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post #101 of 564
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I also can't stop thinking about those towels in the closet needing to be folded, LOL. I have a unique way of folding clothes... I adjust my fold depending on the space available where they go. For instance, my guest room towels are on a wide shelf, so I fold them in half lengthwise, then in half and half again, into a large square. But my regular bath towels are on a narrow shelf. So I fold them in half lengthwise (It's just too much trouble to fold in thirds, imo, LOL) then in half, then THIRDS. I adjust my and dh's clothes that way, too. He has requested his stuff be folded like the stuff at the mall... sleeves and shoulders folded back, so that the design and collar are showing. I just fold my own shirts like I fold the towels.
Aww, heck, I didn't mean to cause you all such anxiety! It's true you probably wouldn't do well with my style of housekeeping, but hey it works for us, right? And it's not DIRTY, it's actually quite clean, it's just cluttered!

I don't do dirt, but stuff doesn't bother me in the least. My work clothes and DH's are nicely hung up, but as for everything else I just don't bother...

I just discovered that my porker of a daughter fits into her 12 month clothes. Holy crow, I can't believe it. DH and I are both fairly thin, small people, and I don't know where we got this little giant from!

Anyway, I just wanted to say sorry for bringing up about the towels and all that, and say msrog best wishes to your mom....
post #102 of 564
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Originally Posted by bendmom
Lynchmon, do you ever come to Bend? We live down on the river and I love it. Although, it is def. turning into a rich resort town.
We haven't been in a couple of years, but plan to go soon to visit my grandparents. The population seems to be steadily growing. Bend gets bigger and bigger each time we visit. You live by the river? Beautiful! I would definitely want to live in that area if we ever moved there. I remember last time we were there we went to a park in the middle of all these beautiful homes right on the river. I can't remember the name of the park though. Do you live near there?
post #103 of 564
I'm asking this question again. No one replied to it when I posted it last time. I would love some input.

I have noticed that DS has started to hit himself in the head when we're feeding him. Is this normal? DH is starting to worry.

I was also finally able to get a picture of his two bottom teeth!! Also, a drool picture. Dh was able to get out of the way in time.

Pics
post #104 of 564
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Originally Posted by lynchmon
I'm asking this question again. No one replied to it when I posted it last time. I would love some input.

I have noticed that DS has started to hit himself in the head when we're feeding him. Is this normal? DH is starting to worry.

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Sorry, Mel, I have no experience or advice with that....
post #105 of 564
lynchmon - ds doesn't hit himself when he's nursing, but does sometimes whack himself on the head with his toys. He doesn't really have much control over his arms yet, so he flails them and ends up hitting himself. :LOL
I have not given him solids yet, so I don't know if he would be doing that while being feed. Don't know if that helps or not.
post #106 of 564
Oh, sorry. I meant when he's being given a bottle.
post #107 of 564
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i was at the store this afternoon and lilah was in the sling. this lady came up and was going on and on about how cute lilah is. and then...

she looks at my stomach and says,
"are you having another one?"

post #108 of 564
No way! I'm confused. You're a little thing, at least from what I'm seeing in your pics. What was your response? Did she feel bad? How horrible. I'm sorry you had to be subjected to that.
post #109 of 564
well i'm pretty tall and the thing is i look pretty normal everywhere but in my belly. in fact, i can totally see how someone would think i was a few months pregnant. but, geesh, did she have to ask?! doesn't she know that unless a woman is seriously, no denying it, at least 8 months pregnant and in maternity clothes, you don't ask?!

she did feel bad i guess. i just said no. poo!

oh well. it's really not that big a deal i know but heck!
post #110 of 564
Welcome to all the new mamas

About the hitting, DS has started hitting himself sometimes when he is in his carseat. I think he does it because he is trying out his arms, and seeing what he can do. My cousin's son bangs his head on the hardwood floors constantly. (and he has a BIG head) She asked around and the Dr.'s and other midwives she works with weren't too concerned, and said he'd grow out of it. Who knows?

