I believe that many times, nurses and doctors don't even realize how they are perpetuating the myth that birth belongs in the hospital and that birth is scary and fraught with danger....they would be out of their particular jobs if the myth was exposed

. Look how scary and unpredictable birth can be----trust us and our technology. We can make it all better. We can take out the physicality of it. The emotions. The pain. Take it away, along with mothers' empowerment and transformative experience. Birth belongs in the hospital where we can measure you, time you, watch you like you were sick.....then we can start treating you like there's something wrong b/c your body isn't working on some arbitrary timetable....
I've had my water break with my first (hospital birth) before any significant contractions and my third (at home) after many days of starting and stopping contractions. IMO, my babies and I were a million times safer in my home than in the hospital....not to mention more comfortable! The risks of infection and iatrogenic complications rise to astounding levels once a healthy woman enters the hospital. There are no guarantees either way, but, I'm choose to believe that birth works when left alone and mother isn't bullied or feeling threatened in ANY way.
If your water breaks---do not panic. It's a sign labor and baby will be here soon

. Pregnancy, for me, can be a time of working through emotions, fears....I think it's important that we read and gather stories so that we understand the different scenarios that we *might* encounter, but ultimately, consider surrendering to the positive and just believe we are totally capable, no matter what comes our way.
Happy Birthing!