fertility and nursing

[hlkm2e]

If you are ovulating while you are nursing, are you just as fertile as if you were ovulating and not nursing. In other words, besides not ovulating, does nursing affect your fertility? Is there anywhere I can read up on this?

[rgarlough]

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[~*~HAPPY*MAMA~*~]

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if you are ovlulating and nursing, you are NOT necessarily AS FERTILE as before. Allow me to explain... fertility returns in stages while nursing- kind of like a 2 steps forward 3 steps back thing. once you work enough enough hormone to get that lil eggie out, it can still take a bit for your leutal phase (the time between ovulation and period) to lengthen to the 10+days ideal for implantation to take place. For me personally, I got first pp af at 16mos pp and yet didn't ge tback up to my norm 11 day lp until 2mos later. It still took 5 MORE months of perfect timing and conditions to get my bfp with ds#3! (23 at time, great health, dh 25 great health!) Although my sis in law hasn't had a periof in almost 4 years now since keeps getting pg every 18mos while nursing- lucky gal is nursing 10mos dd jsut pg with #4. Exceptions to every rule- right? charting you rtemps will show you length of lp- you can tell the pther factors on your own (cm). hth

[rgarlough]

Even with my first PP AF, my LP was 10+ days. My longest so far has been 16! That was a rough cycle...

I'm 11 DPO today so we'll see if this is THE one

[Defenestrator]

Besides the shortened luteal phase, some mamas will also have a lack of good quality cervical mucus while nursing. That was the case with me (though I didn't have a shortened luteal phase). Good timing can help overcome that problem as can some of the home remedies for increasing cervical mucus.

Lots of mamas are able to get pregnant while nursing, though. I did, and one mama I was planning to work with (I am just starting to do some fertility education) got pregnant the first month she tried, without even charting.

Good luck!

[Quirky]

I started charting when I got AF back when ds was 16 or 17 months and still nursing up a storm. I also used an ovulation monitor so I was able to tell that I wasn't ovulating the first couple of cycles. Even when I did start ovulating I definitely had very poor and very scanty EWCM. We were TTC and tried Robitussin....didn't really improve the EWCM. Also used egg white as a lubricant - ick! The cycle I got pregnant we used Pre-seed personal lubricant to make up for not having any EWCM to speak of.

[~*~HAPPY*MAMA~*~]

decaf green tea really helped me w/ ewcm.

[loomweaver]

What I am wondering is: Does lactation affect the results of a Pregnancy test?
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Meaning: If I'm breastfeeding, will a negative test show up positive? or vice versa?

[Boobiemama]

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[musicmaj]

I got pregnant with second period while nursing 7 month old dd.

[mags]

I second the short luteal phase as being a possible issue while BFing. I was lucky (not), to get AF back 4 mo postpartum while exclusively BFing. I could feel it when I was ovulating it was much more obvious than before I had a baby. One of my friends who almost never ovulated on her own, said she also noticed how strong her ovulation pain was after having her baby, and surprisingly her cycles went from completely unpredicatable, to exactly 28 days. Now, I had short LP problems while trying to get pregnant with my son, I had to take bromocriptine for elevated prolactin (I was obviously not nursing). The bromocriptine did help increase my LP, but since I am nursing, I cannot take bromocriptine again, and I also had to take clomid/progesterone last time too, b/c I don't think my egg quality was that great, and I had consistently low progesterone levels. I have suspected for the past few months that I have been having a short LP again. Whether it has been due just to nursing, or it is a combo of my pre-existing tendancy towards short LPs and the nursing, I am not sure. Anyway, my suspicions were verified, when I started using OPKs last month, and it turns out my LP is only 4-5 days long. There is no way I would be able to sustain implantation with such a low LP. So, even though I am ttc #2 (joshua is 10 mo old), I pretty much have the feeling that there will be no way that I will be able to get pg again until joshua is weaned or at least weaned down to much fewer feedings a day. I am hoping that the second time around I won't need to take any clomid or anything else to get and stay pg.

BTW, good luck ttc!

[kavamamakava]

Originally Posted by loomweaver

What I am wondering is: Does lactation affect the results of a Pregnancy test?
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Meaning: If I'm breastfeeding, will a negative test show up positive? or vice versa?

It shouldn't. In fact, your breastmilk will have higher concentrations of the pregnancy hormone than your urine. You can squirt on a stick instead of pee on one

[mags]

Originally Posted by kavamamakava

It shouldn't. In fact, your breastmilk will have higher concentrations of the pregnancy hormone than your urine. You can squirt on a stick instead of pee on one

Really??? That's pretty cool, and you won't have to use FMU!

[Boobiemama]

No way! Really??? I'll have to look that up...

[LylasMom]

Okay, so my question is what if you have enough EWCM, ARE ovulating and have a long enough LP?? Then what are your chances of conceiving while bfding?

We got pg with DD the 3rd month of trying, but it was the 2nd month where intercourse was really right on time. This time, we've been TTC about 5 months, and 3 of them the timing was right on, but still no BFP here!! I nurse about 2x a day, more when DD was sick. I don't want to wean right away, since she doesn't seem ready and it's hard work to wean, BUT, I also don't want to be nursing way into my pregnancy or be nursing 2.

Are my chances still high?

[Mommay]

I found the info. here interesting. I wish I saw this before. I was wondering the same things. My ds is 18 months old, and I had not gotten my period back. I tried to convince myself that it was just not time yet. But I did notice that I was ovulating because I would get discharge at certain times of the month, etc. I could tell when I was ovulating just from that. I must have timed it right, because I got it right with just one try around that time.

[Minnesota Mom]

What if you haven't gotten AF back yet? I know its still POSSIBLE to get pregnant, but it isn't very likely is it? I just went off the mini-pill and have a seven month old who for the most part is exclusively BF. He gets a few solids here and there, but not many. He still nurses up a storm at night too. Anyway, DH and I decided to go off the pill and just let God and nature decide when we have another baby...but chances aren't good right now until AF comes back are they? I can't be ovulating if I am not menstrating right?

I'm pretty clueless about this stuff. DS was a blessing! We weren't 'trying', but we weren't doing anything to prevent it either, ya know?

What do all the abbreviations mean also...I know AF, and O, but the rest are totally beyond me..

Is that really true about the breastmilk on the pregnancy test too? I've NEVER heard of that before!!

[pachitomama]

41% less chance of conceiving

I just read that there is a 41% less chance of conceiving while nursing if your period HAS RETURNED. As I understand it there is a 25% chance of conceiving while not nursing and otherwise healthy. In other words you have a better chance of conceiving while nursing (and ovulating) if your period has not come back. The book could not explain why, they seemed to be surprised as well, but that is what their statistics showed. Sucks for me because I have my period and i'm still nursing my 20mos day/night.

[gotmilkmama]

Wow I didn't know about using breastmilk instead of pee!!! Interesting!

I got preg while nursing 9 mos ds. I had had 2 periods prior. One when he was about 6.5 mos and one when he was 8.5 months. Needless to say I now have identical twins from that second pregnancy!!

My twin girls are now 6.5 mos old. And I have a very loud voice in my head that says "BE CAREFUL"!!!! :LOL

[~Megan~]

I got my first af when dd was 11 months and then another when she was 13 months.

We started ttc when she was 16 or 17 months old. We ttced for 13 months. The last 8 months of that I know I was ovulating and had 13 day LPs.

I don't know if it was because I was nursing or if there were other factors but it could be.
Different women respond differently to hormones than others. Some can get pregnant with round the clock bf at 4 or 6 months postpartum with out a period. Others have to wait several months after weaning to get normal cycles.