Miles spits up a lot, too. Between that and the drool, I have about 8-9 dirty bibs a day, 3 outfit changes (me and him) and lots of prefolds to wash (on top of the ones used on his bum!) Oddly enough, he doesn't spit up at night too much, which is good because DH insists on washing the sheets everytime he gets a dot on there!

Miles has started to roll over when naked, and is sitting on his own. I can start to see the teeth coming through. I wish they'd just come in already! I am NOT excited to get bitten, but why put off the inevitable just to have a drooly, sore baby?! We visited the in-laws this weekend, and traveling with cloth was a lot easier than I thought. Also, my MIL is SO supportive. I think since she's older and did cloth only? Sometimes I feel guilty that I have such a great MIL. :
post #111 of 564
[QUOTE=lynchmon]I'm asking this question again. No one replied to it when I posted it last time. I would love some input.

I have noticed that DS has started to hit himself in the head when we're feeding him. Is this normal? DH is starting to worry.



It's perfectly normal. Arowen does it all the time. :LOL
post #112 of 564
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Originally Posted by lynchmon
Oh, sorry. I meant when he's being given a bottle.

I didn't notice this. I'm sure it's not a problem.
post #113 of 564
I think it's totally normal, Mel. You can assure your dh that your baby does not have autism or anything, LOL. I think Nicolas hit himself like that, too. It's a kind of sleepy happy soothing thing... I used to try to gently move his hand away and occupy it another way.

Just when Mom was getting better... She somehow fell while making a potty trip, and might have a broken foot! And supposedly she had someone assisting her at the time!?!? We are SO ready for her to come home. Argh.

Cute drool and teeth pictures! I'm so glad you told us that dh got out of the way before being slimed... that would have worried me forever, LOL.
post #114 of 564
Sistermama, cheers for our Lucys!

Llyra, I recognize you from another board, one where you are the minority voice against CIO etc. ... funny, I thought you should be on MDC, and here you are. I saw your daughter in an "anarchy" t-shirt on the other board & was sad that I could not upload my picture of Lucy in her "Anarchy in the Pre-K" onesie.
post #115 of 564
Hey we have an "Anarchy in the Pre-K" shirt for Chloë too (we also have it on a dress too)! I love the Lucky Lil' Devil site (I'm assuming you got your shirt from there also). We also had their black dress with a skull and crossbones on it for Chloë when she was younger. Now LaRue has a "Can't Sleep, Clowns Will Eat Me" shirt (I think that is so funny) and a "Born Lucky" long-sleeve black onesie. I just ordered a black long-sleeve romper with sparrows on it, but I think it was left on our doorstop and someone stole it (as well as a "rockstar" shirt I bought on the TP)
post #116 of 564
Sorry I've been AWOL for the last week or so. The "plague" hit this house with a vengence. Lots of gooey noses and horrible coughs. All weekend I've been dealing with the spins from cold medicine. Ugh I hate that stuff. it doesn't look like it affected my milk supply too much, of course Aidan wanted to nurse almost non-stop. I was taking Zicom too. Eek I'd hate to think what it would have been like without it. Tori is finally over it (still a little bit of a cough), she's had it the worst. It started for her almost 10 days ago. Even Aidan got it some, he slept in his swing for the last week. Otherwise he'd cough non-stop. And aaaah nothing like having someone blow snot out all over your boob at 4am while he nurses.

HOLY SNIKIES!! (is that clean enough : : ) Okay we seriously need our own forum. :LOL This thread is already 6 pages long and its the first week of February.

Okay to quickly respond to this major thread...

Carolyn I'm so sorry about the baby. I totally understand those "mixed feelings". I often felt like I shortchanged Jackson when I got pregnant with Aidan. I still feel guilty for only BFing him 13+ months and not longer like I did with Tori (2.5+ years).

