I don't know alot about unassisted birth so forgive me if this is perhaps a silly question. I am just wondering what you do if there is tearing that requires stiches. Do you just go to the doctor the next day or what? This is really the only part about being unassisted that "bothers" me. I am wondering what others have done and how often it is even an issue.
Mothering › Forums › Pregnancy and Birth › Birth and Beyond › Unassisted Childbirth › what about stiches?
Join Now
Be a part of the community.
It's free, join today!
Recent Reviews
-
My mom gave me this for Christmas and I absolutely love it. Gorgeous illustrations and very sweet ideas inside. Plus it's just structured enough so that I can be creative about what I include...
-
This is the prettiest carrier, and fit my shoulders and figure (at 5'6") much better than the Ergo. I got it when my daughter was about nine months, two years ago - it doesn't appear to have...
-
This potty is great - excellent value & performance! (plus it's cute!) My 9 month old DS took to it right away. He is a big boy (30 in. tall - feet not quite on floor - & 27 lbs.) and this is...
-
This book feels good in your hands. The paper is heavyweight, and the illustrations flow perfectly.
-
To anyone looking for a carrier, BECO is the brand! I recently had purchased the Gemini, great carrier! It has everything you will ever need and want, its ergonomic, comfy, organic, made...
what about stiches?
post #2 of 9
1/21/05 at 5:32pm
I think that women who birth without directed pushing RARELY will need stitches. What other animals need to be repaired after birth? It just doesn't make sense. But yes, like everything else, if there is something terribly out of the ordinary that requires medical treatment, you could seek it.
-Angela
(who declined stitches at her homebirth and is VERY glad she did....)
-Angela
(who declined stitches at her homebirth and is VERY glad she did....)
post #3 of 9
1/21/05 at 6:39pm
- erindaugherty
- Trader Feedback: 0
-
- offline
- 102 Posts. Joined 1/2005
- Location: Orange County, Ca
- Select All Posts By This User
Good question
The reason I am considering an unassited birth next time is stitches. I had 100's after a midwife birth with forced interventions. On one hand I think nature is the best way...but what about third or forth degree lacerations??Erin
www.mybirthstory.blogspot.com
post #4 of 9
1/21/05 at 9:02pm
- majazama
- Trader Feedback: +18
- strong medicine
-
- offline
- 4,663 Posts. Joined 8/2003
- Location: mountains of bc
- Select All Posts By This User
Like the one of the PP's said, if you are not doing much really direct pushing, there is rarely need for stitches. Part of the UC mindset is to let your body do what it has to do without interfering with that. Well, I guess the whole basis of UC is that, actually.
post #5 of 9
1/21/05 at 9:11pm
- kavamamakava
- Trader Feedback: +6
-
- offline
- 4,271 Posts. Joined 8/2004
- Location: Seattle
- Select All Posts By This User
If you have a minor tear, you can just do sitz baths and compresses to speed healing and it will knit back together. If you have a larger tear that is bleeding profusely or requires medical attention, then you seek it. I had a minor tear on my scar at my last birth and my midwife offered to put a stitch in because she wasn't sure how it would close on the scar. But I didn't want to be messed with in that area so I just left it alone. It knit back together anyway.
post #6 of 9
1/21/05 at 11:55pm
This is one of THE most common questions about unassisted birth. Every few months it seems someone starts a new thread about it. 
Episiotomy causes tearing. Fingers inside the vagina and stretching the perineum causes tearing. Inhibition, by way of tenseness of the tissues and hindrance of the relase of tissue-softening hormones, causes tearing. Voluntary and directed pushing (because the pushing is happening before the tissues are ready for it) causes tearing.
Women rarely tear when they give birth instinctively and spontaneously and undistracted. I have never heard of a deep tear (into muscle) in such a situation.
Small tears heal best on their own. Deeper tears that need stitches -- well, if it did happen I'd ask a midwife to repair it or go to the hospital. But the fear of having to do so certainly wouldn't keep me from UC, because there is virtually zero chance of it happening.

Episiotomy causes tearing. Fingers inside the vagina and stretching the perineum causes tearing. Inhibition, by way of tenseness of the tissues and hindrance of the relase of tissue-softening hormones, causes tearing. Voluntary and directed pushing (because the pushing is happening before the tissues are ready for it) causes tearing.
Women rarely tear when they give birth instinctively and spontaneously and undistracted. I have never heard of a deep tear (into muscle) in such a situation.
