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post #81 of 92
I'm here, happy new year everyone, our's was pretty quiet. Steve and I are getting really really sick of our new neighbors. Ours is a very long bungalow that has been turned into 2 houses, When I moved here 6 yrs ago, the person who rented the front house had been here 10 yrs and was very laid back. She had an obnoxious dog who was a pain in the ass, but other than that she and her daughter were the perfect neighbors, if we ever had to go out at night we could always trust her to put the cat inside if he showed up after dark, basically we did for her and she did for us--as is pretty much the norm in the country. These people have moved here from the city and it's pretty obvious they have NO concept of country life. The parking area in front of the house can accomadate roughly 8 cars, with Mary (old neighbor) she parked on one side, we parked on the other and the middle was for any guests who may arrive. Pretty simple, these people have sectioned off "their" parking area, leaving us with ONLY 2 spots and if we have company, they would feel they were blatently parking in someone else's spot if they parked anywhere other than directly behind our spots. Then to top it off, we came home last night after going out to dinner to find they had guests parked in our spot and blocking the entrance to the driveway so we were forced to knock on their door and wait while they figured out which idiots were blocking us (no small feat) Anyway, I'm just sick of it, our furnace is in their basement and they refuse to give us a key to their house--once the baby is here I will insist on it through the landlord as I'm not taking a chance on the furnance going out and them not being home for 10 hrs. When they first arrived he kept talking about how his 6 yr old son will love walking through the bush area that is beside the house--meanwhile, this area is half swamp and FULL of various wildlife--including the fact that a mountain lion has been spotted in there many times for a number of yrs. Yeah, sounds like the perfect environment for a 6 yr old to play!! Then their kids keep playing on the wooden jungle gym that is directly outside our front door, there is a treehouse thing in it which currently belongs to our cat, it is a safe and dry place for him if he's outside after dark or it starts raining. Coyotes can't get him, etc etc. He has a bed in there and food and water dishes--these peoples kids keep taking his stuff out and throwing it on the ground!!!! Just rude all round and we're not happy, we never had a single problem with our old neighbors, I mean there is afterall over 30 acres to share, there should be room for both of us!
Rant over.
I have agreed to go on bedrest as of next week so I won't need to take any pain killers and hopefully my blood pressure won't go through the roof on me.
I can't wait until this little one is born!!!!
post #82 of 92
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Originally Posted by wtchyhlr
Hey, where're Heve and Shannon and Stell? They haven't posted in ages?
I'm here...sort of...tried to catch up on this thread, but I'm feeling a little out of it. Have had houseguests, first my mom, then a friend, so today is the first day dh and I are alone...tried napping with him, but the phone in the next room got me out, and I guess I'm not all that sleepy...feeling a little blue. My Christmas holiday has zipped past, and I'm pooped. Today dh and I had to continue an argument that we couldn't really get into with our guests around...big sigh. Feeling better about it, but the day feels almost over, and I dunno...wish we could've had a better day, at least gotten in a walk or something...

I will post the photos soon of Shannon's, Jesse's (April mama), and my bellycasting tea...
post #83 of 92
Heve

I hope everyone had a good day today. No one's really chatty today...hmm...did some of you imbibe just a little too much? By too much I mean the three sips of champagne that made me feel slightly buzzed. Wow am I going to be a cheap date when this is all over.

DH has made a few comments over the past few days...one warranted him a huge hug while the other one made me jump over the table and attack him. One was that I look like one of the earth mother goddess figurines. That made me feel really good. The one that pissed me off is that he now calls me Oh Bloated One and makes Jabba the Hut cracks. Someone come over here and beat him for me...I don't want to lose my gun rights over a domestic dispute :LOL

I ordered my belly cast kit today and we're going shopping tomorrow for all the things on my list that the midwife gave me. I can't believe it's almost over. I'm still in shock. I know it may not have gone fast for some of you but the time has just flown for me. I'm just in shock and I'm getting excited and nervous.
post #84 of 92
Ladies - word of advice: Enjoy your pregnancy, cherish your newborn, hug your toddler, and when your preschooler won't stop talking - listen. I just realized for the first time how much easier it is to have a little one than a teen. My son, who will be 13 in February, has been viewing some things on the internet that are less than appropriate to say the least. He then lied about it even though I had the proof. I've been crying for hours, I feel like a failure, I don't know what to do. Babies are easy. They cry, you nurse them, you change them, you hold them. Toddlers have tantrums and preschoolers never stop asking "why?" All easy, all things that can be handled. I honestly am in shock and don't know what to do. If you knew me IRL you would know that I am VERY conservative. I don't watch TV, read any mainstream magazines, bring anything remotely sexual into the house. It's not like we've never talked about sex, we have, we're very open about it. But porn is so disgusting, IMO. I'm too hormonal to deal with this right now but I have no choice. Ugh, wish me luck....
post #85 of 92
Oh Amy, good luck....
I have no idea how I would handle that..... none at all... and i tend to call myself stark raving mad liberal.
post #86 of 92
ekblad7+: I'll keep you in my thoughts. Don't beat yourself up too much about it. You can do everything perfectly with your parenting and it comes a time when your children will do things you never thought they would do. He was probably just curious and it's just another time for a talk. I haven't been in your place yet, but I remember when I was growing up and if my parents knew some of the things my brothers and I did, I know it would crush them. This is a hard time to go through stressful events. Just breath in and out and count to 10.