Jen- Any word from the Doc yet? Hoping its just a stuborn dry spot.

Savannah- thinking about you and your mom.

Pam- There IS light at the end of the tunnel... and it isn't a train. Not much longer. Not much longer.

Welcome to the newbies joining the Sep Chatfest.

Let's see...

Rants about DH and his "helpfulness" or lack of sometimes. Ooooh he drives me up the wall with the dishes. He hates to do dishes, not my favorite thing either but hey they have to get done. When he cooks... he uses EVERY flippin' (again clean enough??) pan and dish. And can't possibly do a little cleaning as he goes... heck no it's pile it all in the sink and leave it. And guess who gets to clean it up? And who gets to clean it up when I cook? Yep, ME!!! On the "rare" occasion he does clean the kitchen there is ALWAYS something that gets left undone. Pots & pans left on the stove. Or food left out on the counter. Drives me crazy. And heaven FORBID he open the dishwasher and LOOK to see if they are clean or dirty. He just "assumes" they are whatever is inapporiate for what he's doing. Can't put a dirty dish in there "thought they were clean". Can't unload them "thought they were dirty".
He's pretty good about helping around the house. Sometimes I have to "remind" him that when he gets home that doesn't mean sit on the couch or at your computer with your face glued to it. I pretty much make him get up with Tori & Jack on the mornings he's off(sat-mon, got to love a 4-day work week ). I get up when Aidan is ready to get up for the day... and lately with being sick... I've been going back to bed so he's had all three of them in the mornings. I think it has "reopened" his eyes to how much work there is around here. :LOL

Aidan started rolling over about 3 weeks ago. Suddenly one moment he was laying quietly on his back... next thing I looked down he was on his tummy. Moments later was suddened ruckus with Jack I looked back at Aidan again... he was back on his back. He has definitely figured out the proper "motions" for crawling... opposing arms and legs movement but he hasn't tried to actually lift himself up off the floor yet. He had his but in the air two days ago and had a look like "I think I might do something...".

He's also doing a full fledged cackling laugh. Usually when I'm sitting there looking at him, turn my face away, look back and gasp in suprise. Do it enough times he goes from smiles, to BIG smiles to giggle to full on belly laughing cackles. He also loves to be "chinned" (poke him with my chin in his side or his arm).

I think it was a couple weeks ago now that Aidan discovered his voice... at 5am in the morning. : For several mornings in a row he woke up at about 5am and just started chattering and/or Whoot Owling in his bassinet at the foot of our bed. Not exactly when you want a chatterbox. :LOL :LOL

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Originally Posted by llyra
Can babies have nightmares? Yeah, this is totally off-topic and random, but the strangest thing happened last night. Julia was sleeping. It was about 11, and I was lying next to her reading, and all of a sudden she sort of stiffened out, flung her arms out, opened her eyes (only this all happened in an instant) and SCREAMED. Not like that silly scream she's been doing just 'cause she loves her voice. This was like when she was newborn and I'd try to give her a bath-- a scream of terror. She turned all red and cried for like a minute, and then fell right back asleep. I didn't even have time to pick her up; I just put a hand on her belly. She didn't even look at me; her eyes were wide and she looked terrified, like when I run the vacuum cleaner (my daughter is scared half to death by the vacuum.)
Sounds like a gas bubble to me. All of mine have done something like that... usually followed by some loud gurgling in the belly or a loud... how shall we say... expulsion of air from the posterior.