Small tears heal best on their own. Deeper tears that need stitches -- well, if it did happen I'd ask a midwife to repair it or go to the hospital. But the fear of having to do so certainly wouldn't keep me from UC, because there is virtually zero chance of it happening.
post #7 of 9
1/22/05 at 12:11am
- hawkfeather
- Trader Feedback: 0
-
- offline
- 888 Posts. Joined 1/2005
- Location: Elphinstone
- Select All Posts By This User
i haven't ever had a tear thankfully and hopefully never will.. if you don't push during the second stage and let your body do it's stuff you should be fine.. the lithomy position increases the risk of tearing as well..
i agree with letting your body heal naturally.. baths with chickweed or comfrey help.. as well honey on small *skid marks* helps and I do know more than one compitant woman who used super glue.. however repairing your own tears is *ify* in my opinion as realigning a wound incorrectly increases the risk of future injury as well as pain with sex and urination.. i think too many women assume they will tear it is a rare risk in a normal birth...if i ever ended up with a bad tear i would likely just call our local middy or make a doctors appt for the following day or go itno hospital for repair...
i agree with letting your body heal naturally.. baths with chickweed or comfrey help.. as well honey on small *skid marks* helps and I do know more than one compitant woman who used super glue.. however repairing your own tears is *ify* in my opinion as realigning a wound incorrectly increases the risk of future injury as well as pain with sex and urination.. i think too many women assume they will tear it is a rare risk in a normal birth...if i ever ended up with a bad tear i would likely just call our local middy or make a doctors appt for the following day or go itno hospital for repair...
post #8 of 9
1/26/05 at 11:29am
There are things that you can do to prevent tears, but I have needed to learn how to ascertain whether or not there is a tear in the first place.
Tears that do not involve muscle will usually knit together well. Muscle tissue, however, retracts when it is broken.
Tears that do not involve muscle will usually knit together well. Muscle tissue, however, retracts when it is broken.
post #9 of 9
1/26/05 at 5:07pm
- NatureMama3
- Trader Feedback: 0
-
- offline
- 5,740 Posts. Joined 2/2004
- Location: Catching life's curveballs
- Select All Posts By This User
I doubt one would be necessary, BUT.. if something happened (you forgot and pushed, etc) for a minor tear likely nothing beyond regular wound treatment. For slightly worse you could use "human glue" (superglue like stuff that many ERs now use on almost all tears/cuts now). For a much worse I'd probably see a midwife or doc for suturing. But that's just MY comfort level.
Return Home
Back to Forum: Unassisted Childbirth
This thread is locked
Mothering › Forums › Pregnancy and Birth › Birth and Beyond › Unassisted Childbirth › what about stiches?
Currently, there are 1642 Active Users
(232 Members and 1410 Guests)
Recent Discussions
- › Where did the idea come from that little kids are better off NOT... 1 minute ago
- › Can't shake weird feeling that this birth won't go like the... 3 minutes ago
- › Nap Time 3 minutes ago
- › New Year, More Bajingo Juice! TTC#1 in our 30s - January 2012 5 minutes ago
- › Infertility ONE Thread GRADUATES!!! - Winter/Spring 2012 7 minutes ago
- › Calling all VBAC hopeful ladies!! 7 minutes ago
- › Does anyone know the most current promo code for the FREE Seven Sling? 9 minutes ago
- › Maternity leave VENT 11 minutes ago
- › 10-15 Minute Cleaning Sessions (New Thread) 15 minutes ago
- › all things crafty for mama and baby 16 minutes ago
View: New Posts | All Discussions
Recent Reviews
- › The First 1000 Days: A Baby Journal by MrsKatie
- › Beco Butterfly II Carrier by capucine
- › Fisher-Price Precious Planet Froggy Friend Potty by pickle18
- › Embrace: A Pregnancy Journal by mama kk
- › Beco Baby Carrier Gemini by 2jmama
- › Bummis Super Whisper Wrap by sweetBBkendall
- › BabyHawk Oh SNAP! Baby Carrier by 2jmama
- › Raising Abel by lauren
- › Keter 115-gallon Capacity Super Composter by MonarchMom
- › Gaiam Pencil Skirt by Melanie Mayo
View: More Reviews
Recent Articles
- › Contest Terms and Conditions -... by Cynthia Mosher
- › Contest Terms and Conditions - Sasquatch... by JenniO11
- › Teach Your Children Spanish With Little Pim by John Martin
- › How to Start a Social Group by Cynthia Mosher
- › Boba Carrier 3G Giveaway Contest Rules by MDCLurker
- › Best of Mothering 2011 Official Rules by MDCLurker
- › Babywearing Basics by Peggy O'Mara
- › Groups Guidelines by Cynthia Mosher
- › Sex Talk Forum by almadianna
- › Nfp Or Fam Methods While Breastfeeding by JMJ
View: Recent Articles | All Articles
Home | Reviews & More | Forums | Articles | My Profile
About Mothering | Join the Community | Advertise
© 2012 Mothering is powered by Huddler Families | FAQ | Support | Privacy/TOS | Site Map
About Mothering | Join the Community | Advertise
© 2012 Mothering is powered by Huddler Families | FAQ | Support | Privacy/TOS | Site Map







