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Fat-phobic P.E. teacher!  

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I know that there is a childhood obesity crisis in this country and many schools are implementing programs to teach children healthy habits. Unfortunately, I don't think teachers are necessarily trined in the best ways to get the messages across.

My daughter (in kindergarten) keeps telling me things she hears from her gym teacher that are inaccurate or else just plain inappropriate. For example, one day DD had a lollipop and then said she needed to get up to do some jumping jacks because "Mrs. M said that if we eat sweets and then just sit down afterwards we can get fat." I told her that was not quite true, and that eating way too many sweets and getting no exercise can cause a person to become overweight, but that does not mean she needs to do jumping jacks every time she has a cookie for fear of getting fat.

Then she told me that Mrs. M. told her class that none of them looked like they didn't take care of their bodies. How can she tell this? Does she know what each kid eats, how much exercise he/she gets, how much sleep, etc.? Or was she really saying, "None of you are fat?" I know plenty of skinny kids with lousy diets who sit in front of television for hours a day.

It bothers me that she is focusing on the prevention of "getting fat" in her attempts to teach kids to be healthy. I asked my daughter if Mrs. M. ever told them why it is not healthy to be overweight and she said no, so I took it upon myself to explain the effects on a person's health and lifestyle (your heart has to work too hard, you might not be able to run and play as easily, etc.). I understand that the teacher means well and has probably been told by her supervisors that she needs to do some obesity prevention but I'm disturbed by her delivery, KWIM?

Should I communicate this to the principal? The classroom teacher? This is a school I might eventually want a teaching job in, so I really want to avoid being labeled as "that crazy mom."
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I'm not sure whether I'd address it with just the teacher or both the teacher & the principal. Of importance to me is the fact that she seems to be focusing the kids on body image rather than health. Kids are bombarded enough with messages in the media about how beautiful "thin" is, I don't think focusing their attention on avoiding being fat is supportive of their health. Making healthy food choices & exercizing is good for your body for lots of reasons, not just because it keeps you from getting fat. Creating an environment where kids fear fat places them at risk for future mental health problems and unhealthy behaviors.

post #3 of 7
First of all, you are not crazy for thinking the way you are. You are concerned about the kind of experience your child is having in school. As an elementary school teacher, I appreciate parents who are concerned about their kids because their are plenty who are not. You would be crazy to let an issue that bothers you slide.

That being said, you should start by talking calmly to the pe teacher. You have a kindergartner who is trying to quote a teacher and may or may not be doing so accurately. Kids come home with all kinds of stories from school and not all of them are accurate. Your child may be misunderstanding what the teacher says. If the pe teacher is a good teacher, she will want to convey a message to the kids she teaches that is positive and you can't figure out what she really means unless you talk to her. Make an appointment before or after school or call and ask her to call you back. Don't blame or get upset until you hear for yourself what she is really trying to tell the kids.

If it turns out that the message she is giving the kids is truly unhealthy, then talk to the principal. Don't get the classroom teacher involved. The pe teacher and classroom teacher are peers. The principal is the boss.

Good luck!
post #4 of 7
i agree you should have a conversation with the pe teacher.

maybe your daughter is paraphrasing (?)

but, it would be a good idea to check into it and voice your valid concerns.
post #5 of 7
Even though she may not be relaying all the aspects of the conversations accurately, she shouldn't be hearing about getting fat from a teacher.
post #6 of 7
I had to talk to my son’s K physical education teacher about this. Later the principle.

The teacher could be teaching the right things but the kids taking it the wrong way.
post #7 of 7
Sounds like my middle school health teacher...

She would talk and talk about how much fat was in this or that. How gross beef was. Etc. I was very young and very impressionable and basically stopped eating because of what she said. Even though I was a fairly thin kid I got down to being very skinny (my family didn't won a scale, so I couldn't tell you actual numbers). I wish that my parents had stood up and said something on my behalf to this over zealous teacher.

Please speak to your daughter's PE teacher. She may have the best intentions, but is going out it all wrong.
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