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Baby girl arrived ...  

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On tuesday Oct 5, 2004 Jasmine Noell Jackson arrived .

My wife gave birth to her at 3:55 pm .

She told me she started having labor pains at 5am that morning . She sent my oldest daughter to wake me up after 9am . She was experiencing stronger contractions by then (boy I was sleepy lol ) . So I had her some lay in the bed and then I let her be alone while I tended to the kids .

Well as the morning grew to a close she was progressing further . I called our doula but she was unavailable at the time . She finally rushed to be with us by 1pm that afternoon . She was a big help to us and my wife . She talked with her and helped her get through some very painfull contractions (I saw my wifes face ) . I was nervouse of course for her .

Fastforward to 2:30 pm in the afternoon and My wife is at the point where she feels it is time . It was also a good thing that the doula told me she thought it was time to go because we would be suprised as we went outside to the vans . As we walked out side as was near the van my wifes water broke and boy did contractions get strong for her . We had a 25 + min drive to the hospital and it was lunch time in the area we were headed . The ride was rough for my wife . I wish we could have had a homebirth .

Well we made it too the hospital and I had to rush her up to the birthing center area . I knew there was no way they would be able to intervene on her birth . When we arrived up stairs the head L&D nurse strapped on the EFM on her belly . I was not happy with it . So I gave them 20 mins to use it and then when my wife was ready to push on her own I took it off. I didn't care what they said because we told them we wanted very short monitoring .

The LD nurse came in trying to look at the read out and saw it was off lol . She could say nothing . I made sure they had our birthplan . I was watching them like a eagle as they were scamppering around my wife . After just 25 mins of arriving up there my wife gave birth to the baby . It was scary and amazing . The doula was shocked too .

Once born they clamped the cord to soon . I was not happy with it and then took her to the warmer which was not what we wanted . The doula told me also that the ob-gyn doc also pulled on my wifes placenta : .

We were able to avoid drugs and other interventions though . I hope in the future my wife will make the choice to use a stand alone birthing center here in Ohio or homebirth .

The baby is doing well though which we are thankfull for . She was 8 lbs 5 oz .

Just thought I'd tell you guys the great news .


Now I have to gear up to fight the two appointments they want us to attend with the baby for follow up . They seem to think we are going to do the PKU , VIT K and Hep B shots .. NOT SO !! over my cold dead body will they have to do it !!!


Darrel

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Congratulations!

I am sorry you had more interventions than you had planned for. I too hope you are able to birth at home or in a birth center in the future
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: CONGRATULATIONS on your new baby! Enjoy all your loved ones at this special time!
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Congrats on your new baby girl!!!!!
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How great to hear a birth story from the dad's perspective! It sounds like you were a wonderful advocate for your wife in making sure your birth plan was followed (as much as possible)- hooray! Congratulations on your new little one
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Congratulations on your beautiful Jasmine. I hearing birth stories from the dad's perspectives. Take care & enjoy your baby!!
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Congratulations Darell!!!! you have very cute children...and cute cute little girl...actually name Jasmine is what we wanted to give our baby if it's a girl... I just wish there could be more men like you...you are such a supportive husband for your wife and you know what is best and know how to protect your family......I wish your wife will be convinced in the future that natural home birth is the best way her body should give birth...cause that's how it was meant to be...congratulations again!!!!
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