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post #1 of 10
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Still in labour guys Cx'ns are about 4 minutes apart and have been all night so typing is hard...so bear with the short forms.

At the 36 hour mark I decided to try an enema which one of the mw's had said could help if labour wasn't progressing well (I was still 8-10 mins at that point). So did the enema and immediately went to every 4-5 minutes and all of a sudden the cx'ns hurt like hell! At around 4am after 2 hours at 4 mins apart I called the mw cause I just had to know. She was at another birth at the hospital so said I could get the other on call mw (buffy) to come and assess me or I could go to hospital for an outpatient assessment and then decide what to do. Buffy is the mw I switched from because she hits my emotional hot buttons so decided going to hospital for assessment was preferable.

So I went in and Debbie checked me, urine fine, bp great, Niamh's hr a steady 120. Then she checked my cervix and I was at 2cms (sigh). She stayed in during a contraction just to see how my cervix was responding and as I started to say "ouch ouch ouch" which is how I had been doing most of the contractions since the enema she could actually feel my cervix tense up so she asked me to try to keep my breathing nice and deep and when I did that she could easily stretch me to 3 so she said "Keep doing that "

She asked if I wanted to be admitted or just go home and I decided that I would go home since we still seem to have a long road to go and plus I hate the hospital...just the smell of that place makes me tense up (though I must say that the height of the toilets are heavenly LMAO!) Before we left she put her hand on my arm and said "You can do this Steph"...I know she probably says that a lot but I keep clinging to those words.

So we came back home and I went to bed. Even though I was waking up every 4 minutes to breathe through the contractions I feel surprisingly rested right now. Definitely more pressure in my pelvic area and I can no longer picture myself doing this for another 10 hours LOL so I just do each contraction as it comes and I figure the rest will take care of itself...I figure though that is a good sign that the contractions are being productive enough to get some work done. Hopefully I will have Niamh today but I do feel rested enough at this point to keep going if I have to since we are both doing fine.

Steph
post #2 of 10
I am thinking of you today!
post #3 of 10
Sounds like you are doing just the right things by relaxing and letting things flow, mama! Remember birth is something our bodies know how to do!
I'll be thinking about you! Come on out Niamh!
post #4 of 10
you *can* do it, steph! i'll be thinking about you all day today.

*j
post #5 of 10
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Well it appears like the contractions might be petering out. The mw's just left and I have made progress (2-3 cm dilated, 40-50% effaced and very soft) but shortly after they got here my contractions started spacing out and even pumping (10 mins on, 10 mins off for 1 hour) didn't make them pick back up. Debbie asked about how I felt about waiting it out vs section and I explained that since my main issue is avoiding repeated scars to my uterus as long as there was no indication of maternal or fetal distress that I preferred to wait it out. I also asked if I was on any sort of "clock" at this point and if my contractions disappeared completely if I could just choose to do nothing about that and Debbie said because I am technically not in "active" labour and my water is still intact I can choose just to keep waiting.

So it looks like that is what I am going to do at this point. The other sticky point is that Debbie and Meredith (the two mw's I like best) are both going off call at 8pm tonight for a week so I would be stuck with the two mw's I like least and whom I have some control issues with

Surprisingly I am not that disappointed...I was looking forward to meeting Niamh but I guess I can be patient if she wants to take her time. Plus where I stand now I am already farther along then I ever got with Rhys so that is a good thing in my books. I would rather be patient and allow Niamh the chance to come in her own time than try to force the issue and cause more problems then I solve.

I think I am going to go have a nap just so that if things change and I need the energy I will be ready for it

Steph
post #6 of 10
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Good for you making decisions on your own. Thinking of you today, stay strong and rest. You can and will do this.
post #7 of 10
My first one took her time too... Can you walk? Or is it pretty painful? I walked for a few miles with DD and that kicked thing up a bit- It just got everything moving. And if you dont love your MW's you will have, stay at home for as long as you can- I am talking 1-2 min apart- depending on how far you live from the hospital .....

Hugs! Try baking a cake or something, I did that when my labor started with DD and we ate it 3 days later at her birth! Funny that labor- huh????
post #8 of 10
Waiting can be so very hard but it's made much easier when you have a supportive birth team.

For what it's worth we shared a due date and I'm still very much pregnant too. I can be your holding pattern buddy

Hope you're managing to get some rest
post #9 of 10
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Originally Posted by Kia74
Waiting can be so very hard but it's made much easier when you have a supportive birth team.

For what it's worth we shared a due date and I'm still very much pregnant too. I can be your holding pattern buddy

Hope you're managing to get some rest
Thanks Kia! That does actually help in a strange way LOL!

Steph
post #10 of 10
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kia74
Waiting can be so very hard but it's made much easier when you have a supportive birth team.

For what it's worth we shared a due date and I'm still very much pregnant too. I can be your holding pattern buddy

Hope you're managing to get some rest

Another one here, too! 41 weeks and going strong!
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