Adrianne, I think you are right to be concerned about that. I am sorry I didn't respond to your preschool thread. By the time I saw it, you were doing better and I didn't have as much to share. We did a traditional Montessori preschool for a year when dd was 4. We eventually decided it wasn't for us and now we homeschool. I could relate to many of the feelings you expressed
One of my closest friends and co LLL leader was going also. We often joked about what the teachers would think if they knew the girls were "still" nursing.
I feel for you. I know you don't like having to compromise your beliefs to fit into this "system", but you are accurate in your assessment that there may be reprucussions shuld you nurse. I do feel however, if your little guy really needed to nurse, you should. Then deal with it later. Ellie and I nursed before school and after. Now, my perspective is different, but I am just trying to say that I understand your feelings.