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Who's doing it? (Yes, this one's about SEX!)

post #1 of 31
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I saw the other thread called "who's doing it" and I thought this would be the question.
Then it made me curious.
So, are you ladies having the legendary second trimester hornies, or no?

I am always a hornball, and have been althroughout both PGs. Except maybe not during the 3rd tri... This darned yeast infection has been deterring me from getting any for a little while.. Can't wait until its gone!!!

What about you?
post #2 of 31
I'm like up and down. I've been having a lot of constipation lately. I've been doing all I can to control it, but it's not going away completely. So needless to say when I'm constipated I want nothing to do with having sex. But the majority of days, I'm not constipated and I'm like a rabbit, I swear!!! DH thinks it's funny, I even put on the teddy I got for our wedding night!!! With my belly sticking out, it was pretty hillarious. He dug it, of course! So, I'd have to say, yes I've been a hornball, too, as long as I stay regular!!

jenn
post #3 of 31
I haven't really been a hornball but we've definately been doing it
In fact, we never really stopped. It's been fun !!! While I don't know how, dh seems to find me more attractive now than before.
post #4 of 31
Yeah, I am wanting it. But not getting it. Grrrr. Doesn't DH realize he better take advantage while he can? I wanted nothing to do with sex for months after ds was born, but pregnancy is a different story.
post #5 of 31
Obvious answer here. Nope, None, Nada. Doctors orders. Try not to even think about it.
post #6 of 31
Am I doing it? HA!!!!! HELL YES!!!!! I am such a horndog to begin with, stopping is never an option. I think my hubby is actually getting tired of it.
post #7 of 31
I was like that, all my senses were taken to the next level. This was amazing. But it had been gone the past 2 weeks. Where is it??? i want ti back!
post #8 of 31
I've gotta giggle at all you hornball May Mammas! Good for you! With 3 kids, being super tired at the end of every night, and DH's awareness and subsequant uneasiness that there really is a baby in there, I am lucky to get spooned when we are curling up to sleep. I'm not complaining though... I haven't had the urge to jump on top of his like a cat in heat for a while.
post #9 of 31
UG..I'm so frusterated...send some of that MY WAY!

The answer is NO. Maybe at my appointment tomorrow I'll have my M/W tell me NOT to do it so I'll desire it more! lol (Don't think it works that way..but isn't that how it is, when you CAN'T do it...you want it that much more??)

Poor DH, he's so patient and loving. I barely can bring myself to give him a sympathy day..but I have to once in a while or I got a really frusterated DH on my hands!
post #10 of 31
I am feeling it a lot more this trimester
My DH just 's my new "curvy" body, I feel really close to him now too. We have been enjoying this pregnancy a lot!!
post #11 of 31
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Originally Posted by MomAnita4Jesus
Maybe at my appointment tomorrow I'll have my M/W tell me NOT to do it so I'll desire it more! lol (Don't think it works that way..but isn't that how it is, when you CAN'T do it...you want it that much more??)
This is very true! Because I can't have it, I dream it!! I gotta get this outta my head! UGH! Now if it was ok, I am sure I would not want it. Such is life, wanting the forbiden fruit!
post #12 of 31
Cristina - I KNEW that was how you was feeling. Its kind of like sex in someone elses house...or something weird like that. Something about the "naughty" of it that is appealing. Hopefully your Dr's orders don't include the ones you can't control..I know I've had dreams and had the big O before!
post #13 of 31
We are not doing it, though I want to! All The Time. Husband is not interested, though
post #14 of 31
Oh heck ya! This is usually my first pregnancy symptom. Dh has even told me with dd and this time that I want it TOO MUCH. Now I'm taking a medicine that curbs my desire A LOT, so it's not been too often and getting less. But before this medicine it was quite frequently. More than before I got pregnant.
post #15 of 31
Hey everyone, I'm due, allegedly, in the last week of April but since this is my first pg I'm betting I actually deliver in May, so might as well hang out ;-)

I've always been a hornball and DH and I enjoyed more fun and frequent relations until I had a week long spotting episode in October a couple days after we had sex. It Freaked-Me-Out. So much that we haven't had sex since. I tried for the whole "everything except actual penetration" concept, but he isn't really into it and I just don't enjoy orgasms now- my uterus gets all tight and now that it's even bigger, it hurts that much more and freaks me out. So even when I'm really horny, like the past few days, just the thought of how an orgasm makes me contract is enough to chase the feeling away :-(

I'm okay with it now, I'll just start the engines back up when baby is full term to get labor moving along ;-)

xoxoxoxo

Beth
post #16 of 31
Uh, not much. I had much more energy in the 2nd tri with my other pg's and now I'm just plain tired all the time- all I want is a backrub and to go to sleep! Plus, my sciatica is back and it makes any position really uncomfortable I'm hoping my libido comes back and that my back stops hurting constantly, for dh's sake. He's really patient, but I know he's wishing for some
post #17 of 31
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Originally Posted by Boof
I just don't enjoy orgasms now- my uterus gets all tight and now that it's even bigger, it hurts that much more and freaks me out
That happened to me last night! I couldn't believe the feeling! I had read that the big O can cause braxton Hicks, so I just went with it. I actually thought it was pretty cool cause I could feel my entire uterus when I palpated my belly.

Kayleezoo-- I'm having the worst Sciatica, too. It drives me insane! I can't sit on the couch in a comfortable position. I've now moved one of our wooden kitchen chairs out into the living room for me to sit in while we are all out there. It sucks. I want so bad to cuddle up to DH on the couch and watch a movie...

Jenn
post #18 of 31
I am with you Desa. between the three kids and these dumb twelve hour shifts, sleep is so much more appealing that the big o. When we went to the ob specialist he kept repeating to my hubby that we were not to have sex (any kind) after thirty weeks (history of prom) he said it over and over again until my husband informed him he had already been pretty much cut off, already. I give in maybe once a week or every two weeks just for sympathy. but if I go to full term I bet I can rev it up
crystal
post #19 of 31
Totally not iinterested! *shrug*
post #20 of 31
Ok you not interested mamas, can you pass that on to me!!!!!! I keep dreaming of intimacy!!!! It is driving me nuts. I am on Dr orders, due to spotting & "possible" placenta aburption, not to have sex & I dream it! It is driving me crazy! So lets switch! I will take your not interested & you can have my drive.
I do not want to dream, because the last two times I spotted, I had a sex dream the night before. Freaky!
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