ella-makes-3: If you are used to a NoJo, then switching to a non padded sling may be the best for you. I'd suggest looking at the Maya sling or Taylor Made sling. Aslo

I make a great nonpadded sling that has a pleated shoulder that I find that I prefer over the shoulder cap of the Maya. IM me if you want details. Only thing: I'm not taking any more orders after this month. With all slings mentioned above.... They are great from newborn to 35 lbs and are MUCH less bulky to carry around. I still use a sling with Chloe (who is 2 years old 25 lbs)
I've never tried a wrap, but didn't personally care for the Mei Tai due to not as much privacy. The unpaddes slings have great tails that are wonderful for discrete breastfeeding or shade from the sun. Hope that info helps. Take care!
Tricia