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Originally Posted by llyra
What would a baby nightmare be like? Maybe she dreamed the milk dried up, or maybe it was a dream about an interminably wet diaper, or having to have her nose unclogged over and over, or maybe (!) it was about the vacuum cleaner running! :
: :

Definitely HEY WHERE'S MY BOOB!! : We've often joked when seeing one of the babies grin really big in their sleep... "aah dreamin' about the boobage". :

Who was is that said "no purple dinosaur'? ITA there is no Evil Purple Thing allowed in this house. :scold :scold Don't care if he is from Texas... not gonna do it, not gonna do it. :LOL Actually DH is move anti-B than I am. He's the one that calls it the Evil Purple Thing. :

Head whacking.
DS#1 would sometimes whack himself in the head while he was nursing. He'd also whack his head on the floor sometimes too. So far doesn't appear to have caused any brain damage. Just makes us wonder if he'd going to be our football scholarship boy. J/king. He did learn it wasn't good to whack his head on the kitchen floor... tile is not soft.

Yes... there is a proper way to fold towels. Half, then half, then tri-fold. Unless its going to hung up... then it is trifold first then half and half again. :

Okay its REALLY late now and I started this post way too long ago. Night.
post #117 of 564
I think I need to implement the "everybody pile into bed and take a nap" thing on a very strict basis - as in, every day, no matter what!! I am going nuts and feeling totally overwhelmed by fussy, over tired kids who aren't napping well. Add to that that *I'M* tired (and fussy :LOL), and it's a bad, bad combination. Iain's not as easy to put down these days as he used to be, and it's driving me nuts. I dunno if his reflux is getting worse, or he just doesn't like to lay down, or what. He's doing best falling asleep upright, which means I hold him while I try to get things done on the computer, until he passes out. He's also nursing to sleep more frequently, which he used to almost never do. This whole thing of changing constantly is enough to drive one insane!

Plans are coming together for our move. I've spent the last couple of days planning where we're staying along the route. I think we'll take 5 days to make the trip from Houston to Santa Cruz, and we'll get to visit both of our dads and probably some other family along the way. It's slowly sinking in that we're *really* doing this. Now, I need to get things organized and packed... We've decided we won't pack everything just yet, but there's a TON of decluttering and organizing to be done. And TONS of other "life" that needs to happen before we go.

We did have a good time on our weekend retreat. CDing went really well on the trip. I ended up with a lot more diapers than I used, but better that than too few! :LOL Iain had his own suitcase, with the main compartment full of dipes and a little pocket on the lid with his clothes in it. :LOL Everyone thought he was super cute and DH did a good job of holding him so that I could have an extended break. I really needed that because my shoulder was killing me and it really was hard to hold him much. The next day, though, it was better, which was good because I ended up having to walk and rock him to sleep while the one meeting of the retreat wound up. Have I mentioned that I my KKACP? It was so helpful for walking and rocking him! I wish it had helped the night he screamed from 12am to 1am, not wanting to sleep. I was sure the whole place could hear him. : He eventually fell asleep sitting upright in his stroller (we'd brought for a bed), in the bathroom with the tub running (which he'd earlier decided he just wanted to watch), with his pacifier, blankie, and me jostling the stroller over the tiled floor. I dunno what I would've done if that hadn't finally worked. I was SO at the end of my rope then.

Anybody else finding themselves at the end of the rope more these days? I gotta figure I'm way tired and that has a lot to do with it. I just end up losing my patience with both of them by late afternoon/evening. Hopefully napping more (for all of us) will help.

Speaking of being tired, here I am putting my head on my desk, yet not going to bed... Perhaps I should read my own post and go be sensible.

Welcome, new mamas!

Savannah, hope your mom is home soon!

Chrissy, how awful for her to say that! I sometimes catch myself thinking I still am pg, then figure I better stand up a bit straighter or something and not look so much the part. :LOL

Samantha, glad to see you back! :

