With my first son, we had a ped who didn't give more than 2 shots at any one time. Somehow they bothered me less that way - thought of it as not overtaxing the system (didn't like vaxes but hadn't looked into them that much) - so he got almost all. I did skip chicken pox and p? (the one for ear infections).
With my second son, we had moved = new dr. At our first visit (15 months) he was due for vaxes. We had just moved, I had two kids, tired, etc. I some how let the ped over rule my objections (he said it didn't matter, blah, blah) and give our son all the 15 month shots (can't remember how, but it was a hell of a lot). He got a lump the size of a gulf ball that lasted for a month. The dr totally blew it off as normal. NONE OF MY KIDS HAVE HAD A VAX SINCE.
Now they are 4, 2 and 2 weeks. I am researching vaxes; not sure if I'm reading to go completely no-vax. I am thinking about HIB, pertussis and possibly tetnus. I am breastfeeding so I don't plan to give my daughter any vaxes until at least 6 months. I was going to post the same question you did, but saw yours. I am hoping you get some responses from selective vaxers - I would really like to read the answers. Thanks for starting the thread.