I'm so happy that you're finding this thread helpful. Trying to calm down the reactions and find the triggers is difficult but very rewarding work.
Some thoughts about petroleum jelly -- we use it on her legs when she has active patches. We searched for other things and found that nothing seems to work as well. It's slimy and even SOUNDS toxic, but it really helps her stop the itching that otherwise keeps her up all night. We only use it at night right after the bath (IMMEDIATELY after patting dry). I searched these forums high and low for advice about creams. Everyone seems to have something that is a favorite, some even contain fragrances, which I don't quite understand. Anyway, there are a lot of natural oils, I just haven't found anything thick enough to last overnight. I've found that some folks suggest unPetroleum,which might seem more benign, but word of warning: we tried it on her active patches one night and SHE SCREAMED. It must have burned or stung. We had to put her back in the tub and wash it all off -- no easy feat. She felt immediate relief. I don't know about petroleum on the face, though. Maybe a thin layer? I'd hate to get that in my eyes/nose/mouth!
I think the best long-term solution is to hydrate from THE INSIDE, with the oils that other mamas have suggested: evening primrose, cod liver, flax.
I too was a strict vegetarian for years until this excema creature came into our lives. It felt strange to eat meat again, but I was SO HUNGRY all the time and felt impossibly cranky. Since then, I've done a bit of reading about soy and soy products and I'm starting to think that as a vegetarian I totally overdid the soy. I had horrible PMS, had trouble conceiving (estrogen-dominance), and found myself getting....eczema! But this probably belongs in a Toxic Soy thread, which probably wouldn't be too popular around here.
