everytime me and dh get together....

[Ekatherina]

i don't know where to post this so please feel free to move this to where it belongs...
my baby is two months now and my bleeding stopped after one month post partum (sp?) but everytime me and dh have some fun (not even an intercourse ) i am bleeding again... i am so tired ...it has happened four times now....so we are so scared and dh is not touching me being afraid of another bleeding and it is too much blood...(maybe like my period) first i thought it is my period but they are just irregular and right after ...well you know........please help...

[stafl]

it's no biggie. When you orgasm it makes your uterus contract, and the contractions will expel any blood and lochia still in there. If I were you, I'd do some very gentle abdominal massage all the time and stimulate your uterus to squeeze it out. Did anyone show you how to feel your belly for your uterus? If it's squishy, just rub around the edges until it becomes a hard ball instead. You don't have to do it roughly like hospital nurses tend to, it can be really gentle and still work.

[Salihah]

I had the same thing for about 2-3 months after my last baby, even somedays even without intercourse. It did stop eventually and yours should too, try not to let it bother you or dh. As long as you aren't having pains with or really uncomfortable, I would just go ahead with being intimate and just know it might happen still for a while. If it is concerning you, consider calling your midwife or doc.

Best wishes!