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Well, it's been fun. But...

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Birthmom called last night. She's decided to keep the babies.

Thanks for letting me hang with you while it lasted.
post #2 of 46
Oh...I'm stunned. Really stunned. I'm so sorry for your loss...It's a spontaneous termination, although thank god the babies themselves are fine. I do hope you have some good support at home. Thinking of you... andy
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Nemmer- I'm so sorry for your loss.... s
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*hugs*
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So sorry Nemmer. I know there are other babies out there coming your way. you are such a dedicated mama and there are children out there who deserve such a family!

Hugs,
Karen
post #6 of 46
I am not in your due date club here, but your post caught my eye..I just wanted to say I'm so sorry how awful for you to have to go through this!
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post #8 of 46
Oh honey. I am so sorry.
post #9 of 46
Nemmer.... : I am very sorry.
post #10 of 46
{{{HUGS}}}

I'm so sorry - that just stinks!
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: I'm so sorry... :
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I'm so sorry
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post #14 of 46
I'm really sorry.((hug))
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post #16 of 46
Neemer, I'm so sorry.
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Nemmer- that must be quite a blow. I am so sorry that happened to you, but you never know if this is the birthmother's final decision. As the babies are getting bigger, the mother is probably becoming more bonded to them and hesitant to let them go, but she may also come to her senses and realize why she wanted to put them up for adoption initially. I will keep my fingers crossed... There are lots of babies in need of good mommies in this world, if these twins aren't meant for you, you will find another baby who is.
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Praying for you and your family....
post #19 of 46
I'm so very sorry. You must be in shock. Is there still a possibility she will change her mind?
post #20 of 46
I'm really sorry.
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