well I was thinking about it, and how it's just assumed that you're a sahm here, and then it hit me that it maybe shouldnt be that way. maybe it should not be assumed either way. this assumption alienates the working out of home moms, which isn't right.
I guess I think that it wouldnt divide us so much. I think there are a million things already dividing us, it's not likely that a forum for SAHM's will destroy the community. I think that the SAHM forum will be very busy, and when people who id as SAHM's post about everyday stuff in there, a lot of non-SAHM's might miss out because they won't be in that forum. But this could be solved by havinga policy that the SAHM forum is for issues specific to being a SAHM, like...I dunno, scheduling stuff and home-during-the-day centered concerns.
Mostly I think that having a forum for that dynamic would help balance out the site in that WOHM's coming to the site would think, "oh look, this site is inclusive." So mainly I'd want to see the SAHM forum for the benefit of WOHM's, and also because so many of you have posted here arguing that it's needed. I think that says something.