Have you been with an intact man

[milk_maker]

I'm just wondering. Most people I know have never seen one and think that it's gross. I've been with an intact male and wish every day that DH was intact.

[mommymarliah]

never have been, but I would be more than happy to if DH decides to restore I used to do CNA work though and have seen intact men and I don't see anything gross about it at all and honestly it irritates me when anyone says an intact man is gross....

[sevenkids]

I've never been with a circ'd man! I've never seen a circ'd man in real life. I've seen some babies and small children that were circ'd.
I had a friend in Jamaica that was Jewish, and the first time I saw her ds naked, I thought there was something horribly wrong with him, I thought he had a birth defect! Me in my ignorance actually asked what was wrong with him, and if they were going to perform surgery to correct it
It still looks so strange to me, I can't get used to it.

[broodymama]

i've never been an intact man, i never even saw an intact penis irl until ds.

[LianneM]

Originally Posted by sevenkids

I've never been with a circ'd man! I've never seen a circ'd man in real life. I've seen some babies and small children that were circ'd.

Ditto for me.

I really am disturbed when I see a circ'd baby too. I really try not to change my friends' babies' diapers just so I don't have to think about what happened to them. It's given me nightmares in the past.

[Mommiska]

Well, my dh is intact, and he's the only man I've been with, so I don't have anything to compare to sexually.

But I've seen circed little boys (my brothers were circed, all my cousins are circed, etc) and growing up, that was the 'norm'.

But I've never thought dh's penis was gross. I never even thought about the fact that he was intact, rather than circed. I only became an activist once I had ds, and realised that there were people out there who would cut off part of his penis if I let them.

Now that I know, I am very, very grateful (for any number of reasons! ) that dh is intact.

[InochiZo]

I posted yes, it was gross, but not because his penis was gross. He was just small and didn't seem that sensitive.

[calngavinsmom]

I voted no but I want to. But I don't really want to. My dh is circed and I never want to be with anyone else but him again. Having said that however, if I were single, I would love to have an experience with an intact man.

Confused yet? LOL

Take care,
Tara

[SomedayMom]

My husband is intact. Call me stupid, but it took me a while to even figure out what was different about him...It's not in the least bit gross to me. This is the love of my life, everything about him was perfect in my eyes In fact, I think it actually makes things a bit more fun

[pure]

My husband is intact....and I love it. I have been with one other intact man too and it is definitely better with an intact man. I can't even really recall the others they were so forgetable. But these two...

[LovinMyKids]

I have only been with circ'ed guys. I voted No and I prefer it that way. But thats only because I dont ever want to have sex with another man. So thats the option that fit me best.

[Lucky Charm]

I have only been with my husband who is circ'd. I cant say i am overly curious to be with an intact man.

But, i have cared for many men who were intact, as a nurse, and i dont think its gross at all.

[loving-my-babies]

I married my first- and he is intact (so is everyone else in my country) so I have no idea how circed men are, they gross me out just thinking about their unnatural, foreskin-less penises, YUCK.

[Lucky Charm]

LMB, I understand that this is the Circ forum. So I am treading lightyly.

But i dont think its really nice of you to criticize my husbands penis, especially since he had no choice in the matter.

[mommymarliah]

Originally Posted by sweetbaby3

LMB, I understand that this is the Circ forum. So I am treading lightyly.

But i dont think its really nice of you to criticize my husbands penis, especially since he had no choice in the matter.

I really don't think she is trying to critisize your husband (many of us have stated that our husbands are circ'ed, including my own) I really don't think this was aimed at your or meant to be offensive.

[kimmysue2]

I don't think either is gross. One as more skin then the other.

[Evergreen]

Ok, I think I voted wrong.

i said "No, and I like it that way" because dh is circ'd and I don't want to be with anyone else. BUT after years of this, I should have bought stock in KY so, I would like to still be with dh, but it probably sould be better in bed for both of us if her were intact!

[Lucky Charm]

Point taken, Tara.

[fayking]

i have been with mainly intact men as intact is the norm here. the only guy i have slept with who was circ'd had it done as an adult as he had a prob with retracting. i think they were all fine and dandy!

[Frankly Speaking]

Those are the kind of things that are acceptable and normally said about intact men instead of circumcised men. While we are not *allowed* to complain about this treatment of intact men, it is often seen as politically incorrect to say the same things about circumcised men. That's just wrong. Those kind of things are very hurtful to intact men because it is so often stated with impunity and is "common knowledge" while circumcised men readily recognize that this is just the opinion of a single person and don't take it as offense. That clearly needs to change.




Frank