ANd our kitchen chairs are very tippy (that is why I haven't tried to get her to give up the high chair!) - I can imagine many ways she could tip it over and land on her head. So, nothing like parental anxiety to get me to shell out excess money! I'm sure dh is going to come back from India feeling like we have so much "stuff" - and here I go spending a bundle for a trendy, "safe" chair!

I am nesting. Like crazy. Dd was mimicking me on my hands and knees sniffing the foor in our mudroom - something smelled distinctly like old urine (dog? dd?) I couldn't find it, but I laughed at her and me crawling around sniffing!

I have to decide whether to bring dd with me to the memorial service for my grandfather. It would be SO MUCH easier to go by myself, and let her stay with dh. But she is the first grandchild on that side of the family, the only great-grandchild of my grandfather...and I feel some obligation/pressure to bring her. She brings so much joy, and she would get to see relatives she has not seen for a long time. More to the point, they would get to see her. I feel like I need to bring her for everyone else's sake, but I'm not sure it would be the best thing for her (the stresses of travel, grieving, tension, etc....) Any thoughts/advice? (She is almost 3, by the way) Thanks!
post #18 of 39

27 weeks

I am sitting at my desk waiting to drink my cola flavored goo and then head over to take my GD test.... I already have heartburn so this should be fun! I didn't have a problem with my first pregnancy but hearing all the failures, now I'm worried. I just had cereal for breakfast and my usually protein bar and a stick of cheese at 10:30.

Hope it goes okay!

Not much else going on. We had a great camping trip and I was a little sore from not sleeping in my own bed but not too bad. We want to go camping again before it really gets cold but DH is taking a test at the end of Oct. he needs to study for and that would put us into Nov so probably not. Maybe in Feb as the weather on the coast here is ususally great that time of year.

Well, off to drink the goo!

Take care all

Robin
post #19 of 39

28 weeks

i think ill try to post on these weekly threads more often, they seem like a great stress/tension reliever

i saw my mw yesterday. i have lost half a lb since our last visit 3 wks ago. she is puzzled and so am i. my weight loss is getting more profoundly noticable, and i have been eating like mad, or what i consider such.
so she is asking me to do an u/s friday to see if the baby has enough amniotic fluid and if the babe falls into a decent growth percentile.

i am fairly concerned now, because she is considering taking me out of work. granted that is not what i had planned to do, not till late nov/early dec. but i will it if things look bad in the u/s. i am measuring to date though, the heartbeat was strong, and i feel plenty of movement...a coworker made a nasty comment about the possiblity of me leaving early...that why couldnt i work until i go into labor like her dil did, that it helps speed up labor. she thinks my mw is ridiculous in her concerns.

i wish my work environment wasnt so hostile. i really feel like there isnt anyone there with similar morals or child-rearing views as i...its rather frustrating.
post #20 of 39
Nekisha, Please try not to worry. I can't understand why a MW would ask you to stop working for lack of weight gain. As long as you are eating enough healthy foods then there is no cause for concern. Not only that, your weight gain has NOTHING to do with the size or weight of the baby unlesss it's related to GD or something like that. I have to agree that it does seem strange to flip out about it. You know if you are eating a good balanced diet. There is nothing more you can do after that. Your body takes what it needs for the baby adn yourself and you can't force weight gain. Some people loose weight on bedrest. I can tell you from experience that *if* the baby was behind in growth increasing your calories (unless you are malnourished) will not change that. I tried for months to gain more weight in hopes of helping my baby gain weight with my last pregnancy. The only person who gained weight was me. And over 2 years later, i'm still bigger than I should be, and pregnant again.
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