Iain isn't really rolling yet, but he'll push up enough to straighten his arms fully, then he'll get his knees up under him and his bum in the air. We keep laughing that he just has to do it at the same time and he'll be off! :LOL He does roll side-to-side, and boy can he move in circles! I just can't believe how much he's growing up! Oh, he's sitting pretty well, too, in the tripod sit. He can sit for a few minutes at times, though others he topples pretty quickly. He'll often adjust his balance, which is a good sign. He LOVES his feet! He's so stinkin' cute when he grabs his feet - usually when partially or fully naked. He just sits there and *grins!* He kept doing it when I gave him a bath tonight. Then he discovered splashing! He was SO tickled with himself, and tried it a few times cautiously, then did it over and over - enough so that I called DH in to come see and he actually got to see something! :LOL Still no teeth. I think I'll have a party when they finally come in. He's gushing drool and chewing constantly. But no tooth yet. He will LAUGH and LAUGH at his brother! It's so funny to watch them and see what Iain finds amusing. He really reacts to Gabriel's smiling and laughing, so you get quite a self-perpetuating thing going on. Too cute. He'll do the belly laugh watching Gabriel be silly on his playhouse. I always want to get video of it, but I'm always holding Iain, and I don't really want video of me sitting at the computer in my jammies! :LOL

Okay, I'm really heading to bed now... Need to make use of the time when they actually DO sleep!

Hope everyone has a wonderful night/day tomorrow!
post #118 of 564
my son seems to think that 6 am is an acceptable time to start the day. and what makes me even more grouchy is that he was asleep when I laid him back down on the bed, and then he woke back up.

Can you tell I'm tired?

The dr said that the scraping "came back negative for everything bad". So I've been going pretty hardcore with the lansinoh. It still is flaky but at least not so dry and red. She thinks it has to do with his latch but I can't figure out another position to nurse him in where it won't be affected. He's too big to do the football hold anywhere.

Tristan is so uninterested in rolling over.

I'm too tired to concentrate right now. I'm going to lay down and maybe I will fall asleep in spite of Tristan's squeaking in the background (he's sitting in his bouncy chair).

Wouldn't someone make me some coffee?
post #119 of 564
Samantha....I LOVE the chin thing...my babies always laughed the hardest when I would tickle them that way! Glad you all are feeling better, taht really is tough when the house gets "hit" like that!

Heather...Jackson has been the same way, not laying down, not sleeping...I took him to a specialist yesterday and what do you know.....he has GERD. His throat already has some "damage"...red raw spots from the acid coming up. It might be worth checking out as it *may* lead to long term damage if not treated. I was told it could be as simple as cutting all dairy from my diet, or whatever his sensitivity is. I don't know how valid it is, but I am just starting to really look into it.

Jen...glad to hear about those test results. I have been wondering. Come on over, I would LOVE to have MDC mommy here for coffee!!



Well, Jackson is a champion roller now. He flips over so quick from his back to his belly, but he can't figure out how to go from his belly to his back. He has to master the hard stuff first! There is no way he is trying to crawl, although he does stretch his arms in front of him. I am not ready for crawling yet!

I am really get a kick in the you-know-what about parenting. I was always so sure that I was doing the right thing and others were just *wrong*. Well, my baby is now sitting in the exersaucer (helps the reflux) after sleeping the first night in his own crib. I never thought I would have a baby sleep in another room, but he really WOULDN"T sleep anymore. HE has been up every hour for weeks, and I just couldn't take it anymore. My husband suggested trying him out in his crib and if he cried we would take him back to our bed. Well, he finally got a GREAT nights sleep. He only woke up three times during the night. He is now happy and playing on the floor with the girls. I feel so rejected...but also better in away becasue I have slept. Oh, the conflicts of parenting.

I still haven't started bleeding yet, but I am crampy. So I guess it is going to start. I want to avoid a D&C. Well, the kids are wanting me, so I better wrap this up.

Happy Fat Tuesday!!

~C~
post #120 of 564
Well, Kate finally rolled over..and I missed it! I put her down on a blanket while I packed up some food for a LLL mom, and when I looked into the living room, she was on her tummy! Hasn't done it since...

She still is way too wobbly to sit up though....

And has no interest in her feet....

And has decided she doesn't want to take a morning nap...
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