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Little thing, but it made me feel sad  

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My DD has a preschool classmate who is just the cutest little guy. He's a sweet, loving child, very nice to the other kids, and he follows his older (4.5 yo) brother around adoringly.

His mom was telling me yesterday how annoyed she gets when he wakes up 15 minutes early in the morning and tries to crawl into his parents' bed. She says he's too big for that, and told me that she's tired of his "manipulative" fake crying, where he says things like, "But Mamma, I love you and I just want to snuggle" and cries when she takes him back to his room. She was annoyed because he tried to crawl in with his brother one morning after being removed from his parents' bed. I think she was afraid it would encourage them to grow up gay.

Now, I didn't say anything to her, and of course it's her choice about where her kids sleep and how comfortable she is. But I looked at that sweet little boy, who just wanted to snuggle, and I thought it was kind of sad that his mom didn't appreciate that. He's just so cute and loving.

Made me want to go home and curl up with my DD, KWIM?
post #2 of 13


so sad.....
post #3 of 13

Why can't people let babies be babies? Sigh...

snuggle those babies (and kids!) close while they let you!

-Angela
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That's so sad. Poor little baby.
post #5 of 13
that just breaks my heart ... i never co-sleeped with my 3 just because i was terrified of smothering .. i just didn't feel comfortable but everyone did sleep in our room until they were about 12 months ... but i would love it if my toddlers came just to snuggle ... some people are just so strange .. oh and the gay thing ... my gosh! ... people are just born that way ... we joke around that one of the twins will probably be just because if his mannerisms ... but that's ok by us .. oh well this post is all over the place ... sorry
post #6 of 13
That is so sad. My little brother is almost 8 and STILL sleeps with my parents sometimes (if he isn't sleeping with his dog, that is).

Katie
post #7 of 13
Awww, that's sad...
post #8 of 13
That breaks my heart.
Maybe she is just not a morning person and is better to him throughout the day.
I'm really, really hoping that's it.
post #9 of 13
Awwww.. She should snuggle him now because in a few years he won't.
post #10 of 13
Oh,that's really sad. Poor little guy.
post #11 of 13
How very sad. I can't wait for my dd to come into my room in the morning and tell me that she loves me and wants to snuggle..............
My little sister use to come snuggle with me in the mornings after she found my parents door locked once, I use to love that too.........and funny we are both straight.
post #12 of 13
Oh, that mama doesn't know what she's missing. Her poor little baby seems to, though...
post #13 of 13
That is just heartbreaking.
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