My dh and I just learned that yet another friend has undergone a csection to remove her "big baby" (10lbs). Since having my own son via emergency csection we know of 15 other births. All but TWO being csections!! Is this crazy or what? Now, our personal conversation was long and dragged out and flighty, if you will. But the main point (of mine- my husband is less paranoid! lol) being that that making csections common is taking power away from women. I'm not a feminist really, but I feel this SO STRONGLY! It seems that with each section another woman loses her control over her body and her baby. Who is behind this surge of sections? The docs? The hospitals? The insurance companies? The gov't? And can we go back to regular births being the "norm" or is that time over? How does one speak up against csections without insulting other moms? My emergency csection really negativly affected me as a woman and I'm still (21 ms later) recovering from the emotional damage of it. BUT my son WOULD HAVE died had I not had it... but at the same time (the cord was wrapped around his neck and leg, doubled) I still feel the hospital caused the situation to begin with as I was induced at 33weeks due to low amniotic fluid,e tc. I was on pitocin for 3 days and cervedel too. I was so stressed- couldn't these things have led to him getting wrapped up in the cord? ? Anyway, I'm intrested in hearing others opinons! I mean, wasn't our body meant to deliver babies- even big ones? And I know that even the most natural-minded mama feels so scared in the birthing situation that one will do what is asked of her from the proffesionals (docs/nurses/etc.). So, going in with the best of nat'l birth intentions can mean nothing when there's a doc in your face saying that your babes life is at risk w/o a csection. And WHY is EVERY DARNED HOSPITAL BIRTH started w/ pitocin these days? Do the docs really not have time to wait out a normal labor? Is this another power-sucking manuever?
Okay, this is an honest post looking for opinions AND a vent. Thanks!
Kimberley
Okay, this is an honest post looking for opinions AND a vent. Thanks!
Kimberley


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in order to get the contractions back. Two hours of hard pushing
Homebirth was totally fine.
Not necessarily... it's the place where a woman is most likely to have a medically managed birth... which will most likely lead her to a Csec.
So I chose another OB who was more "natural friendly." He let me be during labor
and would only intervene/act if something was "wrong." I doubt most OBs are like that. Most want to help move things along. They are uncomfortable standing still and doing "nothing." (Liability fears no doubt.) I don't think it's because they want to leave earlier either.
I do agree that doctors often jump too quick and opt for a C-section, but I think it is out of fear most of the time. Have you heard about the declining rate of OB's because of the extreme cost of malpractice insurance? I do think that there is some power struggle between the doctors and the women, but things have improved in the past couple decades. I think some of the problems have been brought on by women. As others have mentioned, the frivilous lawsuits force the doctors to take extra percautions because they don't want to be sued. In other words, women are taking the power out of thier own hands and thrusting it in the doctors by sueing them for every little thing. Of course not all the lawsuits are unecessary, but people do need to learn to accept the fact that sometimes things do happen. There should also be some sort of permission thing that if a woman wishes to delay having a C section, she can not sue the doctor for not doing it anyway. In other words, a woman should not be able to sue if she asks the doctor to do something a certain way. A lawsuit should only be for outright doctor error or neglect (I know this is a tough one to decifer.).
fine. What I object to is things being heavily managed/pushed onto a woman, "here are 'the rules'..." So much for women having choices
I'll shut up now. 
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