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My OB:Her Change of Style And Beliefs, wanted to share  

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First, I want to say that the OB I am using is great for me. I am going to continue to use her. She is so onboard with what I want for my scheduled csection and prenatal care and this is my last baby. However, unless someone I knew wanted to have a csection, I don't see myself recommending her to people I know. Which is really kind of sad.

I have known my OB for a long time. When I was a teenager, my mother had two friends who used a local midwife and the OB I am currently using did their backup care (went in 2-3 times, ultrasound, and just in case). She had children of her own and decided to leave her practice to be a SAHM. Something I really respected. I got to know her through my work, and then when I was pregnant with my youngest child, she was doing GYN part time and then started her OB practice up again. No one was at my appointment today so I had some time to sit and chat with her. It was kind of sad how she now feels about birth in general. She said her main goal in her practice was to have live babies and live mommas -- that her csection rate was around 30%, and that if a patient wanted this very natural childbirth experience, she probably wasnt the right doctor for them. She is totally against homebirth now (she didn't elaborate why) and she said she fully supported a woman's right to choose a csection (for no other reason than to want one). Believe it or not though, she does do VBACs, and supports women in having one (with monitor, IV and the like). I just found it all so surreal and sad.
I believe she has been spooked and that something greatly changed her way of thinking from all those years ago. I just found it interesting.
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So sad, Kim...you know we need dr.'s down here who support natural childbirth b/c they are SO few and far between. I am glad that she is willing to help you have the birth you want, though

p.s. thanks for the PM...i appreciated that info.
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I know what you mean. By what you said, I get the same "feeling", that maybe something happened to her that made her feel that way. At least she supports YOUR decision, and that's important.
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Originally Posted by Ligmom
So sad, Kim...you know we need dr.'s down here who support natural childbirth b/c they are SO few and far between. I am glad that she is willing to help you have the birth you want, though

p.s. thanks for the PM...i appreciated that info.
There is a doctor in the group I go too that does support natural childbirth in a hospital setting and VBAC. I believe we have some aquaintances that used him. He wasn't in the group I am with until this past year however.
As I said, this Dr. is great for me, but I would definitely not recommend her to anyone wanting a Bradley Birth, etc.
post #5 of 6
That's very weird. A personal experience is one thing but now she creates unhealthy scenarios for other women by having a 30% c-sec rate and is obviously ignoring all the studies on VBAC and normal physiological birth possibly because of something which ocurred in her presence? This is scary stuff.
J
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I don't know the details Kim, but Janet sounds kind of on target...I wonder what caused her to change.
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