OK, just wanted to give an update. We got the hyland's earache stuff and also some hylands cold plus c stuff and started giving that last Thurs(one day after we found out about the ear infection). That night I also started doing the garlic oil. I crushed up a garlic clove and heated it in some oil, then tried to suck up only oil(no garlic...) into a little syringe thingy and then I dripped a drop or two into my daughters ear while she was sleeping. Worked like a charm! She never even woke up! I knew I didn't stand a chance if did it while she was awake... So we did that along with the hyland's for three days and she progressively got better so I felt pretty confident that she got over it. She was pretty cranky still and in the last couple days I noticed that she was hitting her ear sometimes although she didn't appear to be in pain. Anyway, I decided to just get her checked again today to be sure and it turns out she's perfect! She's probably hitting her ears now because she's got some molars coming thru(don't ya just love how it all seems to happen at once...), either that or maybe she was telling me about how her ears hurt last week, I dunno.
What was cool though is that when we went to the doc today she said: "Good for you for not doing the antibiotic right away. Most parents go right for it, but there's so much research to suggest ear infections will often go away on their own. Good for you!" That made me feel good

Thanks for the support and suggestions mamas!