The belly casts look like loads of fun! I don't think I will be doing it. I really don't want to remember this aweful umbilical hernia. I can't wait to have a normal belly button. I have seen some amazing casts though with beautiful decupage (spelling?) pictures on it. You can really get artistic with it.

Monica: IME Most men don't have any tact. One minute they can be giving you a compliment, the next they say something very insensitive. It's hard to take during these hormonal times.

I'm going to bed. Hopefully I will get a full night's sleep finally. Belly rubs all around. Talk to you all soon!

Love, Tricia
post #87 of 92
Awww Amy, it's so tough. I obviously haven't dealt with this with my own but have seen my Godson through a less than desirable teen hood. The one thing I can say is that in spite of some truly HORRENDOUS things he did (and I'm talking lying to us and his folks, cracking up my truck, stealing from us etc) he has just this past year really turned it around for himself and has just been accepted to attend college to become a paramedic (he's 21 btw)
I will never forget a phone call from his bawling extremely liberal mom one night. She came home to find her 14 yr old having sex on her couch with an 18 yr old girl. Her words to the girl "What, you didn't have anything better to do for 7 seconds???"
To be honest, his younger brother is a complete model citizen, totally trustworthy, has worked his but off every day of his life and they both had an identical up bringing.
post #88 of 92
Thanks ladies. I feel better this morning. Still a little shocked b/c Brandon is really immature, in general. This was quite a surprise. But I do feel more collected and like I can talk to him without completely losing it (is that possible in this stage of pregnancy? :LOL ). Glad to have little ones to cuddle while I go through this new part of parenting. Wow, just when I think I'm an expert

Umbilical hernias are the absolute worst! I had one earlier in the pregnancy but the baby must of moved or something and it hasn't reared it's ugly head for a while. I'm hoping it doesn't re surface during labor.

Have a good day everyone.
post #89 of 92
I have a 14 year old boy so I know EXACTLY what you are going through - I haven't caught him actually looking at any porn but the first time I went to grab his sheets to wash them and found a copy of a Victoria's Secret catalog hidden under his pillow I felt like I couldn't breath for a minute!!

In addition to talking I also found him this book in Barnes and Noble made for teens - I will try to find it and give you the title if you want. I thought it was really good. It has information and advice on a ton of subjects like sex, drugs, peer pressure in general - that kind of thing. I know he's looked at it a lot, sometimes I think it's easier for him to look in a book then to ask me or DH a question that might embarass him.

Kitty
post #90 of 92
Thank you all so much! We managed to have a good day. Talked to my son. He is being punished for lieing, punished for abusing his babysitting privelages, but obviously not punished for being curious. I would love the name of that book. I was going to try and get to Barnes and Noble today but I got sidetracked at Natural Babies (she lives close to me!!!) and got 24 infant prefolds, four Kissaluvs, my postpartum pads, some snappis and I think that's it. I have a bunch of infant dipes already but wanted some tiny ones for the beginning. Anyway, that was fun. Now I'm heating some herbs for an herbal foot bath. Then it's off to bed. I am so swelled up the last few days. Did I mention baby dropped? Yippee! I can breath and he can't flip, :LOL

Alright, talk to you all tomorrow!
post #91 of 92
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Originally Posted by ekblad7+
My son, who will be 13 in February, has been viewing some things on the internet that are less than appropriate to say the least. He then lied about it even though I had the proof.
*hugging my innocent baby boy who is only 17 months old and telling myself he will stay the little angel he is forever and ever*

:LOL Yeah right! Who am I kidding! :LOL


<--- this is for you. I have an 11 year old daughter and thankfully the 'S' word is the furthest thing from her mind...as of right now anyway. I'm fully aware that could change any day now. But I do empathize on how much more complicated older children are then when they were babies.
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